Should You Have Sex with a Guy Before You're Monogamous?

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Dargil · Accepted Answer

It depends on what you want to accomplish. If you want casual sex, what are you waiting for? If you want an exclusive relationship, you can walk the bases to keep his interest but it seems to me that intercourse is the reward for good treatment. staying with it and exclusivity. But I'm kind of old fashioned. Today's dating/sex battlefield is the consequence of women abdicating their traditional role as gatekeepers of sex.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Ideally a girl should wait until marriage, and serial monogamy is not true monogamy.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

No, that's a bad idea. That's a good way to never become monogamous with him.

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

I think that’s a choice everyone has to make for themselves.

VIVANT · Answer

Only if you want to 💁🏻‍♀️

nonratracereality · Answer

Regardless of other opinions the final answer rests with you. If you carry yourself properly of sound mind and body responsible then after making your decision to proceed or not tou weighed the alternatives. Sometimes you want to know if its going to be will it last and is it worth it. It rests on you.

Jjpayne · Answer

I'm aiming closer to marriage myself but everyone has different timelines they are more comfortable with

Sevenpointfive · Answer

yes. you don't want to commit to a person if you're incompatible in bed

Avicenna · Answer

Its a bad idea. Look at the message it sends.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Maybe. I’ve done it both ways.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

At whatever stage you're comfortable with.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Why do you ask?

Desconhecida · Answer

You should do whatever feels right. Differently from what people think, love doesn't come with manual

Myk13 · Answer

Every person and situation is different. Maybe things are moving forward really fast. Maybe you sleep with him to possibly influence a decision on his behalf. If you don’t want to come across as be easy, or a tease. Whatever works the best at that time.

JimboGB · Answer

If it is sex you are after, become a prostitute.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That depends what your personal beliefs are. It also depends on your priorities and your level of risk tolerance (and what you consider to be the greater risk.)

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Sex shouldn't be done before marriage!

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Not a good idea; but then again, I'm a Christian, and I believe in waiting till after marriage to have sex...

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

no... Q - Q nope... i woudlnt

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. The Bible teaches whorish woman sleep with men who aren't their husband and that's what I know stick with in my belief.

COMMODOREII · Answer

That is your choice. You decide what you want to do.

Twalli · Answer

I wouldn't recommend it.

In_Trance · Answer

yea I think so

888theGreat · Answer

Nope, because you will always compare that guy with past guys and you wouldn't have known what was good or what was bad.

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