How do you deal with a boyfriend who is too big and lasts too long?

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I never thought I would need to be asking this, and you'd think this would be a good thing, but it's freaking not.

If we could just go maybe 20 minutes max I would be a happy camper, but he's inhuman. I'm not counting foreplay in that 20. We use plenty of lube (Probably three times what I have ever used before him), have plenty of foreplay (Like I said, the beginning is great), but the fact that he's large and has stamina turns into too much of a good thing quickly, because I not only get tired but I get super sore too and so does my poor cervix. The last couple of times I've had to ask him to stop and I feel super bad about that.

I really like this guy, and certainly don't want to lose someone because I can't handle dating a superhuman lol. (I want to clarify, we have been dating a fairly short period of time, about a month and a half)

thatnicksuitsme · Accepted Answer

That summarizes the dick size questions. It’s really good occasionally but for long long times you got to be a superhuman too to enjoy it to the full potential. There is only one thing to do for your situation in my opinion, unless you want to end your relationship with the guy. You got to train your vagina and stamina to match this guys. I’m not %100 sure if it’s gonna work but you will lose your sensitivity with smaller ones, basically you’re gonna change the dicz size scala that you can enjoy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

At the risk of stating the obvious, have you had a conversation with him about it?

Because as you said yourself 'you'd think this would be a good thing' he might be dragging it out for your benefit or maybe because he likes knowing that its too much but it would be pretty stupid if he were passing up opportunities to cum thinking that is best instead of just wrapping it up.

Dansnlawlipop · Accepted Answer

Tell him its too much. If you want it to work, you need to supplement that sex drive of his somehow without compromising your comfort or his. If you both can't come to an agreement... :(

Simplegirl55 · Accepted Answer

I am currently dealing with this type of husband and he don't stops and I have very ow sex I usually cum just in 2 minutes pretty embrassing and he don't seems to he stopped before half an hour

MissDawn7961 · Answer

ha , ha , ha ! this is what you get for having sex with your boyfriend and not waiting until your having sex on your honeymoon with your husband

blank_expression · Answer

A pre-piv bj edging will speed him up. Just edge him out a few times and that will work prior to piv. I had a small vag ex that used to do that all the time and I really never knew her reason back then. If you get the timing down you can control exactly how long a guy lasts piv.

Cougar2Yall · Answer

This is a very delicate situation. In a healthy relationship, the sex has to be amazing. Those couples that aren't sexually compatible, the sex addicted partner may start looking elsewhere.

Bad_Man55 · Answer

Larger size can sometimes have decreased sensitivity

ShedZJ001 · Answer

Close your mouth with your hands and take it

dreamstar72 · Answer

Just thought of something and if think about your problem in money terms then you could become some what rich, unless they already make one.

Starlight_Whimsy · Answer

You help find his kinks, the things that make him cum faster. Hopefully they’re not out of your comfort zone. Also start using lube more regularly.

yamajazaki · Answer

Sounds like you're not a good much also dat shit hurts, he shouldn't be hitting your cervix

Cshotia231 · Answer

lol enjoy it

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

Lol, you sound like my ex. She would always ask me, “are you done yet?” If I never finished on her or in her, she would use her hand or mouth.

banana75 · Answer

have you offer to finish him off with oral?

Wise4myage · Answer

Offer to finish him off orally after you cum.

Purified_Aura · Answer

it is just all part of the territory when you have sex with a guy who is hung

QuietRunner · Answer

seems like both aren't the most common problems

la2020 · Answer

I have sometimes the same problem. I then finish off myself and cum on her face or ass. It is better than not cumming at all. Say to him that he should do this if it takes to long time.