Would girls date a bi guy?

Hey, so I'm bi (you can probably guess from the title lmao...) and im not sure if it's just an easy excuse or if its genuine biphobia, but some girls seem really uncomfortable dating a guy who also likes guys. in my opinion this is literal biphobia, because I would never cheat on a partner but yet we get called 'risky' or 'greedy' for liking both genders. Don't even get me started on people saying it's a stepping stone to being gay and I should just say I'm gay...

Anyway away from the rant, would you as girls be happy and comfortable dating a bisexual guy? Genuinely curious, and if you vote no please drop an explanation pls 👍
Yes! Your bisexuality makes no difference to me
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Maybe, but Id feel a little uncomfortable
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Ugh no, I only want totally straight guys
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  • I keep repeating myself on this bisexuality topic but I feel I have to reiterate my position once again.

    If I was into dating, then it would only be 100% straight guys, not 99.99% ones.

    The reason I would never date a bisexual person is simply put, the fact that it is hard enough to know that the guy has a potential to cheat on half of the planet's adult population. Dating a person that is bisexual, doubles this risk to the entire world population. This is a risk I would not be willing to take.

    One is not bisexual to be satisfied with just one gender, one is bisexual so that one can have both genders as a pool of potential partners.

    And where the choice for cheating is doubled, so is the risk and that is definitely not my cup of tea.

    • Okay, I totally disagree. I never chose to be bisexual, I was just made that way. I love my boyfriend deeply, and would never cheat on him, and I know he would never do the same to me. That's not an issue with your partner being bisexual, that's just you being unable to trust someone.

    • Never say never and you know it. If a proposed incentive is appealing or interesting enough for you to even start thinking about this incentive, the battle is lost because you are becoming hesitant and that is the very first step toward having doubts. Increase the value or interest of that incentive and all your good resolutions are collapsing. And when I say "you", I do not mean you personally but anyone that is in a similar situation and even any addict. The incentive changes the view.

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  • I wouldn't be comfortable dating a bi guy. It's mostly because I would feel insecure because I couldn't fulfill all of his needs.

    • Okay, that's a fair enough reason, and I suppose that would be something the two of you could discuss if that ever occured. Many bi guys are verse (would be receptive or penetrative in same sex intercourse) so I'd be very surprised if they just demanded you start pegging them or something odd like that. Ultimately a bisexual is still very much into girls, and heterosexual sex.

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  • There were "chapters" in my life when I moved from bi-curious to bi-sexual. During all our fornications, I wanted to maintain engaging with only straight men.

    • I'm more curious as to why? Is it some form of internalised biphobia? Why is it deemed okay or hot for a girl to be bi, but so abhorrent for guys?

  • Nope 🙃

  • My boyfriend is bi, and I'm also bi! I think a lot of people were raised with misconceptions about being bisexual, which leads to this bias.