My boyfriend can't stay hard and he can't cum? Could it be my fault?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

No. He’s either got erectile dysfunction, which is rare in your age group, or he’s inexperienced sexually and nervousness and performance anxiety is causing him to lose his erections. I had a boyfriend like that once. He’d go soft before it was in or soon after it was in. Then one day out of the blue, he was hard and stayed hard the whole time and finished. After that, no more issues. I’d be patient with him. It’s not you and he just needs confidence.

[Anonymous]

It’s unlikely that it’s your fault. I’d suggest talking to him about it if you haven’t already and also consulting a doctor. There are many reasons that your boyfriend could be having this problem and a doctor is probably the best best at figuring it out.

[Reaperbot666]

• is he heathy?
• does he watch or look at tons of porn and nude imagines?
• does he jerk off a lot?
• are you sure he likes girls?

[Asker]

I think he watches too much porn

[Reaperbot666]

do you see each other regularly?

[Emanon_18]

That doesn’t make him don’t get hard

[Reaperbot666]

if he's burning up all his stamina on porn. might have issues getting hard during sex.

[Reaperbot666]

what i meant by if they see each other often or not is. the more time they spend apart can mean the more time he watches porn. so if they together and both willing to interact with each other sexually. he in theory would choice her more often if she is available and willing.

[NamerOfStars]

Theoretically. But more likely, it's a medical problem with a medical cause.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

I doubt it. The penis can be unpredictable. It can become hard for no reason and by the same token become flaccid for no reason.

[Outofthegrey]

He gay.

[wondering_guy]

Oh ffs, not everything is a bout you if a guy can't get an erection, sometimes it anxiety issues

[Emanon_18]

You know what to do, do you?

[Iron_Man]

Get married

[TeddyGotT]

Look into ED

[Wise4myage]

He's got issues and he needs to see a doctor. Its not your fault.

[TonyBelanger]

no, not at all and it's your fault. it is best to have a conversation alone, to expose each of your doubts and insecurities. I believe that afterwards everything can be resolved.

[Twalli]

Shouldn't be. Probably porn.

[not329446]

I don't care how repulsive you may be, this is his issue.

[allenwants2]

No it's not your fault he may have some issues that are known only to him

[thatnicksuitsme]

Probably not, he should see a doctor or a psychologist.

[Jenson_Dior]

his issue

[gandolph3]

Most likely no

[djcrazyjay20]

He is probably gay

[Anonymous]

He has low Testosterone. It isn't your fault.

[Anonymous]

Unlikely your fault. Do you guys use condoms?

[Anonymous]

Maybe