Is this sexy enough to get a guy’s attention?

[DrCherry]

Not sure what a 40 year old man would consider sexy but I want him to notice me and get me in his bed tonight. I was thinking about going to his home wearing this while helping him with cleaning like always. Just finished taking a shower before I go. Should I keep it or change it?

Didn’t dry my hair yet.

[WindAtMyBack]

If all you want is to get him in bed, stop thinking about his age. He will be attracted to exactly the same thing as a 20 year old.

Even if he thinks age is an issue, he would still be attracted to it. He might be in better control than a younger guy, and not act on it. But if that doesn't attract his attention then he's gay af.

Keep in mind that he might not act on it because of age difference. At 40, probably most men will be looking toward someone closer to their age. Most would consider someone in their early 20s as either just too young, or unattainable. Realistically most women that age ARE unattainable to a 40 year old man.

Point is that it might take more than simply attracting his attention. You probably attracted his attention the first time he saw you. He needs reason to act on it.

[DrCherry]

Should I make moves on him?

[WindAtMyBack]

If he doesn't do it himself, yes. Or you can just take the initiative right away.

[Anonymous]

This ones a tough one, because you asked “Is this sexy enough to get a guy’s attention?,” but you’re going over to his place to “[help] him with cleaning”... in order to clean you can’t really wear anything “dress-up” like...

So maybe show up at his place in something like a sexy top & skirt, and then change into your cleaning clothes—a those shorts but a different top. And then after the cleaning is done you could maybe take a shower at his place to freshen up and get back into your sexy clothes?

[DrCherry]

So, this outfit looks bad?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t like the top at all

[Opinion Owner]

Wear another top for cleaning that has some color—pink if you have it. But I think you should show up looking sexy—in a sexy outfit and then change into normal “cleaning clothes” (with a nicer looking top), and later shower and get back into your sexier outfit.

[Opinion Owner]

I just saw your update—that “the plan worked at i got what i wanted thankfully”... can you give us more than that in a second update, and describe what you finally wore and what happened?

[DrCherry]

Are you serious?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I am, you said in your initial question: “I want him to notice me and get me in his bed tonight,”... so would like to know what top you finally picked, and if you did anything special to seduce him. I thought you were using this cleaning over at his place thing as the chance to finally have sex w this guy, but maybe I was wrong and it wasn’t a big deal at all.

[DrCherry]

I didn't use the cleaning because i usually clean his home but it sas first time i go there wearing this outfit. I didn't do hard work though because it was obvious that he was already turned on

[Opinion Owner]

So what top you finally pick to wear?

[DrCherry]

I didn't change it i went there with same outfit

[Opinion Owner]

Ok thanks

[chrissykerdock]

all you have to do is kiss him dressed like that and he'll get hard... maybe give him a little head and your set to get laid really well

[denloc81]

Damn where Is she at

[EyesOfGod]

You know men well.

[JessLeigh22009]

Agreed. I did this while a younger teen and it always worked.

[Luna1998]

Go girl! I regret not getting my chance with my 43 yos guys now

[DrCherry]

Really? Why? If i may ask

[Luna1998]

He is in another country rn

[DrCherry]

I am sorry about that

[skyline_8855]

Hope you get your chance soon

[Luna1998]

Lol its okay, i guess there aren't anything i can do about it anymore

[skyline_8855]

He sure is a lucky man tho

[Luna1998]

Lol we are just friends, at least i hope that we are 😂

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

You get horny just thinking about him?

[MrOracle]

If he's not dead or gay, he's gonna notice you.

[AustinMan]

Spell in getting alli that hair working for you and maybe shorter shirts. High heels?

[AustinMan]

You looked to me like you just wanted to be ravished, roughly and thoroughly. Was I right?

[simonqq]

Honestly this is good, most guys would want you no matter what you were wearing and those shorts are killer. Take initiative and you will most likely get what you want, good luck.

[DrCherry]

Thank you so much

[simonqq]

You got it this for real, I'd say 9/10 guys that are single would want you or at least let you have them.

[DrCherry]

Because of this outfit?

[simonqq]

Because you are attractive, you don't need this out. This outfit is sexy but you are super attractive in yourself you don't need outfits in most cases.

[DrCherry]

Ah thank you

[simonqq]

No worries and good luck

[1Anon]

It’s cute but for me, it’s not sexy for what you’re trying to achieve.

[Lliam]

Oh yeah. You look fine!

[cheapshotbob]

i love how this younger generation has that notice me sempai mentality going on , where was this crap when i was 40 XD

[DrCherry]

Lol 👍🏻

[OlderAndWiser]

If you came to MY house dressed like that, I can guarantee that we wouldn't get ANY work done tonight!

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

yeah I think that would get his attention but maybe unbutton the top at least one or two more buttons, two more that'll do it for sure

[ohshee]

Keep it keep it keep it!, lol I noticed and I'm 50 thousand miles away and if he doesn't the house next to me is for rent

[ohshee]

I'm happy for you 😭😢

[DrCherry]

Thank you but why crying emoji?

[ohshee]

I'm teasing I was just sad it wasn't me lol

[KenzieDutcher63]

Yes that’s sexy girl

[On_the_other_hand]

I've been with 3 girls half my age. Before that there was another who I held in my arms for two nights and I NEVER let myself believe she could be interested. After getting with the first two young girls, I face palmed looking back, only realizing later she was into me.

My point is, just because you are being obvious doesn't mean he will know you are giving him the green light.

Be clear you like him... verbally... "I like you. More than friends." Flirting might not be enough.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I guess that's close enough to this...

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Miss DD your awesome and funny lol😂😂😂

[DeeDeeDeVour]

@Aakash_Hangargi :D Hee hee!

[Marcuslrh]

That is definitely enough no doubt

[FreyaRed]

You need something more classy for a guy in this age. No offense but this outfit looks like you want to do some garden work.

[Tamera952]

What a 40 year old finds sexy is probably similar to what any guy (into that sorta thing) would find sexy. And to answer your question, yes.

[Truthatanycost]

Everything ruined by those fake nails...

[DrCherry]

You’re not serious? :o

[Truthatanycost]

Real ones similar to the ones in the pic, or french tip with square or rounded adds to everything. Fake ones subtract. Do a poll and ask ''fake nails or real'' and you will see.

[chrissykerdock]

any guy who wouldn't want you is gay end of story not that there's anything wrong with being gay... your a 10 sexy and hot with great legs... this guy here is insane i don't think your nails would be a factor

[Truthatanycost]

@chrissykerdock Any guy that does not want her, simply has a different preference, as do many women.

[chrissykerdock]

you must be gay if you wouldn't want her she's a 10

[DrCherry]

@chrissykerdock ❤️ Awww thank you you are so sweet

[chrissykerdock]

your welcome what's true is true😍

[Gerdchen]

As it already went down... how about a follow-up? Are you still seeing each other? Od did you just want to have a ONS?

[TruthBringer]

And this proves that men's sexual market value increases and peek around the age of 40.

[DrCherry]

🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[annie6815]

40 is way too old for you... don’t waste your time on a broken down old man who makes you house clean... go out with a nice good looking young guy with great potential and a career

[SjE78]

well I'm 42, and i consider your pic sexy, very sexy in fact