We asked me how was sex with him?

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We had def for the first time and he asked me how he did in bed

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

He's insecure. As couples experience sex together they get better and better at it, as long as both are committed to that. It's called being able to communicate your needs and wants.
Just be truthful, but do it outside the bedroom.
"I would like it last longer, it takes me longer to reach climax."
"What can I do to make it better for you?"
"We can work on delaying ejaculation for both of our benefit."

I guess it all depends on whether you feel he's worthy, worth investing your time and emotion into. Is he the best thing that's ever happened to you? If not, cut him loose so he can find a woman that DOES think so.

Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura

ohshee · Accepted Answer

All guys think they are the best in the world even I did at one time until I woke myself up lol anyway most guys feel under confident they don't believe in THEMSELVES they are so worried that girls are like them and have to go brag to your friends like they do so they need to know what your goingbto be saying LMAO in stead of really stop an only thin and make it all about you to make it the best you have ever had they want to wah bam get it over so they can leave and go tell the world that the girl is a slut and they are the best at nothing

Jessie91331 · Accepted Answer

Unless he just pissed you off, I always lie, say wow, it was amazing... it never feels that good the first few times with a guy... but omg... wow... my legs are still shaking... blah blah blah.

19magic · Accepted Answer

Okay and? it's just a question just answer it or not what ever you want to do I've asked this a few times before as I wanted to go from good to the best he ever had

SarahsSummer · Answer

Ok. What’s the question?

ArrowheadSW · Answer

He was feeling uncomfortable with it. Perhaps he was a bit nervous.

On_the_other_hand · Answer

Did you ever consider the other guys who never asked... never cared?

summiter · Answer

He may be insecure if he was asking. Was he a virgin?

Marcuslrh · Answer

He is just testing himself to see if he did it to your satisfaction because different people enjoy different things during sex so it's all learning what your new partner likes and enjoys to start so he is just trying to make sure it's perfect for you

spartan55 · Answer

Did he blow his load in like 30 seconds?

FreyaRed · Answer

He is insecure about this topic.

Finchie40 · Answer

Did you have an Orgasm? If you did he did a good job lol

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

To know how you felt. Whether satisfied or content etc.

oldawg · Answer

He sounds insecure or he hasn't had sex with many girls and he's not sure of himself. Or he was seeing if he made you feel good and was happy after you guys finished but I think it was the first one

CashMoneyElias · Answer

He just want honest rates so he can analyse his mistakes and thereby perform better next time.

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Ok, good for him.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

And you said?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He wanted to make sure he pleased you

JosyJosy · Answer

Sooooooooo what did you tell him

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Sooo... What's your question?

Phoenix98 · Answer

He just wanted to know he did and if you were satisfied.

pigoat · Answer

We had def We asked me Retardo

winterfox10 · Answer

So what’s your question?

Massageman · Answer

Since this was your first time, I would think it is premature to give a "rating" per se.
Heck, couples are still trying to figure out "the perfect way" after months of meetings.
He just wants some affirmation that he's a competent guy.
If he did "acceptably well" but could use "practice", you could just say, "I liked it. Let's try again next week", or some such thing.

We asked me how was sex with him?

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