Is it that bad to date a virgin?

Okey so I’m 17 and I never had a boyfriend blah blah. I was playing games on Facebook with a stranger. I found him on Instagram and we were talking for like 2 and a half hours. (He is 19) Cool. He tried many times to have sexting with me but I don’t want to. Then he asked me if I ever had sex. I told him no. Then he is like did you have anything else except sex (foreplay). And obviously I said no. And he said ughhh. And I’m like uhm what? He said I had sex when I was 14.
I mean I never had confidence about guys cause I don’t find me beautiful or something but this made me feel like trash.
Is it that but to talk to a virgin?
I mean...
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Superb Opinion

  • No, I can't see how dating a virgin is a bad thing since litteraly everyone is one at the beginning. Some people lose their virginity ealier than others.

    I think people have the tendcy to overrated shit as "bad" and "good" it's fucking stupid and waste.

    I lost my virginity at 17 and I was totally fine with being a virgin up to that point.

    Don't let bullshit like that bother you, some of the pointless bullshit that people say isn't worth pondering about, this is one of those times.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sounds like this dude was just after sexual stuff and he wanted someone that was more experienced, which in my opinion he shouldn’t have gone to a 17 year old for ahaha. Of course it’s normal to be a virgin at 17, and the only people that care if you’re a virgin or not are those who are mostly looking for sex. You shouldn’t feel like trash for it, sex is a sacred act you do with someone you love, it shouldn’t be a race to have sex like this guy is making it seem. Don’t worry about it, you’re fine! A lot of people don’t have sex until they’re in their 20s or some even in their 30s. Don’t sweat it :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • I have dated several virgin men and these guys were super cool and are doing what God intended everyone to do ! that is to be a virgin until your on your honeymoon with your opposite sex spouse

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I was a virgin until I was 21

  • Don't let other people control how you feel. Kid is a manwhore trying to legitimize his own behavior by putting down yours.

  • No definitely not

  • your fine u just gotta fine someone whose like u and well the reason why he dislikes u is due to lack of expericence

  • My girlfriend was a virgin until 33, I found it s pleasant surprise

  • Not necessarily some people don't like it other people do and then other people don't really care

  • Pink anons even lie about their age

  • That guy make it look like it’s trash but it’s actually not. Really thrash thing with this kinds of conversations is a girl that really has no interest in you or the topic (sexuality). That made me feel like “why am i trying even?”

  • It is no too bad talking to Virgins it even more interesting knowing about them and there life in General.
    Just like how it is cool to hear about there views n thoughts about sex n basically spoiling them a little bit.

  • It surprised him that you didn't have sex. no bad situation. virginity is beautiful

  • I think it is a good thing.

  • You should probably date other virgins. Leave the cads to their STDs.