Is my boyfriend gay? Should I ask him about stuff I found in his bedroom?

[Anonymous]

I sleepted over last night and when he fell asleep I couldn't sleep so i was walking around found high heels and bras in his closet?

[Rippersavage]

Seriously, that's where ur mind went first? He has high heels and bras, he must be gay.

It's way more likely that he just likes them and or it's part of a kink he has.

Or his a cross dresser

Or they belong to some girl he hooked up with

Or they belong to some girl who had sex at his house with a guy (most likely during a party held there)

[Asker]

I know why now.

[Rippersavage]

Why?

[Asker]

His ex's

[cheapshotbob]

they might not be his ex's if there clothes are still n his house, he could be using you, but its not my call to judge but that guy is bad news you need too move on and let him mess his own life up without you in it.

[Asker]

:/ really

[cheapshotbob]

yes or you could ask who the other girl is unless your really that dense , though im gonna pretend you are still learning things with you being so young

[Asker]

I did he said it's been 5 different girls

[cheapshotbob]

you need to keep away from that kids or your gonna get something from him that soap won't remove., you should get checked out to be safe.

[Asker]

A baby?

[cheapshotbob]

yes or worse

[DrippingHoney]

You found women's clothes in his closet and the first thing that occurred to you is that he's gay? You are a very trusting person.

[Asker]

U think he will cheat on me?

[jenna92]

He's not gay, he's sleeping with other girls. Pretty obvious 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Damm :/

[wassim97]

Just talk to him and ask him about them maybe they are his sister cloth or maybe his mother you can’t really judge him by that maybe he's a cross dresser or gay or bi just talk to him

[Asker]

Thats nasty

[wassim97]

Well you don’t really know exactly why these clothes exist as i told you maybe its fir his sister or mother but they don’t have any space

[Asker]

He told me they form exs

[wassim97]

Why exes have clothes in his bedroom something is not right

[Asker]

Cause he fuck them and send then back naked?

[wassim97]

Well good luck

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Smell them, they probably belong to a girl.

[ShedZJ001]

Oh no dear, I think maybe someone slept by him and left those behind

[Asker]

Ok :/

[supercutebutt]

sleepted? :)

[Asker]

I don't know how to spell sorry?

[chriscdi]

what if he stole them from someone or they gave it to him and he jerks it to that lol

[Asker]

Like? Wear it and jacks off to it (?

[chriscdi]

no maybe jerks off with it or someshit, like panty hose sniffers where they jerk to that or they wrap it around their dick and jerk it, people are weird, thats all i know

[Asker]

Oh ok thanks

[chriscdi]

💯💯

[Wise4myage]

lol. He's a cross dresser, but you would really embarrass him if you mentioned anything.

[Asker]

So what should I do? Break up?

[Wise4myage]

If it bothers you, than yes, its probably best to break up. But unless you can think of another reason, then just ask why he has that stuff in his closet.

[Asker]

I don't know :/

[joeldalton]

lol, most girls would think he's cheating.

[Asker]

Well we been together 2 days so I don't know if he could

[Gedaria]

Yes. The answer might surprise you...

[JamesBlackDragon]

That's a possibility or he's a cross dresser they could belong to a girl from the past or he could be cheating on you they could even belong to a relative

[PeterCharie1991]

Its nothing to worry about, its just something he's into, i got an idea ask him what he is into?

[Asker]

Okayy

[supercutebutt]

If when you ask him he says "yes, I identify as a girl sometimes" then consider strapping on a fake penis so you can peg his anus.

[joshtheman]

He might be.

[Anonymous]

Probably from the last girl that slept over

[Anonymous]

Crossdresser or they are trophies. Are they the same size or different ones?

[Asker]

Difffent. One set of heels were size 7 the other size 9 and two where size 5 And the bras also. 32D 36DD 36B 32B

[Opinion Owner]

That would be trophies of previous sexual partners. You might not want to date him as you are likely going to end up being another notch in his belt.

[Asker]

Well i might be pregnant by him

[Opinion Owner]

You might want to find out sooner rather than later if you are. OTC pregnancy tests are not 100% but are decent. I would recommend that you take a few of the same test to determine if you should see a doctor or not.

[Asker]

I know I got 3

[Opinion Owner]

Have you taken them yet?

[Asker]

Not yet waiting for my mom to sleep

[Opinion Owner]

Make sure that you read the directions carefully. And I hope that they all come back negative.

[Asker]

I will thanks. I. hope so cause my dad would kill me

[Anonymous]

Hi, well there's a kink some guys have.
It's called sissyfication or feminization. They get horny when wearing female clothes 😅 maybe he's into it

[Asker]

Ewww.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't assume that he is gay based on that. It could be that he finds those things sexually arousing but that wouldn't mean that he is gay.

[Asker]

So what should i do?

[Opinion Owner]

See what kind of behavior he exhibits. It might just be something that he is somewhat into but not all consuming. Were the bras plain bras or lingerie type of bras?

[Asker]

They were sexy bras

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I seriously doubt that he is gay. He wouldn't have women's stuff around if he was. He might just find lingerie sexy enough to look at it. A kink of sorts.

[Asker]

Okay thanks