How to deal with this boy who this pandemic had made him feel hornier?

Question

I have told this biy many times that my day schedule is not stable, sometimes I have to go out fromthe house to run errands, or accompany my brother to do errands or we both go out to run errands for mother cause for the virus and she is elder she is not getting out.

There is this boy who maybe being lockdown had made him feel hornier and watns to have sex when his father is not n the house and he is left alone. Cuase his dad goes out to work. He just turn to be legal of age. Now he is 18. But i could be his mother. For a reason this boy had always had his hormones to high all the time. Now with this pandemic he may be frustrated or something and not being able to go out with his friends like before the pandemic.

He wants me to broke the hygine protocols to go and sneak to his house for fun and then return to my house. I I have told him i have things to do errands to do at home I dont have free time. But he is a biut subborn he seems not to understand. With this pandemic Im not even seeing my family much less go to a guys house cause he just is hornier than ever for being alone im sure, he needs something to let all his horniness out when his dad is out working and since he is not attending high school either he is in quarantine at home.

Let me be clear I am not dating this guy or seeing him. We are not a couple. We do knwo each other through friends and family. But he has always had the hots for older women. Everyday he texts me and tells me he want us to meet at his house when his dad is not around. For what it seems his urges for getting laid seems so high the couple of past weeks.

I dont know if it is the horniness of being in the house and not able to go out or what. But you know he is 18 and boys or adults at those ages are hornier than ever hormones and everything.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

For the record he's got good taste.

But this is about you not him.
You're clearly trying hard to justify his behavior and also justify why you can't comply when you don't have to do both.

He's made advances and now the ball is in your court. If you feel like going over for a little hide and seek then neither his age nor the pandemic should stop you.

If you don't, then you need to firmly cut it off with him. He's only pushing harder because in his mind he has hope it works and nothing to lose.
Just crush that hope with some reality. He'll be sad for a while but he'll move on.

On_the_other_hand · Accepted Answer

Your elderly mother is the most important. His dad goes out into the world and could bring something back to that boy. The boy could have no symptoms and give you covid.

Don't risk it. You could regret it big time.

ThongQueenFlirt · Accepted Answer

Don't play his game. He is playing you. So what he likes older women. Let him find one who wants to play games. You already know he is under quarantine, not knowing if is positive or negative. And he is trying to get you to come over. I bet he was talking low and inviting. Tell him he needs to learn self-control. Don't let him get to you. If the test is negative, then go for it. Some older enjoy younger men. I know I do, but I'm not going that low. My range is from 38 to 55. I hope I was able to help.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Okay Only you can make that choice.. Me at 48... Ain't NO WAY IN HELL I'd EVER sleep with someone that young!! Legal or not... Good that's younger than either of my daughters... Just cuz he horny, you don't owe him Jack... Again that's your choice, but me, I'd stay well clear of him!!! Just my opinion of how IF handle that. Me I'd probably tell the Father how uncomfortable that would make me feel!!!

GiventoFly01 · Answer

I had a hell of a crush on a neighbor when I was that age. Probably close to the same age gap, but I would have never dreamt of telling her. I would have loved to tell her, but I couldn't picture actually doing it

ohshee · Answer

I feel the same as him and that's cool that you want to help. Him I need someone like that lol

Rocco7070 · Answer

Im 18 and stay horney a lot but not all the time, why not ask him over? Your single? Hell you might have fun!

ShedZJ001 · Answer

Go fuck him

DiegoO · Answer

Jeez. Stay far away from him, block his number. The way he acts is a clear sign he doesn't respect you. If you was to give in, he would go further, I am sure.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Block his number and / or change yours.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I remember those days. 😎

pizzalovershouse · Answer

If you dont have feelings in away of wanting him as a boy friend then say that to him an exsplain that you only are having sex with a boyfriend you care about which isn't you