Do guys really care how big a girl's last partner (s) was/were?

I've been with a few guys and they all seem to ask the same question, "Am I the biggest you've ever had?"
I am a firm believer that it isn't the size of one's dick, but how they use it and if they can get me off. I only get off from clitoral stimulation, so to me it doesn't matter how big you are so long as your tongue game is up to par, but these guys all seem to want to compare...
Is this a question most guys ask at some point?
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  • I never really got the size thing with guys. I have been told I'm on the bigger end of the scale but it was a girl who noticed and found it hot calling me "well endowed", I didn't care and honestly, being bigger has disadvantages along with advantages too. Try having an erection that won't subside wearing jeans when you can't do anything about it at the time.

    The grass is always greener for everyone on the other side. People need to just be grateful for their body and what they have that's right. Be grateful for life and the fact that you can get out there, have a physical relationship with the opposite sex, to love and be loved.

    Too many men and women are so critical of their body now days and it's very unhealthy. Truth is that if everyone threw out and rejected all the fashion and esthetics trends along with porn ideas, and let their body be completely natural in all ways, back to the basics, everyone would be better off and enjoy their own body along with the body of their opposite (sexual partner).

Most Helpful Guy

    • don't typically care if I am a girls biggest. unless she brings up the topic first.
    • because if you ask a girl on the spot. you run the risk of her just lying about it. to either make you feel better or less insecure about yourself.
    • I personally know I am of a more average size down below.
    • so I've just been improving my multiple zone stimulation game over the years. for both before and during intercourse with a girl.
    • depending on what the girl in question enjoys. there are many spots on a girls body. you can interact with during intercourse to enhance her overall pleasure.
    • key is to ask them what they like and don't like. or what there willing to try or not try. just hope they keep a somewhat open mind to new options. because you never really know what might feel good until you try it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No they don't, and if your dumbass boyfriend should ever ask or bring it up, you should not flatter him with answering in the affirmative, nor should you entertain the notion by any type of response, and discourage him from asking by telling him how ridiculous a question like that is.

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  • I don’t wonder or ask because statistically, I know better. I never have been compatible with clit girls because they actually tend to complain and hate size. It never worked with them. “size of one's dick, but how they use it” some women will disagree especially if you have both. “to me it doesn't matter how big you are so long as your tongue game is up to par” I had some dead vag women and I spent much time on their clits getting them off so I understand, believe me.

  • No never asked this sounds immature to me if the lady wants to say off her own back your the biggest ave had which has happened multiple times along with your the first to make me cum during intercourse that's a popular one also. it does not interest me to ask you will know if it's the biggest without asking just from the reactions🤦‍♂️

  • That's such an immature question to ask.

  • To me, I know size doesn't matter as much as technique and the mental state of the girl. I usually dont ask. However I might, if i already suspect I'm the biggest. It's a benign compliment so any girl who wants to compliment her guy would volunteer that information anyways if it was true. So I've never pushed the topic.

  • I have absolutely no interest in knowing that.

  • Do all women think bigger is better? Probably not, do ALL guys worry about how they compare... Probably not.

    If they are it might be that they feel the girl will be disappointed in them for it. I mean after all have you seen some of the dildos for sale horse and even elephant sized dicks... Why do girls go for those of a "micro penis" would work just as well? Or even a "below average" or "average"?

  • Well gee, the truth be told here!!
    Only weak guys that spend too much time jerking off to porn are concerned. For it's all fake, and if you watch enough of it you'll think your dick is too small. They only cast big dicks for porn. Duh.
    And the only girls wanting huge dicks are the ones that shove huge stuff up their hoo-haw.

  • Normally no. If a guy ask about your ex's size, he is insecure about himself.

  • As long is it continues to matter to women, it will continue to matter to men.

  • Guys who are insecure would think about this a lot. But its really silly because there is no point thinking about it.

    • It matters, though. If she leaves your ass you will learn the hard way. Don't say I didn't warn you.

  • No, I just hope she wouldn't secretly be comparing me to him.

  • Guys all want to be the biggest and it's completely irrational. lol Doesn't make it any less true though.

  • lots of guys do, yes

  • I don't care but I'm sure some one would

  • I've never asked. that would be like oh my last girlfriend was so much tighter then u are

  • If you have to ask then clearly you are not. On the other hand the look in her eyes when she firsts sees you will tell you all you need to know.

  • Well the small guys care

  • Nope don’t care

  • Don't care at all

  • I don't ever ask it I do get told it before anything happens so I know to take my time I guess

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