Sounds like you were hurt earlier in life. Being a virgin is pretty cut and dry. Either you have been penetrated or not. BUT, I’ve taught girls how to enjoy sex. To them the first time they actually enjoyed sex was the defining moment they lost their virginity. To be honest though girls put too much emphasis on virginity. Because guys rarely care about anybody but themselves a girl will lose her virginity and it’s an awful experience. Usually just when a girl starts to feel something that remotely resembles pleasure the guy is finishing. And yet it doesn’t need to be that way. Sex is a wonderful thing especially for girls. The way a woman experiences sex is unique to females. A partner that understands that is never a boy your own age.
Whether you’re a virgin or not shouldn’t be the issue. What’s important is how you experience it and what it does to you mentally. Just because you love a guy won’t make it magical. The skill kindness and understanding of your partner will make it a beautiful encounter. That alone will shape the perception you have towards sexuality and physical enjoyment.
If you have any questions or would like to experience the joys of sexual intimacy feel free to PM me.
Virginity is a social construct so I wouldn’t worry too much about it ✌️
The word "virgin" means "untouched", "pure".
Usage e. g.: virgin forest to mean a forest that no one "touched" or "entered". But when some loggers cut a tree, its no longer a "virgin" forest.
In similar vein, its not how you feel, but by virtue your vagina had been penetrated, you were "touched" thus no longer a virgin, nothing to do with your mental state.
Final example: a girl was raped at childhood. Hey hymen was examined and broken tbus confirming a forced penetration.
Its unfortunate but she lost her virginity as a child.
You not a virgin, you are liar, you not a virgin not physically and not mentally. Being a virgin only mentally is a girl who had hymen broken by something other than a cock, not your case.
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@purplepoppy - how many times have you identified as a virgin? Lol
https://youtu.be/8Tl-kOcnn1U
... although I did see another member on here wondering if you were in reality actually a virgin
Physically you ain't a Virgin anymore. That's for sure.
I don't know if thats mental virginity. You've tried it but didn't like it or just don't feel comfortable enough. I don't concider that being a virgin. You can have had sex while not liking it.
Just sexually awkward.
Hahhahahahahahahahaha no
This is retarded asf.
Lmao, go apologize to all the boys you've lied to. Penetration? PURITY GONE
no. that's not how that works.
No because that just doesn't make sense
No , you are just kidding your self...
That makes no sense
You're the reason there's directions on the simplest of items
You can't say that
Yup the fact that you asked and used the word mental. You sure can sport. Hang in there.
Nope. That's just retarded
Get real
That wrong. You have to be honest to your self.
i don't think that's how it works champ
No, you can't
If you've had sex you aren't a virgin anymore.
Ummmm no.
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