Im kinda into being lightly abused or humiliated, i don't think i can enjoy pain during sex unless its spanking tho iv been slapped (lightly) once and i liked it so take my post for what its worth.
What i get from it is that i feel really insecure sometimes, and its just a relief when someone confirms my insecurities, its refreshing to hear a guy call me a dumb bitch because as messed up as it sounds, IN THE MOMENT AND ONLY DURING SEX i'm like "Yes! I am a dumb bitch who fucks random black guys so she feels good about herself! Now that its out there i can just accept it and relax because you're being honest!" or something in my head.
I also get turned on from being treated like trash, but again only in low dosages and you gotta know when to stop. Its also related to insecurities because i'v been with a lot of guys, and i feel like guys won't want because i'm used goods (not true by the way lol) and a guy treat me like trash in a way that shows his dominance over me makes me feel validated and wanted. Also it feels a little "normal" since my parents used to make me feel ashamed of myself and worthless.
Like a relation feels like its missing something if my boyfriend doesn't make me feel like shit sexually, i'll say if once or twice every few weeks he comes over just so i can give him head and gets mad at me for not doing it right and tells me i'm a literally a worthless slut in away that feels like he actually means it, and leaves immediately after he finishes i'd feel comfortable with it. Kinda feels like if he doesn't treat me like shit he doesn't want me since i guess i assume all men want to use a woman as an object secretly? I know thats really toxic but i can't help but "feel" this way since dudes are such pigs to me or i guess it might be because my parents kinda kept telling me something similar my whole childhood.
And one more thing, I don't know how to explain it but being treated like i'm worthless is amusing to me, like i do feel depressed and sad but there's also a weird element of fun in there as well. Its kinda like riding a roller coaster because you know you're not actually going to get hurt and you'll be ok, its just a thrill.
thank you for being so thorough I do like your Beatles tshirt
It's hard to tell what has lead to this particular kink. I suppose it's just moving on to more extreme kinks. I started having sex since I was 15/16 and over time I've had many different kinks and fetishes. For me it's more of a mental satisfaction than pleasure.
I always had guys giving me pervy looks. All my guy friends always wanted to fuck me. So that lead to me having threesome, foursome and eventually moving on to gangbangs. Then I started to get labelled as slut, whore, sex toy, fuck meat things like that. When I thought about it I realised I actually was all of those. Started to think of my body as pleasure toy. Started to think about all the guys that got pleasure using just one body. That led to me sleeping around with more guys.
In terms of degradation and humiliation kink I think that comes with respect I get from my Job. I work as a senior manager so always in control plus guys always play nice with me when I'm out and about. All the attention and everything can be quite draining. So sometimes it feels good to switch things and get treated like trash. May sound a bit weird.
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I pretty much agree with what Kate said. I think it stems from basically having low self-esteem and view of myself. I like to be treated the way I think guys would want to treat me. Cut the bullshit and just use me, however. I takes the pressure off, it's not hard to turn your brain off and be an object for a guy. It's not all bad, I do find it enjoyable on some level.
I have no idea why but I love it
Mine came from an early age of sexual abuse and now that's just how I like having sex.
I just like being fucked hard thats it
What it comes down to for me is I enjoy the fantasy of a man manhandling me. Choking, spanking and making me feel like a woman. I don't know what else to say.
mainly because, it is my kink
I got sexually harassed
Brainwashing
Bc my dad abused me, so it feels normal to seek that out in a partner
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