How come am I never good enough?

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Why would I want someone whose gonna eventually cheat on me? given opportunity everyone would cheat. So why the fuck would I wanna get married? no one finds me desirable. But on the sex site they do :) That's all they want.

I'm done with people, I'm fat and the guy would be getting "the best he can get" what the fuck

go have fun with your porn, strippers and half naked chicks you want more than your spouse. its disgusting. And I'm truly done. I'm the best you can get and I'm the settle for less. I'm only able to get the insecure and desperate ones though:) I've never seen a man genuinely like a big girl. Men only care about me when it's for nudes or wanting sex.

Cause I'm fat right? Hahaha fuck. Wow.

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

with the view that everyone will eventually cheat you are applying blame on those who won't, or would not otherwise do so... and in turn are actually ensuring it to happen or things to end...
in all my years I have had opportunity and chance to do so, but never, not even once have i ever crossed that line and cheated... sure i have been cheated on... but never have i cheated..
I do not believe in doing so, nor do i wish to do so either.

as for guys liking bigger women, there are actually guys out there who prefer larger women, same as there are guys who like skinny women... for me and a good many others who dont care what size of body a woman is, as long as they have a good personality that is what matters... after all i have dated and loved women who i've been in long term relationships with, some where thin, some were chubby, some a couple were overweight... to me it doesn't bother me about their body type, we clicked we liked each other and got along...
also i was sent nudes from someone straight off the bat before we got to know each other... i deleted and said sorry, i want a relationship which means i wanna get to know someone first and once we are at that level sure, but until then sorry not for me...

so being "fat" has nothing to do with it... meeting the right partner who actually cares about who you are as a person IS

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Most guys prefer girls who are not obese AKA healthy girls, but can you really blame them for that? actually there is some guys who are into big girls, but it seen as a fatish, not something normal, also if they ask you for nudes then it means that you not totally repulsive to them, having sex with fat girl while drunk is one thing, but looking at her nudes while sober is another. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BeerGoggles

Avicenna · Answer

Is it possible that your expectations are toI high?

DavidDong · Answer

Bro, like body image is one thing, people want fit, if you can't change a diet or hit the gym for a bit you clearly haven't tried on that front. I was mega fat and acne ridden for years.

People dont like toxic, you sound like frustrated toxicity, people dont want to cheat if what they have is bangers.

You are you and who are they on you. Still you must be a warm comforting person, otherwise your a scumbag like the people you dont like and that hypocrisy. So really, you are good enough but it sounds like you really haven't put in the effort, do comment if I'm wrong.

If this effort counts as merely finding girls after girls and hopefully one sticks, that foes not count because you are not changing, like plugging numbers in a calculator hopefully getting the right answer, it's your fault not the calculators.

It's in your head because people like me do care for people like you, I was like a nazi and that, arrogant and everything between but I pulled my person together.

Marriage is a wonderful thing, it would be wise for you to regret your decision.

And if you disagree please comment

Iron_Man · Answer

Try to be upbeat and have a good positive attitude and meet guys in better places

FriendlyEnigma · Answer

Wow. You sound exactly like one of my closest friends. Her and i had this exact same conversation and honestly she still believes the same thing as you. But that's not true. Don't get me wrong, hella dudes will use you for just sex. And i'm saying A LOT of dudes. But not all of em are like that. And if you are just tired of waiting to find the right person, then just don't wait anymore. I personally think marriage is absolute bull, so i respect anyone who says fuck marriage. But not all dudes are bad, as a pansexual dude, ima say that good guys exist, just not always around.

TeddyGotT · Answer

This is some extreme self-loathing you've got going on

dudeinohio · Answer

I like big girls.

mrgspoter · Answer

So why does it happen to slim gals then, your looks got nothing to do with it men are just like that to women they use them for what they want and don't care most the time

Anonymous · Answer

Not everyone cheats. I would never cheat on anyone. While I may be the exception; surely I am not the only one who is like this.

How come am I never good enough?

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