Are sexually dominant men more likely to be rapists than vanilla and sexually submissive men?

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They're more likely to be rapists than both vanilla and submissive men

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They're as likely to be rapists as vanilla and submissive men

Vote B

They're more likely to be rapists than vanilla men but not than submissive men

Vote C

They're more likely to be rapists than submissive men but not than vanilla men

Vote D

They're less likely to be rapists than both vanilla and submissive men

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chrissykerdock Guru
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i always so dominant men or so called dominant men as men looking for a blowjob and being waited on by a girl in a short dress... yes that's a requirement to see a dom... you may get a light spanking... that's mainly used to get things going... i enjoyed the experience of meeting a so called dom and it's harmless fun... i never feared getting raped by them... i did get the feeling i had to give a blowjob but it was discussed and expected.
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Anonymous
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I voted D: They're more likely to be rapists than submissive men but not than vanilla men - Because vanilla guys can be dominant too.
Being vanilla doesn't mean they are passive, lots of vanilla guys tend to be dominant and on top.
As for submissive guys, of course they can't be rapists, because they enjoy being dominated by girls, not vice versa.
Switch guys on the other hand can be rapists, but not as often as dominant guys.
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Oh, instead of emoji, there should be letter D :P Thank you for MHO

Most Helpful Guys

Anonymous
+1 y
A sexually submissive men can't possibly be a rapist. A "switch", or whatever they call it when they go both ways, can be a rapist, though. Just because a guy likes vanilla sex doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy dominance
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- Asker
  +1 y
  What about dominant guys? This was the real subject here...
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Dominant guys are more likely to rape someone. They wouldn't have any restraints as in fear of not performing or something like that, since they're high on confidence, and there is nothing more dominant than doing it against the other person's will
- Asker
  +1 y
  It makes sense. But what about vanilla men? Don't you think some can still be dominant somehow or do you consider vanilla men as being neither sub nor Dom?
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Like I told you, they could be dominant. If someone identifies as "dominant", though, like they're into that sort of roleplaying thing, then they might be more willing to indulge in such practices
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Vanilla men can be anything
- Asker
  +1 y
  If a "vanilla" man is into being dominant, isn't he a dom then?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Probably, yes, but since you put "vanilla" as one category, I thought you meant people who did missionary, and "love making", stuff like that, regardless of whether they considered themselves dominant or not.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  But yeah, such a vanilla man would be dominant in my eyes
- Asker
  +1 y
  Vanilla are the persons who have no interest in any BDSM practices. If a guy slaps or choke women in bed, he's a dom...
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Oh, good to know. I had no idea that's what people meant whenever they said "dominant". I thought just doing it hard and doggystyle, fucking standing in the shower, and stuff like that were all not vanilla. Yeah, a man doesn't need to be into BDSM practices to be a rapist in my opinion, but those who are into BDSM are as close as it gets to it, regardless of how much they will defend that they're not.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I agree. Most will deny it and tell they're less likely and all. They're just kidding themselves. What kind of guy enjoys choking or hurt his SO in bed? Isn't that closer to the rapist need of control and power over his victim? I believe it is.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah, totally. I believe that too. And they wouldn't be the first to say some nonsense about their sexuality too. So many people trying to fool us
- Asker
  +1 y
  100 % true. People love to do pervy stuff and make themselves look like innocent little angels 👼 afterwards 😆
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah, they think we're fools and we'll buy their BS
- Asker
  +1 y
  That's the problem with democracy. This isn't about what's true or false, this is about the majority believes.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Thanks for MHO
Berethor Master
+1 y
I believe so, most men are dominant, but you talk about sadistic men, don't you?

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/RomanticizedAbuse
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- Asker
  +1 y
  No, I don't.

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simonqq Yoda
+1 y
I doubt there are any studies to confirm this. Being a rapist and a dom are very separate things.

I think a sadist is more likely however but again I don't have any study to back it up.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Have you ever had a look at BDSM practices? Notably the so-called "rape play" thing?
- simonqq
  +1 y
  Bdsm is very varied and rape play is something I assume (I don't know) is very uncommon though I've seen women interested in doing it quite a few times. Bdsm is mostly just bondage and spankings or different clamps for nipples etc. Also you must remember that there are men that like bdsm but receiving and women being doms which is called a dominatrix and it's quite common. I'm sure there are rapists that like bdsm but I don't think there is any correlation.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Dominatrix are the equivalent of prostitutes in the BDSM world. Plus, femdom is very much sexist and objectifying for women.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Anyway, I was talking about dom men, in comparison to sub and vanilla men. I wasn't talking about BDSM in general.
- simonqq
  +1 y
  Who are you to say it's equal to prostitution? It can be a couple and the woman is a dominatrix. Also not sure you understand what a femdom is, how is it objectifying to women when it's literally the man being humiliated? I mentioned femdom because they should be more prone to be rapists too then as women also can be rapists. Again I think you are thinking of sadists as they enjoy inflicting pain on others. Otherwise I doubt there is any correlation. I understand that you don't like bdsm and frankly it's not my thing either, I'm not that kinky but I don't see anything wrong with it if there are clear boundaries between the two no matter who is the dom.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Cause dominatrix is the term used to refer to women who are dominant for pay. The terms used for hobbyist dominant women are domina or domme. I think you don't know anything about BDSM.
- simonqq
  +1 y
  I honestly don't think it matters, I've heard all those terms for pay and no pay. I'm no expert for sure but since you think femdom is sexist towards women I would say you don't know much either. If anything it would be sexist and objectifying towards men. You are clearly thinking of sadists which again is something completely different. Either way this discussion is pointless as there are no studies on this but personally I highly doubt there are any correlations. Rapists are deviants and not always but often have deviant sexual interests and if we would talk with a psychiatrist or psychologist they would not deem bdsm to be a deviation.
- Asker
  +1 y
  You're wrong. I've been in the lifestyle for 8 years. When you don't know, don't make assumptions.
- simonqq
  +1 y
  Well okay I guess I'm wrong about you not knowing things but you are clearly wrong about many things regarding it anyway. Femdom is not objectifying women. No discussion. Bdsm is not seen as a deviation by psychologists or psychiatrists which is within my field of knowledge. We don't have any studies showing doms to be more prone to be rapists. I would however think sadists have a correlation and if I'm not remembering wrong it's also deviant behavior. Also just because I want to, I think it's fair to make assumptions when you already made assumptions about me.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Femdom isn't objectifying women? You don't even know what you're talking about. I do. I don't know if there are actual studies (my guess is no), though rapists are opportunists that would select the easiest targets. Are sub women easy targets in comparison to other women? Yes. Would it be more difficult to talk about rape for a sub who enjoy being tied up or maybe slapped or whatever? Yes Conclusion : do dom have the opportunity to rape? Yes Do dom have the possibility to go away without problem? Yes Is there a way to make it appear like a misunderstanding? Yes
- simonqq
  +1 y
  Femdoms dominate men=being in charge and the man being often tied or hindered from movement in some way. There is no way it's objectifying women no matter what you think or say. Your experience doesn't mean anything in that regard. Sex all together would in your logic be objectifying if we went down this road. Also personal experience though important does not mean much in broader terms. End of discussion.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sub men are fetishists and objectify women that way. Plus, most BDSM practices come from basic sexist manners. End of the story.
Mikelaughs Xper 7
+1 y
I'm very curious about why you think that
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Have you read all of the options in the poll? I want to know what people believe. I only know what and why I do believe what I believe.
Gwenhwyfar Master
+1 y
I think so, but I’m not 100% sure
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Why do you think that?
- Gwenhwyfar
  +1 y
  Makes sense
- Asker
  +1 y
  I do have to agree even if it lacks some arguments.
OutdoorsForLife Xper 6
+1 y
No it’s the opposite. As a dominant man I am in control and sex is to pleasure her. No rapist would have sex for her pleasure, instead it’s because he feels disconnected and does it for selfish reasons. Can’t ever see a dom becoming a rapist.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  You're dominant to pleasure the girl you're with? Yeah, right lol.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  You got it. I am dominant to give her pleasure.
- Asker
  +1 y
  So, you slap girls for their own pleasure? Yeah, yeah...
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- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  Yes, if that’s what they like. Choking, restraints, spanking... these are things she wants. As a guy a warm and wet pussy is what I want.
- Asker
  +1 y
  If it ws the case, you wouldn't be a dom. Don't be hypocrite.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  I’m being honest.
- Asker
  +1 y
  You're honestly hypocrite then.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  Clearly you have never been with a dom. Also you are anonymous so no sense in going back and forth.
- Asker
  +1 y
  As a matter of fact, I do understand way more than you can imagine. Clearly, you're not a dom but a top. I want to be anonymous cause I don't want to be annoyed with PMs.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  Unless you are a victim of rape by a dom your claims of understanding more fall on deaf ears. I open myself up to PMs by not going anonymous.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I know the lifestyle. I'm free to remain anonymous if I want to. Unfortunately, I'm not a sub so you won't tell me what to do.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  Why is that unfortunate? Isn’t it better to be a switch?
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  You may be mixing up dominant and domineering:
  
  modemworld.me/ds-essays/the-loving-dominant/
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm not.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  Sadly you didn’t read the linked article.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I did. I know the lifestyle anyway...
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  No you didn’t
- Asker
  +1 y
  I do. Probably more than you actually.
- OutdoorsForLife
  +1 y
  Probably
Anonymous
+1 y
I wouldn't put much credence in the output of this poll. How would these people know
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- Asker
  +1 y
  This is about opinions not about absolute truth. If I wanted some real scientific views, I would search some studies or reviews on the net.