I am afraid the first time will hurt. What can I do?

Question

Girls when you had sex for the first time with a guy, did you worry IT wouldn't fit?

PrudentGuy · Accepted Answer

1) the vagina is "elastic" or haha "flexible". Its tissue, inclusing muscles.

If a baby (10x bigger than the biggest penis in earth WOW!) can come out, sure even the biggest penis is nothing.

Hope this fact ease your fear a little 😁

2) yes, do a lot of foreplay.

Principle: make sure you're very aroused and very wet before you allow penetration. You'll know it when you're ready.

But the issue is, if your guy is also inexperienced, then he may get nowhere even after trying for an hour.

My suggestion is, masturbate a few times, know yourself. Then when you with him, guide him, even hold his hand to show him how to arouse him.

Ya, sounds unromantic but I'm quite sure it will work.

3) learn to breathe, relax and prepare for pain. Ya pain. This is real, especially is your hymen is still intact and he's less experienced.

4) "is that all to sex?" Haha if you feel this way after sex, don't give up. Many fist time girls or guys feel "nothing". Its normal. You just need to gain experience.

So have fun, be creative and be safer, not just safe.

farmboy91 · Accepted Answer

It will fit. The reason people say it hurts is often because the girl isn't wet enough. The wetness is lubrication. A lot of times it's because she's nervous and can't fully focus on the moment. That causes a lack of lubrication. So the dick kinda sticks and pulls and can be kinda painful. Lube is your friend. Either make sure you're really nice and wet when it's time. Or even govbiy some water based lube and use a little of that. It will fit. That's for sure... I am by no means small... I've got a pretty damn big dick and I took my girlfriends virginity with no problem. She said she didn't feel any pain because I did make sure she was wet first. So all I can say is lube is your friend. Don't be scared. Sex is amazing. Enjoy the moment. It doesn't have to be 100% perfect. What matters is that you enjoy it😊

Breanna_nonbinary · Accepted Answer

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BlckGrl · Accepted Answer

It will I'll be honest with you it feels like you're being ripped in half but after a while it'll feel better

devilish-cutie · Answer

no, it doesn't have to hurt just make sure you do a lot of foreplay, that he fingers you, penetrating starts slow and builds up, that way it shouldn't hurt at all