Is being a virgin at 20 strange?

What if I'll never find someone?
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Superb Opinion

  • I'm 21 and still waiting for marriage. If you are in average or better health you have nothing to worry about. It is better you build a marriage on Christ then trivial world standards. You'll find someone in God's time. Just join more group settings and draw closer to God's people through Christ. Those that save for marriage have the lowest divorce rates and enjoy a greater trust. Just focus on personal growth and friendships as strong marriages grow out of these. The majority of people that want to get married will. The couples that last say their spouse is their best friend, so it all starts with friendship.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I've been surprised to see how many virgins their are in their mid twenties. Seems to be the norm these days.

    My current girlfriend was a virgin when she met me at 27. I was surprised but a buddy of mine was too until he was 26. Lots of twenty something virgins here.

    The world is so politically careful no one wants to make a move for fear of being labeled.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. So many girls ask that question. Women think that they need to love someone to have sex with them. But sex is just sex. I recommend you find someone who is experienced and knowledgeable and cares about your first time. In a relationship if sex is bad it only puts pressure on the other problems in the relationship. If you can’t bond from good sex then it just makes it harder to bond over other things. If you have other questions feel free to PM me.

  • So strange. Don't go away from your life's destiny. You were put in this world to breed and populate the earth. You should've started that at least when you were 10. It's not too late. Start now and give birth every year until those eggs run out. When they do just die because you have completed your life's mission.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • No its not stranger and do not worry about meeting someone. When the time is right it will happen
    I lost my virginity late too and honestly i wish I waited and thought it out better because he was an ass who used me and didn't love me as I believed I loved him he didn't even care about how much pain he caused me.

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  • Its not strange its normal you will find someone i can assure you that

  • You're young yet. There nothing wrong or strange about being a virgin and you shouldn't listen to anyone that tells you otherwise. When or with who you have sex with is your decision alone and for noone else to say. When you're ready or it's the right time for you, you'll know...

  • No it's not

  • Not strange. There is no rush. It is certainly better than losing it too soon.

  • Noooooooooo...

  • there's always what's best for you. As long as everything is right and ni ones liberties rights or freedoms are violated then you're not only doing it right but doing what's best for you. And if they're there for you that's all that matters because you will always feel good.

  • For me it's hot and cool because ur a leader and don't follow what others are doing that's cool any question I can answer

  • It is not strange. We all have different values and timelines. The right guy will come along when you least suspect it.

  • Oh for crying out loud, you're only 20. Stop worrying about "finding someone" when you are more than likely going to radically change your values over the next 4-6 years or so.

  • No, not really.

  • No it's not strange, unusual yes strange no. You are at the age where you need to figure who you are and what makes you happy. Do not depend on others for your happiness. Play the field but not promiscuous. You have options not limitations and never judge a book by the cover

  • I think more women are virgins than non-virgins at age 20.

  • No, being a virgin at 20 isn’t strange! It’s always good to look for the person that truly fits you. Good luck :)

  • Not strange at all. You're just 20, it's too early to be scared of ending up alone. Just keep living and exploring.

  • No... I like it!

  • No..
    Also keep trying don't give up eventually you will find someone.

  • No its not strange really.. Plenty of people are virgins at that age.. And I'm sure you will find somebody..

  • No, it seems to be rather common, especially with men.

  • I was till 35. Relax about it, the more you stress the more likely to become a real issue in your head. It's pefectly ok.

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