Why he want to cum in my pussy even if he knows that we are not using any of protection?

I wast at top, I was gentle, moving slowly. I asked him where he wants to cum and he said "Do you want in pussy or in the ass?"
I said in the ass.
We are seeing for 3 years. We have told each other I love you.
Before that he said "I want to cum in your pussy. Do you want that?"
I said yes, but we can't. And he said "I want to full your pussy, to get you pregneant, to be my wife. Do you want?"
I didn't said anything so he repeat his question.
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  • You silly sweet girl he's asking you to marry him
    He clearly does have feelings for you.
    And you have feelings for him.
    Most men want to come in a woman's pussy
    Men are genetically built to want to spill inside a woman
    However when men start to grow feelings for a woman this natural desire to spill inside of her grows stronger and stronger.
    His emotional pull towards you the feeling of love makes him want you even more.
    if he's talking about marriage then he's definitely thinking about you carrying on his lineage
    He is invisuring what it would be like to be married to you and committed to you
    But it's clear by your statement that you two are not ready for children.
    And it seems like you're not quite ready for marriage either
    The fact that you were silent and did not respond to him says many things
    I took a glance at your age and you are quite young still.
    I think you are correct to be hesitant because marriage and children are very serious matter they're not to be taken lightly
    I also believe it was very wise of you to reject him coming inside you
    You're not on a birth control and you're not committed to him yet.
    if you really do care for him and you don't want to push him away I suggest you make a pack with him
    I believe you two should form an exclusive relationship and make promises to be true to each other and solidify this commitment by getting promissory rings for each others.
    Promissory rings aren't engagement rings they are just a different form of commitment
    it means that you're serious about each others and if things go well you will move it up into an engagement.
    it sounds to me like you guys have already tested for STDs because you're clearly having unprotected sex so you can take this up to a new level.
    I suggest you look into some form of birth control. If you don't want to put hormones in your body you can do the IUD which goes inside your body and is good for up to 5 years
    If that's not something you will consider doing then you can get a diaphragm and use spermicide
    You can also use sponges with spermicide
    And of course you could also just use spermicide which isn't as safe as the other two
    as long as you have some sort of birth control in place and you two know that you are clear of STDs then there is no harm in him spilling inside you.
    but again you can strengthen your bond without a full commitment simply by finding a birth control which suits you, making a pack of going exclusive and Unite it with promissory rings.

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  • So, basically, this could mean anything. He could truly want what he is saying OR he could be saying it because it's in the heat of the moment. My boyfriend and I, in the very beginning, would express how much of a turn on it was that he could possibly get me pregnant. But realistically, the thought is hot when sex is happening and when it isn't happening, we realistically dont even want children. Dont look too much into it. If he wants to marry you and have kids, he will tell you when he's not balls deep inside you.

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  • While you two are having sex and right before he is about to cum is NOT the right time to discuss where he wants to cum... you should NOT have asked him that then; instead, beforehand you guys should have already agreed where this could and should happen.

    Also: it’s not the right time to ask or discuss getting pregnant (being parents) and getting married (being husband & wife) while having sex... He should NOT have asked you about these things then. If he respected you and those very serious & life-changing things, he would have asked you to be his wife and if you wanted to have a child NOT WHILE having sex with you.

    One more thing: I’m not sure why you guys aren’t using birth control—either the pill or maybe IUD for you or condom for him, but the chances of you getting pregnant without using birth control are high. and in my opinion it’s just irresponsible. of both of you.

    Spend time discussing birth control and having/not having children, and marriage in general with your boyfriend when you guys are NOT HAVING sex.

    • Indeed.

    • Thank god, a sensible and level-headed answer! Agree 100%

    • Thank you once to be appreciated

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  • First of all you don't have to have a baby to be married think hard on that one I mean real hard you guys have been up and down and all around in your relationship look at it this way when you have a baby now you have to deal with 2 boy friends a little boyfriend who you have to be there every min of the day with teaching h changing and him the old boyfriend that wants everything the baby is getting. ,,, and for him he has two girlfriends now but he can't even handle you alone right now but he has to be responsible for little girlfriend and big girl friend to make sure they are both happy everyday YOU DONT NEED A BABY TO GET MARRIED

    • Very well put. 👍🏻

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  • What did you say after he repeated his question? How did it go after?

    • I think if he wants to marry you he should show he is responsible enough to be careful in inter course not show you he can get you pregnant by experiencing personal pleasure. Do you want to marry someone who is this reckless?

    • I didn't said anything, does he thinks that I don't want

    • Why didn’t you say anything?

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  • He loves you...

  • I offered my girlfriend bacon and eggs for breakfast but she wanted oatmeal. She never wanted oatmeal before. What do you think it means?

  • You know what you have in common with millions of single moms who never got a ring?


    Putting getting laid & having fun ahead of finding a good man.


    And so what if you said ‘I love you’. I bet you’ve said that to every friend, family member and some friends of friends

    • No, I don't

  • If you two are ready to be responsible parents to bring a beautiful child into this world. Communication/understanding of ea. other is key.
    Good luck with that decision.

  • The answer should be, "What the fuck! Are you outta your mind? Get a grip!" -- he wants to 'fill your pussy?' - that's about the most foul thing I can imagine someone saying to me. Sounds like a bunch of 'in the moment' pillow talk -- I'd tell him, well get back to me when we're married and planning to have have kids, then i'll pull up to your 'station' and you can FILL ME UP all you want, but until then, you can just bust your nut all over my face or mouth, or wherever.

  • He’s just high on sex

  • Don’t people generally have a relationship, move in, get engaged, get married, live a little and then think about having children?

  • He wants you to get pregnant to improve the odds of you saying yes when he proposes to you. It tells me he doubts you'll say yes when he goes down on one knee.

    • You think he want to propose me?

    • I can't read minds

  • Probably best to keep away for a few weeks until he learns about consent better.

  • This is 2020. Please say sniz and not pussy.

  • He want to marry you..

  • sounds like he might want to build a life with you. or at least trap you by knocking you up. but their is a good chance he'll be the one trapped in the end.

  • He said why, he wants to get you pregnant. Smh u answered your own question

  • He means it plus it feels good for the guy

    • 👍 good doesn't describe jg

  • It’s hard to resist wanting to cum in pussy in the heat of the moment it feels so good you don’t care or think until after

  • He doesn't care, sorry to tell you sure it's been 3 years, he's like other guys, they like the idea of cumming in girls pussy , that turns them on so what if they knock you up?

  • If that's what satisfies him and you don't want to get pregnant right now so there are always alternative.
    You can get birth control pills.

  • cause it feels better and he's an unresponsible prick that cares more for his pleasure than for the consequences of that. probably cause he's the man and can just walk away from you, if he fucks up. i highly suggest ditching such people.

  • Well, I’m sure he wants to marry you. And if he gets you pregnant, you’ll probably accept his proposal when he asks you.

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