Is it crazy to have sex 6 times in a day?

I think it is and my boyfriend thinks its pretty normal. He is my new boyfriend but he is very addicted to sex and would fuck me all day if he could. I have sex drive too but not like him and I only doesn't say no to him because i love him and it makes me feel good that he wants me this much. Point is is there a way to tell him no but in a good way? Without hurting his feeling at all?
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  • The the force is strong with this one, yes it crazy, he is a serious stud, especially if he is doing it without accessories. You can politely request that he would fuck you less often, but you still be saying something unsexy, so might still feel rejected, not fully rejected, partly rejected, but still, also you already allow him to fuck you 6 times in a day, and now you want to ask him for a downgrade, without a good reason. It's not uncommon for girls to have a lower sex drive than guys, but your boyfriend has a high sex drive even by guys standards, also looks like he has high stamina. If he is using some accessories, you can ask him to lower them down, otherwise having less sex than he want to might make your boyfriend feel unsatisfied, and it could lead to cheating and/or breaking up. You also somewhat contradicting yourself when on one hand you say that you love him and it makes you feel good that he wants you this much, but on the other hand you want to lower your 'making love' time with him, with seemingly no good reason.

  • nope,, luckyits hard to find someone that can

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  • No that’s not crazy, it’s normal but it depends on your circumstances and both of your sex drives. You could say no without actually saying no. So, if you usually have sex at home, you could plan your days where you‘d see him so you’d both be outdoors and in public. For example: go to the park for a picnic, exercise together, go kayaking, have dinner in a restaurant etc. You’re reducing the number of situations where sex is the only thing you both could do when you’re together. He’d not question it especially if you both live with other people who are “always in the house” which means you both are not able to get alone time.

    • Thank you for the MHO

  • Sounds pretty normal for a new relationship. If a new guy isn’t fucking me until I can’t walk anymore then something must be wrong.

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  • You just tell him: "look, I want it and I enjoy it and I love making you happy, but doing it this much is just too much for me. From now on, we do it a max of 3 times a day, and if we're together 2 days in a row, then a max of twice a day. So pick your times wisely." Obviously you can adjust those numbers, but you simply work out a compromise - he still gets plenty of sex, but you have the opportunity to do other things too.

  • He's addicted.

    This isn't about how you need to say it to him perfectly. It's about him coming to terms with having a sex addiction and for him to understand the law of diminishing returns.

    Read the part near the bottom, at least, titled 'Law of Diminishing Returns in Our Life'
    https://personalexcellence.co/blog/law-of-diminishing-returns/

  • Just ask him if you can mix it up and satisfy him with a hand job some of the time and see if that works

    • Would it sound bad to say no instead?

    • You mean to tell him no to 6 times a day?

    • Yes or a week we should have and week we should take as a break

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  • Does he want you or does he want the action of sex is the question?

    There's a fine line between a high sex drive and an addiction.

    During all these sexual encounters is he attending to your needs to or just his?
    If there are times you don't want to have sex tell him so and see how he reacts. If he's ok with that then it might be ok but if he becomes irritated then he might have issues.

    I would think 2 to 3 times a day would be adequate.

  • Be honest with him. Honesty's the best policy.

  • slowly try to cut it back. its not normal..

  • I’ve done more than that 🙊 However, it’s good to be honest that you “love having sex, but also want to have more quality time” or tell him 6xs/daily is fun, but it’s also lot for you to handled. If he respects & cares for you, he will understand.

  • 6 times is a lot yeah. How do you guys have the time to do anything else lol? Just tell him that twice a day would be nice or let him just jerk it next to you or something. Let him know that you'll still be a part of it, just not always as a direct participant.

    • I dont have time for anything during the day I barely have energy to walk

  • It is a sin to have sex before getting married.
    1 Corinthians 7: 2 says clearly:

    Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

    1 Corinthians 6:18
    Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

    • You religious?

    • You can say that.

    • Thank you for the advice 💖

  • read your bible and ask God

  • Being realistic here. Just make sure that it is love or lust? If it's really love then he won't make you feel bad for saying NO.

    • No it's not

    • @denloc81 We are getting married soon

    • The more sex the better

  • Crazy? No. A little over enthusiastic? Maybe. Tell him he can slowdown you’re not going anywhere and you want him for the long run not to be burnt out by the end of the week.

  • I have a high sex drive. I used to tell my lover/gfs that we are going to do it two times today. It was my compromise. I would get it more than once but I wouldn't ask for a third time, but many times they were wanting more so then we could do it more.

    Just tell him you are getting sore. If he thinks he might make you too sore to the point of having no sex for a day or two then he might slow down. I used to make them sore and that was the main reason I cut back to only two times. I always got my two times, so I got more than once (and I go for a long time each time) and they got relief from more if they were ready to tap out.

  • When we were younger, my man & I went for it just about as much you & your man do. Looking back, I don't find it weird at all especially if both of us are so into each other and love the incredible pleasure we get out of sex.

  • Not unless one of you start feeling pain in genitals.

  • If you don't want to in times... then. Say something like. Your vírgina hurts that you feel sore. Say your in your period. Say you like saying sex with him. But if y'all can have less sex this way you don't have to feel so sore in times. Try new things like: give him a blowjob till he comes, if he can masterbate in your face, do him handjobs. Make a movie together so he can masterbate to it. These things can work without fucking.
    Look, i saw your Picture. you are gorgeous. I can kinda understand the guy, but if you like him. You gotta know if he really likes you. Don't give him none if its all about the sex. Let him know how you feel.

  • He's just a nymphomaniac hun. U can always just give him a bj for starting the day and then have sex with him maybe 4 or 3 times later

    • Sounds like you have experience with nymphomaniacs

    • @andy530 lol yeah but you know it's true right?

    • Yeah you are accurate

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  • Crazy? don't know. Excessive? maybe. ... certainly a lot in one day. What are you guys, a bunch of sex tweekers or something?

  • Communication is important. If you don’t want to have sex, he should respect when you say no or not now or you’re not in the mood. It sounds like you’re being very accommodating to his desires, but he’s not really concerned about yours. I won’t say I haven’t done 6 times in a day, but not everyday. That’s a lot! At that rate, my kitty would be so sore!

  • Just tell him you are sore from the last pounding and need to recoup.. would he want then want oral or hand at least then? Would you be ok with that?

    • He wants anything sexual and i dont have so much energy to do sexual activities 24h

    • Yea I had a girlfriend that was like that it was a dream scenario that turned into a nightmare I just didn't have the extreme drive she did. Eventually I would tell her to masturbate and let me watch that helped all I had to do was show I was into it and she got her fix. Maybe try that?

    • So, you are saying i should masturbate in front of him right?

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