Will he show that video to someone?

While he was inside me, behind me, he said we could film each other fucking, I said no, you will show it to someone and he said he won't because he loves me.
We've been seeing each other for 3 years and he says he loves me.
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He said that my face will not be avaible to see
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  • Let's say best case scenario he never shows it to anyone else and it's just for himself. That phone has a digital memory which is almost impossible to completely get rid of. If he loses his phone or something it's out there and a tech savvy person could unearth it. The S. Korean police have a department just for extracting deleted texts and videos from phones so it's possible.

    Worse case scenario there is no way of knowing he won't post it. A lot of men post stuff of their girlfriends and wives on porn sites under amateur. One NBC online news producer is in prison right now because he filmed himself with his girlfriend without her knowing and posted the video on a Finnish porn site. She found the video on a laptop and reported him.

    Unless you are both into that and have agreed this is something both of you want to do he shouldn't be doing it. It actually sounds a bit icky the way he sprung it on you.

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  • I have to ask... WHY are you with someone who does something against your consent?
    you clearly said "no" so that should have been enough to say it isn't right, and if you are concerned he will show other's it even if he says he won't, that shows that

    1) you dont trust him enough so why are you with him
    2) he isn't respectful of your rights again so why are you with him
    3) saying they love you doesn't always mean they do, actions prove more than words, and clearly from the point of him ignoring what you said... for example "NO!" just shows that his actions clearly say otherwise

  • It's hard to judge as we dont know what he is like as a person and what he is like around friends but personally I would never share anything like that but ano people who would and if he said your face won't be available does that been he is posting it online? or your face is just completely out of the video?

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  • He could upload it somewhere after you're done with him. I do not recommend it

    • If your face won't be in the video and you won't mind if it gets uploaded, then go ahead, but there is a good chance he posts it if you ever break up

  • Every day with him is filled with drama.

    You must be loving it!

  • First he said he won’t show anyone and then he said your face won’t show, which means he will be showing others. You are becoming a porn star!

  • Dont do it if you break up it will wind up on "my X girl friend " porn sites

  • Can I give him my e mail lol teasing

  • He will share it.

  • If he's a decent and honorable guy he would never show that to anyone. And he should let you watch him delete it. He should understand your concerns about this.

    • * And I forgot to add that he shouldn't have made that video when you said no, don't do it.

  • He may or may not.

  • This is a sketchy thing to let him do, once he has you on video, he can them to anyone

  • Just do it i would love to see the video lol

  • It's possible but some of us just enjoy it for our own pleasure and never show it to anyone else.

  • definitely he doesn't respect you. In his justification if he said that your face is not visible, it is well understood that he will show it or post it somewhere.
    Leave that asshole, he doesn't deserves you.

  • Who know, what if things end badly? Dont do video or photos if your not comfortably if they got out and assume they will. Some peaple are comfortable it does not sound like you.

  • Umm I guess it is fine to do. Better wear a mask

  • of course he will show someone... that's just how guys are

  • for now he won’t show anyone but when you breakup you better try to search you on porn side

  • Never make a video. Sooner or later, it'll be out in the public.

  • I have many cameras and lenses and studio lighting i hope my future girlfriend will let me model her nude

  • Yeah probably. Just because he says no doesn't mean he won't take advantage of showing his friends if they ask.

  • Im shure he will show a best friend thats why no should eved makd sex videos cuz some how they get viewed by others

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