With all the porn they watch shouldn't inexperienced guys be better at sex?

Maybe compared to a generation that didn't watch porn like we do today? I'm a virgin but I feel like I have SOME ideas about what's good from porn and the internet.
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  • Porn will mess with your head. Porn will create an inferiority complex. Of course not every guy out there has a 7 in dick. Yet you only really see the monsters in pornos. It will give you a skewed hyper critical view of your body. This will ruin your confidence. And regardless of how good you look or how big your dick is you simply will not get the girl without confidence.

    So guys who have very heavy porn habits are not gaining sex skills or knowledge from watching it. They are learning to hate their own body. And how can you expect someone else to love your body if you can't even love it yourself.

  • They watch it for sex and to play with their ding a ling. Not looking at it as a sex Manuel...

    • Ding a ling

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  • Guys had commented and I agreed with most so I'll try not to repeat.

    No porn if do "educate" is all but a penis thrusting a vagina.

    Let's compare porn to Hollywood movies. There are so many car racing scenes, and the Fast & Furious series may even appear educational.

    But if you're a non-driver, how much could you learn from them? Ya, perhaps turning the steering and engaging the gear.

    But if you're a driver, you'll say its all BS and never to follow anything.

    Yes, I'm a driver and I say porn is pure BS. Watch it for entertainment and then forget it. Otherwise like Hollywood driving, someone's going to die.

  • Not really because porn shows unrealistic sex. Most women don’t want to be man handled the first time they are with a guy.

    • Good point! Most women don't want it like that.

  • Well, as a woman who has never watched porn before, I can definitely tell you that it's unrealistic on actual sex from what I've heard. I think a better solution would be masturbation and sex toys. Why? Well here's why: It's very important that a person knows what they like, dislike, don't mind, unsure of, and what positions are comfortable for them. Knowing your body is the key here. This'll come in more handy when you have sex in general, not just your first time. However, I don't know how well this would work as advice for a guy. I know it's pretty good advice for a woman though. Other than that it's very important you also have a good sex/sexual education too. Knowing what makes a healthy sex/sexual life, what's needed, what you use for protection, etc.

  • If you watch a lot of cooking shows, that doesn't mean that your first effort at baking a cake will be a success. And porn is not like a valid preview of sex the way it really happens with normal people.

  • yeah your right porn is just sex education a lot isn't but a whole lot is that's what I think any way and you to apparently

    • I was 19 before I got layed for the first time I can't remember not having some form of porn around so yeah I did good my first time I performed great lasted about 45 minutes and when I got off the first time I came so much I don't know how I had so much cum I had a flannel shirt and I couldn't wipe it all up but I would Jack off 2,3 times a day I only mistake was... and it's a bigy I didn't have any lube, oil, lotion anything I don't know why but she wasn't wet at all matter of fact I think the Sahara desert was wetting it actually hurt very bad, felt like my dick was being skint with a white hot knife... seriously that's the mental image that was in my brain but I was in the p***y and I was f**king and she never new it was my first time so when you decide it's your first time get some good water bass massage oil and a squirt bottle full of worm water after an hour or so the oil will start to get sticky just spritz each other with the squirt gun and the slippery times keep on slipping

  • Love your question and I agree it all boils down to 1 or 2 things guys are lazy or selfish and only think of them self love to know your ideas. I have ideas for a virgin to stay a virgin and have the hottest orgasm ever and many other things

    • Ah thank you 😊 I also think I watch different porn than all these people are talking about haha 🙊i avoid the fake, acting, jizzy on the face kind lmao

    • Yes me to it takes 1 second to see if a fake porn I don't like either I want to feel the realness almost to become apart of it yes no jizzy on the face

    • I would love to make one they way I would want to watch it or feel it and at the same time the way I think the girl woukd love it for love to make one about a virgin that want to stay a virgin but can be pleased in so many ways

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  • Absolutely not. Unless the girl they are with wants to have porno style sex.

    Good sex doesn't really work like that, its all for the camera angles and over acting for the guys pleasure.

    Porn is a terrible place to learn sex.

    A great place for a guy to learn sex is to read female erotica, but no guys do.

  • Porn gives guys a lot of unrealistic expectations of what sex really is. I mean Porn is visual, if they're using a sex toy too, I would hope for them it's not the exact same thing, but besides, that I think as women we forget that sometimes guys are nervous too, they're worried we aren't enjoying it or that they're gonna cum super easily and embarrass themselves, especially if he has feeling for you. Plus, not gonna lie actually sex minus foreplay for some guys is like 10 minutes maybe 3-5 if he's inexperienced, but porn for some reason like to trick men AND women into thinking they could go all night on their first time

  • They are way worse I imagine. Anyone that thinks porn is real sex is seriously messed up. So they will try and imitate it and it will be a disaster.

  • LOL!! They watch porn and get THEMSELVES OFF!! They aren't concerned about the technique, and, WHAT porn movie is a "technique-teacher"? LOL!!
    Before porn was so available, guys had to try what they heard, and get shamed for 'doing it wrong'! If he was lucky, she would like him enough, and show him how!
    Today, porn shows a lot of the 'acts' but not how to actually have a good, sexual relationship with a woman that is more than just a one night stand!

  • I think that porn makes it worse. I see quite often that in the video's, unrealistic standards are used as normal standards. Some things people do in those videos are just to make sure the camera has the best view and isn't even appealing for the people involved in sex. All of these things are part of why I don't watch it often.

    It's another question to ask what they watch. Watching porn doesn't mean that you get to see 'helpful' stuff. Just look at what you see on the homepage of pornsites and ask yourself if you'd want to have sex in that way. Then question the stuff people look up to begin with. I see many sister, stepsister stuff on there and I think we can both agree that some things shouldn't be recreated in real life

  • Compared to the inexperienced people from prior generations yes, you can also learn to kill from video games, or at least that what moral guardians are claiming. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MurderSimulators

  • Porn is for entertainment not education. There is much critical knowledge and preparation they skip over to make things look good. Indeed, it is also either mostly or entirely (scripted) acting, making it potentially dangerous misinformation as there are many things women do not respond well to in real life that actresses in porn are paid to pretend to respond well to.

    In fact, the only way to really learn anything from porn is if you want to suck dick. It gives a reasonably good approximation for how to go about it, though there is still some camera considerations involved.

  • On the contrary, porn doesn't teach how to pleasure a woman correctly. Also, dudes jerk off, which ruins their capability of lasting longer in bed, thus leaving the woman often frustrated.

  • You would think so, but there is more bad porn out there than good in terms of being educational. Like, porn that serves the purpose of stimulating a guy but is not realistic. For example, the guy never satisfies or even stimulates the woman, but she goes down on him, is eager for quick and hard penetration, and acts thrilled when the guy cums on her face. Much rarer is porn where each partner satisfies the other.

  • Experience comes from practice.

  • I also watch a lot of UFC should i be a pro fighter by now? I also watch a lot of snooker shouldn't i be good a snooker? There is a world kf difference between watching something and doing something...
    And tbf a lot of porn isn't realistic, since most women aren't into having there ass hole jack hammered by two 10 inch cocks for half an hour

  • If that was all it took, my brother would be a professional baseball, football and basketball player.

  • Probably not unless you enjoy fake sex, seeing as porn is so unrealistic and fake which is why I quit watching it in my late teens.

    • typically porn cuts out a lot of the interaction leading up to the sexual encounter. also tend to not show much foreplay in many cases. so people who watch a lot of it tend to neglect much of it.
    • however you only learn good foreplay and what your partner likes or dislikes with practice and trial and error.
    • most people are not going to be great at it their first few times they go about it.
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