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My friends with benefits is taking his friend over to teach me to have sex cause I'm. not experience why did he say this?

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  • Him bringing his friend over is not to help you, its basically to pimp you out, by helping one of his pals to get laid. Your friends with benefits is not really your "friend", he is a guy using you for sex. Get away from him and find a guy who cares for you.

    P. S. Everybody is bad at sex initially, most improve with experience, but a person you are in a relationship won't care if you are inexperienced, they just like you and want to be with you and will be willing to help you improve. Dont listen to that guy, he doesn't have your best interests at heart.

    • He was my first aswell

    • Are you in this friends with benefits situation with him because you don't want any relationship at the moment and just want no strings sex and have zero interest in a relationship with him or anybody else? Usually friends with benefits is because of or results in one of the following 1. A girl likes a guy and hopes this will be a way for him to start to like her back by sleeping together. 2. She doesn't like him much at the start, but as they continue to sleep together, she gets feelings for him. Usually if a guy enters a friends with benefits situation and isn't seeking to make her his girlfriend, it means he won't view her as relationship material at a later date.

Most Helpful Guy

  • friends with benefits? Bringing another?

    Do you like the sex with him? Or do you like kinky stuffs? If not RUN!!!

    PS: And from what you wrote about his expression over you as a person, he has no love nor affection for you. Is it OK with you? If not RUN!!!

Most Helpful Girl

  • I guess because he wants you to improve and he lacks the skills to teach you, himself I guess

    • ^BEST case scenario.

    • @Jamie05rhs or the super obvious threesome

    • He doesn't have sex with that particular friend tho

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  • Sounds like he's planning a threesome

  • Fuck him! My girlfriend was a virgin, I taught her... and she teaches me.

    • If you want a good lover, you don't crush their self-esteem. That can mentally block a girls head and ruin her experience moving forward. If you are excited and up for learning, that is one thing, to act like you have a problem that needs to be fixed is another. Let us know what the friend teaches you and I'll let you know if she is right. But I really wish you would get better for someone else. I have a girlfriend by the way and I have zero interest in flirting, dating or anything else with you. I have helped guys and girls get better. They have said I'm the best (I'm older (not 60 though)) and even one guy I taught came back and told me the girl he used my "moves" on said he was the best (he was basically a virgin by the way, and the girls used to run away from him), that is why he sought me out. Anyhow if you need tips, just ask.

    • He was my first aswell

    • Well then you shouldn't be expected to know anything. But if he wasn't a douche bag he would teach you himself. I'm guessing he isn't even any good in bed if he is this clueless on how to relate to women. I'm really sorry this is your experience with your first. I remind my girlfriend for a year how much I don't want her to regret giving me her V card. I'm sure you are stuck on him and are putting up with a lot from him, because he's your first and you don't know what is "normal" in a relationship. I really want to help you be better, I just don't want him to benefit from it. Again I have a girlfriend, but I will give you pointers if you want. Just, please, get with someone else.

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  • Damn that sounds like an asshole. Just expirimenten together and find out what the two of you like jeeeez. This is not really the best way to do this

  • I would guess to have an excuse to have sex or he doesn't think your to good so he wants to make sure you know what your doing.

  • He's just trying to lure u into either a trio... or groupsex.
    It's ur choice what u want to do with that information.

    • He doesn't have sex with that particular friend tho

    • Maybe that friend wants to have sex with you? With the amount of information we got from your question, it's very hard to do a deeper analysis. Normally a guy would want to be "the first one" to teach a girl new sex experiences. Or maybe there are certain sex stuff that he asked you to do that you refused in the past? And that now he wants it and does not know how to ask? And he hopes that "his friend" will convince you to do the kinky stuff you didn't want to do? I'm just fishing in the dark here.

  • Because he likes you, but your sex isn't as good as it could be.

  • even if you aren't , watch porn thatll teach you what u need to know

  • His friend? Male or female? Inexperienced or not, that should have hurt your feelings.

    • No she's experienced and he was gonna get her to teach me

    • Oh, so she's gonna fuck your friends with benefits?

    • Probably she will get me practice on a dildo or somthing

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  • i think he is thinking about doing a threesome

  • so you mean to have a 3 some or for yoi to get sex training

  • What you want to sleep with his friend or something I don't get it? What's there to teach he's the useless one lol

  • hahah lol get some knowledge

  • What exactly does he want you to learn

    • Like eveything

    • How much experience do you have

    • My blow jobs were good but now I can't get him off because my technique is gone to plot

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  • apparently you sux at sex real bad. Learn to ride dick, learn to deepthroat, learn to take it up the ass, learn to tell what he ate just by the taste of his cum

    in other words girl git gud

  • He is bringing his friend over to have sex with YOU because he says that you are inexperienced? That is just plain weird of him to do. It sounds abusive of him.

    • He said I'm absolutely crap

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