What's something someone's done or said to you during sex that instantly turned you off?

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Roseinbloom · Accepted Answer

Shoved their dick in my face without my permission, wanna deep throat?, wanna play with my dick (when not in the mood?), when they only want to do it to cheat on someone else, got me purposely drunk in the way they knew how to so they could fuck me to mess with another girl that was cheating on him and I didn't know about it until I became sober of it (next day and my body's reactions I recognized, got after him yet he did it again when I told him not to to get back at the same woman again and I put my foot down in between stopped talking to him etc. Then when he got to me when I was down in many ways i just wanted sleep was when he did it the 2nd or 3rd time. I was pissed after everybody in town heard me and I wasn't ashamed because they knew something was going on and I don't like gossip/rumors. Boy he wasn't happy. He tried apologizing in many ways. I'm one that forgives easily and when I get pissed off watch out (yes I have but I'm not contacting him/talking to him) and he was very close to seeing my all out not so healthy pissed off blackout rage for what he has been doing and saying shit to me. Anyways. Turn off also is when people lie!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

- told each guy I hook up with that I had a traumatizing first bj exp, but they still ask me for a bj -_-
- this guy kiss all over my mouth...
- same one position...
- can't find my vagina hole multiple times.. or it slips out..
- cums in 5-10 mins...
- kissed my boobs and literally cum after that within 10 mins..
- kept talking/worrying about his "sister" or maybe his girlfriend/wife in between... cheaters are turn offs
- bit my boobs/nipples too hard.. felt like he was gonna ripped it
- doggy style was fun til it was painful..

SystemOfTheMachine · Accepted Answer

I've never been in a situation where I've been turned off. And I'm glad for it. But, some of these comments really reminded me of some poetry about sex without love. Here is an excerpt from a classic, T. S. Eliot's "The Wasteland",

"She turns and looks a moment in the glass,
Hardly aware of her departed lover;
Her brain allows one half-formed thought to pass:
'Well now that's done: and I'm glad it's over.'
When lovely woman stoops to folly and
Paces around her room again, alone,
She smoothes her hair with automatic hand"

When I was in college, my professor thought this was the most horrifying part of the wasteland. Sex without love. He was a romantic.

Welcome to the dark future.

nonratracereality · Accepted Answer

Naturally anything derogatory or negative which will hurt whether its performance cleanliness procedure and tact. If again your standards are low that's what you will get. Si if you want good get it from someone who displays proper attitude disposition and respect along with a good deal of overall maturity. We accept each other period. We are all different sizes, shapes and scents. Hang around someone who doesn't know you will not get the results you desire or hope for. Know it get don't know it don't get it.

laurieluvsit · Answer

1. Pinching my nipple too hard 2. Pounding too hard when they are oversized 3. Spanking me too hard 4. Any number of other things causing pain, which I am not into.

DragonRider18 · Answer

Pretended to go down on me but was just using his fingers to act like his tongue and hope I wouldn’t notice 😂

CurlyGirl42 · Answer

It was a kinda rebound trying to get over someone I really missed.. he stopped after a few min of intercourse because he was out of breath. He was in his mid 20's I think, but apparently very unfit. I got on top instead, but I was taking a back of him being so exhausted so quickly, and I thought of my ex who was pretty fit and often pushed himself to the limit, but that limit was way further than for this guy.
I felt off, and asked for a break instead. I was just totally turned off after that, and the rebound touching me again made me very uncomfortable, so I stopped it completely.

hunnybee019 · Answer

He kept trying to smell my armpit!!! Lol

Zannika02 · Answer

Call me daddy 🤮

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"I've never had an orgasm from having sex with a guy so just go ahead, do what you want, and get it over."

hahahmm · Answer

“Hurry up” - 3 seconds into it.

lilyanony1 · Answer

Do you like s*cking cock? He said it in a really weird voice, much different to how he spoke regularly.
Ugh he then kept asking and I told him to shut up I finished then got ready to leave. I almost instantly cut all contact

fall_angel-86 · Answer

Exs name

Kimdracula9 · Answer

"Call me daddy" I instantly pictured my dad and wanted to vomit.

nerdybutlazy · Answer

Just so you know I have herpes

Can-I-Get-A-DoOver · Answer

He whimpered like a little girl as he finished.

Cougar2Yall · Answer

Farted

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

An unfavorable act and/or an undesirable statement can instantly turn off anyone during sex.

Marcuslrh · Answer

Just speaking normally and asking if am okay just puts me off talking dirty is okay but anything else just turns me straight off

ha_ch · Answer

Not my experience but one of my clients came for her regular check up and said last night while doing sex my partner says to me why are your breasts not equal in size and it turns me off suddenly.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

1) Told me I was better than their ex 2) Told me they wanted to rub their dick on my feet before sticking it in me 3) Called me "Mommy"

Rocco7070 · Answer

Farted rather werly, tgen tried to pass off on me

flamiE · Answer

Being too vulgar really or not being able to pick on my vibe, I cried a few times he didn’t even notice.

Tamera952 · Answer

Farting loudly certainly would be a mood killer, that I can imagine turning me off.

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