Help me please?

When me and my boyfriend have sex I can't feel him inside me. At first when it goes in I can but not when we're doing the act. I seem to get really wet where it just slides in n out. I'm not sure what to do. Because what am I supposed to do if he can't please me sexually. I just need help. Or opinions thanks
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  • Fundamentally, you're not aroused enough when he penetrates and you are likely the girl who will enjoy clitoris orgasms than vaginal orgasm.

    What to do:
    1) teach him how to stimulate your clitoris.

    E. g. like start from your breasts, then down to your butt and thighs then rub you clitoris the way you like it.

    2) when you're wet, get him to penetrate your with his fingers or a vibrator, concurrently with his other hand continuing on your clitoris.

    3) you will reach a point where you feel like wanting to pee or in sheer pleasure.

    Ask him to lick and suck your clit and vagina one after another.

    4) you will reach a point where you just want him to penetrate you.

    Get him go lie facing up and do cowgirl.

    Go at a pace where you can feel pleasure stimulating when your clitoris rubs against his groin area.

    Relax and orgasm.

    PS: its nothing to do with his penis. Its all about building up your "mood". Once you're "high enough" through clitoris stimulation, you'll get an orgams via cowgirl (remember to continue stimulating your clitoris as you rock on top of him.)

    Have fun.

    • Thank you! This helped me out so much!

  • It does sound like his penis is too small for you, so you need to get him to spend time in sexual foreplay so get can bring you to a clitoral orgasm BEFORE he enters your vagina

    So many girls say "size doesn't matter" but it truly does !!

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  • You might be too wet. Or you guys aren't a tight fit (could be either one of you or a little of both).

  • big penis gang?

    lmao

  • Can you feel dildo inside? Do you feel much right inside?

  • Aww I hope u got the help u needed

  • Is it because he has a small penis or wrong technique? Because some problems can be solved some can’t.

    • He has a small penis I guess and prolly both. It does feel good when he's really slamming it into me but other that I feel Nothing

    • Well for the first one he can only try 2 things in my book. One is getting a penis enlargement surgery to make it bigger so his partners can feel him and two is using a penis sleeve but that won’t give him a physical pleasure so it’s more of a kink for people. I would be sad if I had to use such a thing. For the technique, in time if he tries to learn how to properly stimulate the important areas of your body with both his penis and with his hands. You will feel more pleasure than now, that’s guaranteed. But it takes effort. Felt sad for you, about your partner.

    • Yeah it makes me sad because he tries his hardest and I love him and I just want to feel good during sex like he does

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  • Try anal you'll definitely feel that 😅

  • have y'all tried anal?

  • seems like you have been sex with enermouse dick

  • ok, there can be different reasons for not feeling his penis but let's talk about the solution. So you should try different position and penis extension

    • What is a penis extension? And we've tried a few new positions already

    • OK, its something a guy can wear like condom provides extremely girth

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