Did he mean all that what hw said in bed?

When we saw each other he said to me "I love you, you know".
He had been telling me all night that he loves me, that I am his love. He wanted me to sleep at his place, he insisted, but I couldn't.
It was Saturday and he went out to the club and had a couple of drinks.
He asked me if I love him, since when, why do I love him...
He asked if I love his dick or him, I said I love him too. When he was in me he wanted to cum inside me. I told him he couldn't and that I was going to get pregnant and he said he wanted it and wanted me to get pregnant to be his wife. He repeated it once more. He wanted to cum inside me.
He kept saying he loves me. He asked me if I wanted to be his wife, he asked me several times but I didn’t answer anything. He said he wanted to be with me every day.
Afterwards he was a little moody, playing some sad songs as he drove me home. He told me he was moving to another city by the end of the year. Afterwards he asked me if it would be hard for me, I laughed. And he said you don't care about me, huh?
Everything he ever told me in bed he told me even when we weren’t in bed.
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We are seeing each other for 3 years. He is 30, and I am 20.
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  • I gotta be honest, just from everything I've seen you write and ask about on this website; it seems like you're kind of mean to this guy. Like he really obviously cares for you a great deal, and you don't seem to give half a crap about his feelings for you. You refuse to commit to him. You don't tell him that you love him back. You say you don't trust him. You laugh when he asks if you will miss him if he moves away... I guess I just don't understand why you two even talk to each other, because this sounds profoundly toxic...

    • The poor guy honestly needs to break up.

    • @Jack9949 I can't honestly figure out what the deal is with this. She obviously has some level of attraction or affection for the guy. I hope things get sorted out soon, because she and him are spinning in circles.

    • I love him, and he is moving, he will leave in another city.

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  • He shouud ask you to marry him before asking if you want his baby. And def be married before going bare neck. I’m concerned with how this is going. I don’t doubt he has feelings for you but he’s acting like a child. And the fact you are only thinking if he meant what he said and not that he doesn’t mind being reckless , this bothers me. it also bothers me yo date you refused any direct conversation with him. If you regrew to talk to him seriously dump him bc you are going to get yourself into trouble. You are too used to opting out of any communication whatsoever to the point it is as if you have no agency... this is dangerous. A person can cause trouble without being cruel- they can just be stupid (him). He’s too old to be this childish. I don’t think you are unintelligent but you are Young and he is older and if you can’t be more mature , you should leave him. Before something happens that meaning the words” I love you “ can't fix.

  • Neither of you really sounds like you're really serious about each other, or ready for a relationship, or know how to properly communicate with one another. And never take to heart something said in drunkenness, if they can't say it when they sober...

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  • You have to visit some medical specialist or dating coach or I don't know whom,

    your reactions are the best chosen to ruin the relationship, honestly.

    It is that weird, that now considering all what I've seen from you I could be frimly convinced that you are trolling us.

    You gotta understand that not answering to such is just the worst reaction ever, because the other person is left in a vacuum, they don't know what now, what to expect etc.

    And this laughing... I kinda would regard it as heartless.

    The guy is obviuously desperate or in love with you or at least infatuated a lot, what the hell are you doing?

    You gotta see some specialist, I don't know, go into therapy and say that you don't know how to behave in a relationship or like that.

    It's literally impossible. Or are you really just that dumb? Are you dumb or don't you want to think? Or is that something else?

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  • I'm guessing you haven't been together very long. in my opinion, he was moving way too fast, so he was probably full of crap with what he said. Unless you've been with a guy for a while, and unless his actions outside the bedroom match those words, you should not believe what he says inside the bedroom.

  • This is what I was talking about in my last reply about this relationship.

    You didn't validate him and now he is saying he leaving. So far, in every post where you don't agree to something he does something similar to this. You don't say or do something that he wants his first response is either you don't care about him or only like him for sex. Then he makes some kind of threat, such as moving to another city.
    Now he wants to get you pregnant? Why? In an effort to force you to marry him?

    I'm seeing nothing but red flags and manipulation.
    I can't force you to see it. You have to want to see it.

  • sounds like he's either got problems or he's a play boy

  • Yes, he meant it. It seems that he really likes you but you don't care about him.

  • he was drunk so no the beer is talking not him.

  • 1. A 27 year old man dating a 17 year old girl is a little bit pervy.

    2. Don't believe anything that someone says when their boxers (or panties) are on the floor. If they really mean what they say, they will say it again when their sexual appetite has been sated, they are dressed, and seated next to you on a sofa having conversation.

    • In my country 18 is adult, I am legal

    • You weren't when you started dating.

    • I was, next month I will be 21. And I started to date him after 18th birthday

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  • He shared his feelings. Some girls would love to hear a guy say this.

  • not that I how an actual reason, but I feel like something is wrong there

  • Why couldn't you sleep at his place? you was already having sex with him anyway, so what you was afraid of exactly? if you love his dick or him is an odd thing to ask, because his dick is part of him, but it's funny, and I see that you toke the third option and basically said that you love both, that was quite cleaver. Maybe what he meant is if you love him only for sex or you have more serious relationship goals with him, like married him and become pregnant with his child. Looks like you impregnation fetish, it explain why you not bothered by his constant requests to cum inside you even though you supposedly not wanting to get pregnant. The fact that he not only want to have sex with you but he also want to impregnate you, makes you feel more desirable, but your impregnation fetish is not as strong as his, that's why you want to keep it as somekind of roleplay, while he actually want to get you pregnant with his child.

    You also love the thrill that you get from the 'risk' of getting pregnant, that's one the reasons that you having sex with him without 'protection', doesn't it? thought it's also because you love his dick so you prefer to have bare sex with him because it feels better, anyway yes he serious about wanting to impregnate you, if he was just roleplaying then why would he get moody and playing some sad songs as he drove me home, after you told him that he couldn't cum inside you, also he is 10 years older than you, so it make sense for his to have more serious goals than just having fun. Why you laughed about him moving to another city? it was not nice of you, also earlier you told that you love him and acting as if you don't care about him moving to another city is not an expression you know.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TakeAThirdOption

    • I mean "if you don't care about him moving to another city is not an love expression you know."

    • He asked me during sex, when I was at top, gentle moving. "Do you want me to cum in your p. ?"I said other place. And yes, he was sad in the car. Because of me? He asked me last time I am your love, sure, I am your love. Is he insecure? When he talked with some his friend he said that he is with his friend. Why?

    • He said p or something else? non of you have problem with saying and/or writing dick but pussy get censored? it's strange, also I didn't expected to be on top, many girls are lazy about that, and you seems quite passive when it comes to other aspect of your relationship, I am impressed, looks like you mastered sex, but you didn't mastered saying him that you love him, and you didn't mastered your maternal instinct. I don't think that he is insecure, maybe he just like hearing you saying that you love him, as if the fact that you get on top of him during sex is not enough of a show of how much you love him. Funny enough even if you allowed him cum in your p in that position then there is less likelihood that you would had got pregnant, but maybe that's why you would lift the bar while you in that position? he said that you just his friend? even though you having sex with him? it's odd, only if you let him cum in your p he would call you a girlfriend? well the guy sure seems to have a high standards for considering a girl as his girlfriend.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrrJloJFhTI

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  • Lucky you. I would want with pleasure go in a club and rock up entire weekend, but every nightclub is closed since April because of covid-19.
    Otherwise I don't understand your dilemma. Talk is cheap only deeds matter.

  • Can't tell maybe he got excited too much or maybe really want to marry you but should have asked before now it doesn't look like a proposal 🙈🙈🙉

    • Okay now I got it he's looking for a marriage but you take it slow that's what I will recommend.

  • He to me does not sound very cultured. To say he wants to cum inside you so you can become his wife... If we are talking a different culture and country this would start to make some kind of sense because I feel men can be more strange and quirky while choosing their girl. But in the U. S. that just sounds strange and weird to me. Conversations about relationships happen a little differently in the U. S. Sex is sex and not to say that conversations never happen during intimacy but I feel more comfortable when talks like that are slowed down and talked about not in an action or spur of the moment but rather when you can take time to talk about it seriously. It's a huge life decision. Talking about cum and marriage in the same sentence feels wrong to me let along referencing cum to talk about marriage.

    Marriage is a big thing and a big choice. It should be down one knee not while he is inside you.

  • Ok, he’s older. He’s trying to manipulate you.
    I think it’s time you found someone else. Someone who doesn’t keep asking you if you love them, for a start!

  • literally going to start punching teddy bears

  • if he's in a good place in life and you have nowhere to go then i guess. it's not like you don't like him already

  • 17 is a bit going in my opinion... But if you didn't seem sad when he said he'll have to leave I'm sure it would make him sad knowing that you won't miss him. I take it you don't want to marry or have his kid... Otherwise you probably would have said I'm not ready yet instead of nothing ,(that would probably make me sad enough for sad songs too... 😢)

  • Yes he meant every word! Trust him! He loves you

  • I'm reading a novel on a dead relationship. And no.

    • Do some History checking on the questions of this Girl, you will know it is very suspicious if like the guy even exists in reality

    • @Aakash_Hangargi I don't care enough to do that

  • I LOVE having SEX with BEAUTIFUL women!

    • STOP SAYING THAT! AND STOP SAYING WOMEN. SAY A WOMEN. NOW, you have officially carried it too far buddy.

  • Your ages are irrelevant. Anyway, he's a moron if he wants to cum in your pussy. Baby scares aren't worth it.

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