Its usually up to the individual to notice. There are tactics you can use to see if someone is really attracted to you. If they're afraid to proceed or ask then after a complete evaluation if the person. You will come to a decision whether to proceed further or maintain the relationship as it currently is. If he hasn't made a move do not fret. there's nothing wrong with you if you dont stir him there can be other factors that you may not be privy to in order to understand how he relates. Worst comes to worst if he had an inkling to proceed or not then it's up to you. If the mountain doesn't come to Muhammed then Muhammed must go to the mountain. It may be a let down however it plays out. You will get to see how he reacts and may be able to piece why he's the way he is. If it doesn't work you're ahead of the game which sad to say it's not. If we approached it realistically instead of as competition or a GAME we'd see the reality and not waste time but invest in it wisely. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make the horse drink. No force necessary. a lot of factors can be in play and may lead to why he's the way he is and is completely oblivious to your actions ie desires. Ponder in it and use your integrity to decide which is the overall best course of action for you to administer.
This is a risk for sure, but in this case you should be direct and talk to him. Tell him this. That you would like more than friendship. Because I'm sure you have his attention already, but because of the age difference, he may not even be entertaining more with you? But you'd have to let him know how you feel and what you want. And he might reject you, but if he does, try not to take it personally (and at least you'll know right? And can move on if this is the case). It'll be because of the age difference probably, and nothing to do with you. And, it's also possible he doesn't want a relationship at all. On the flip side, he maybe doesn't think you'd even consider him, so if you tell him how you feel, maybe he'll feel the same?
Honest opinion: it’s not worth it. You’re worth more than his attention and his time. Especially someone his age. There’s a reason he’s not dating anyone his age. Don’t put yourself in a dangerous or degrading position. You’re a smart and beautiful girl, you may not find anyone suitable your age right now or due to past experiences but certainly an older guy isn’t going to solve the problem. Be patient and know your worth. Don’t chase after guys, let guys chase after you.
Good advice
You could pretend you got in a fight with someone at home and need somewhere to sleep tonight and then just gotta GO FOR IT 🦴🦴🦴🦴🦴
But he know that I live alone
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You help with the chores. Chores makes you hungry right? So the place down the road has good food, and maybe he wants to grab a bite to eat. Maybe a drink while you're there.
Why not ask him to coffee see how he responds?
Rather patio drinking w covid... or cafe that's has outdoor sitting?
Same way youd get the attention of any other guy
Just because he's older doesn't mean you being flirty he's not gonna like it
Just treat it like he was your age and you'll be fucking him
Don’t I need to do hard work with old men?
What makes you say that haha Just ask him if you can borrow something from him, wear something kinda sexy, see if it gets his attention and if he likes it. If he does, boom there you go now you know he's at the very least interested in fucking How old we talking?
Oh you said 40, you'll be fine. No extra work, that im aware of anyway
If he is a decent man he might just think "That's a no, cause it's not okay. She is just not thinking right, but it'll pass away soon." And could ignore your attempts one or another way.
I most certainly would if I were 40 and a 23-girl would try to get me into anything like this.
Look him in the eyes and say Hi Damn I thought you were talking about me lol
Just tell him he is very good looking. Even if he isn't interested he won't mind getting a compliment.
Just be beautiful, warm and friendly.
At 40 years old I'm just as vulnerable to an attractive woman's advances as I was at 21.
I can say with some authority that you already have his attention. He likely just thinks he has no chance.
how would you get the attention of any guy? pretty much the same way
if hints aren't working be more upfront about how you feel
tell him how you feel and that you like him in a way that is more than just neighbours
wear a shoert skirt or dress and make sure to let him get a sneaky peak at your panties
Invite him over for dinner and tale it from there.
Maybe get some ice on that crotch of yours, and take an interest in him and his life first? He probably sees you as a kid sister or a friend.
Looking at your pic I'm sure he'd want you but may hesitate because of your age gap. You might have to let him know your intentions in a subtle way.
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Just tell him your into be up front and communicate and he will tell you straight if he is into you. He seems like he might be mildly into you, but he probably afraid you'll think he's a old creep which I'm sure he isn't.
Tell me when you find out please
I'm about to be 40 next year, so maybe whisper in their ears or where naughty catholic schoolgirl outfit.
Just be upfront about it.
Otherwise he'll assume u're not interested and is just teasing him.
But be aware u're going to ruin the families life if he's married with children or so.
Knowing that fact, will you still choose your own short pleasure over their rest-of-their lives together being ruined?
He is single
oh. Then it's green light. Enjoy but try to be as upfront and honest as possible with him.
i think you are already in the friendship, i dont think he wants anything with you or im sure he wouldve already showed signs
He's just being too formal. He doesn't want to feel like a predator.
You shall signal him that it's okay for him to approach you that way. Simple ways of doing so is placing your body completely facing him, a little nearer than what's appropriate, and keeping talking with him looking at his face and around it.
Dress like a thotty and show your tits a lot
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