Is it okay to be attracted to my mom's boyfriend?

I'm 15 now. 16 in a few months. I'm super attracted to older men in their 30s and early 40s. My mom's boyfriend is literally the most attractive person I've seen. I want him to myself so badly. I know I'm young and maybe a little crazy cause of that.
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  • It is normal... but...
    You will end up hurting the hell out of ur mother if u act on those feelings.
    It will break the trust between your moms boyfriend and ur mom.
    There is a chance that your mom will even suffer permanent damage in the sense that she'll never trust a guy near her and you anymore.
    She will also probably loose trust in you.

    So like other people said, just don't act on those feelings.
    In movies and porno-script, they only show the "joy of the moment".
    They never show the aftermath.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Wait a few more years to date older men older as is in nit more than 8 years it's thd the highest age gap I would say I mean comeon don't date your father lol 😂 and hands off from your mom's boyfriend she deserves happiness doesn't she? Don't be such a brat you have time to do whatever you want but not sane as with your mom so don't ruin things for her bc you just had infatuation it happens but doesn't mean like you need to succumb to it don't you think?

Most Helpful Girl

  • It’s ok to like how older men look, but please please don’t try to get in a relationship in any form with someone who is an adult. They will gaslight and abuse you. If a grown man is interested and pursuing a young teenage girl, their is something seriously wrong with them. I have known many friends and classmates who “dated” adult men and were either raped, assaulted, drugged, or just generally abused and mentally scarred.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's normal but don't try and persue this at all. Fantasies are one thing but reality is another. When you are in legal unless you are depending where you are from you can persue a different older man and not your mom's partner.

  • It's ok to be attracted. Just don't act on those feelings.

  • We cannot control what we like or desire.
    It just happens sometimes.
    Perhaps we should talk about it somewhere else where others can't see

    • Yikes this sounds like a straight up pedophile :(

  • sounds like a script to a porno.

    where the girl fucks or steals her mom's boyfriend or new husband away from her mother.

    • I want this

    • sometimes it end with then having a 3 way relationship also. where he just fucks both of them.

    • I'd be down

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  • I love older men to

  • Yeah, we are the best.

  • I believe you see the care of father love than other things

  • No way

  • It's fine sure, just don't doing anything about it

    • I'm almost legal so I can

    • Nah, morally speaking not legally speaking; also I wouldn't imagine that defence would hold up in court FYI

  • Your not crazy, just horny. But try to control yourself and not ruin things for your mother.

  • That's not crazy and it's entirely okay

  • DON'T DEPRIVE YOUR MOM OF HER BOYFRIEND, LOOK OUT FOR SOMEONE ELSE !

  • Tell your mom you think he is hot

  • Really depends on what PM me for more

  • In a couple of years you can date them. But until then you should avoid them.

  • Yes perfectly OK. Then all of y'all can go on the Dr. Phil show or Jerry Springer.