Guy I’m seeing tried to finish inside me during sex?

Question

I have been dating a guy for two months. The day he came over and was saying weird things he normally doesn’t say. We started cuddling and he said “i don’t know how you’re going to feel about this but... i have love for you” then about 20 minutes later he said “I’m not going to let you go. I’m never letting you go”
Then he asked me “are you going to leave me?” And i said “as long as you treat me right I’m not going anywhere”

Before the night was over we ended up having sex and this is where i got weirded out. While having sex he begged me three time to finish inside of me and each time I said “no” then he said “ please i don’t want you to leave me”

Later that night he kept grabbing my foot and putting my foot in his face and chest

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Is he trying to get you pregnant? This is a "red flag" if there ever was one in my opinion. It's only been 2 months first of all and he's talking like this? Plus mentioned not once, but twice his "fear" of you leaving him? What's going on there? Something is. I would proceed with caution here. Potentially "bad behavior" could stem from this. Often controlling, even abusive etc (in extreme cases). Not trying to freak you out, but this is something to watch I think. Especially if you aren't sure how you feel about him and don't necessarily feel the exact same maybe?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

in my opinion, he's insecure and clingy, and has some strange and potentially dangerous ideas about "keeping" you by getting you pregnant. There's an abundance of red flags waving here - I recommend extreme caution at the very least.

honeylover21 · Accepted Answer

sounds like he wouldn't mind putting you on lock down especially knowing anything could happened like a STD or a kid

PixelNight · Answer

Yikes. Doesn’t sound like a guy you should be dating. Sounds like he has huge abandonment issues and wants to keep you any way he can. I would say he needs to figure out his abandonment issues with a psychiatrist, not with you.

jshm2 · Answer

Your boys gone clingy, are you his first?

I wouldn't be surprised if he turns stalker or tries the "I'll die if you leave me" manipulation stunt, if you ditch him

Tread carefully with him, and maybe lay off the sex for a while to see if he gets himself together. You don't want to wake up one night with him sweat over you, huffin and puffin till finished.

Don-_-Don · Answer

The reason why is obvious, do you really need out assistance with this?

banana75 · Answer

i see at least 2 red flags. but is this the first time he came over and had sex?  if so, give him the benefit of the doubt, if the same thing happens or get worse... RUN FORREST... RUN!!!