Is anyone else a loser?

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity at 19. I don’t have many friends. I don’t have a job right now and live with my parents.

[Curmudgeon]

"I lost my virginity at 19."

That's a good deal sooner than when I did.

"I don’t have many friends."

Quality over quantity

"I don’t have a job right now and live with my parents."

Depending upon your local economy, that's not so bad. Just make plans for school, trade work, etc.

[Asker]

I live in Chicago. I had jobs before and even had apartments before but I have don’t have any more ambition.

[Angelo75]

We all are losers.
Those that think you are a loser are also losers cuz they don't realize that human beings are simply different from one another and there is no such thing as "standard".

Once you realize that EVERYBODY has some things they don't like about themselves and about other people, you'll realize we are all losers. :)

Don't sweat it mate.

[honeybunSs]

None of these things make you a loser. You're still young and have plenty of time to get a job, make friends, and move out. You definitely shouldn't feel like a loser for losing your virginity at 19. I probably won't lose my virginity until I'm in my early to mid-20s but I don't consider myself a loser.

[Don-_-Don]

You gotta understand, declaring yourself as a loser and contemplating over the bad things just makes your situation worse than it already may be.
Losing your virginity is not that big of a deal if you ask me.
It always seems that the ones who care about being virgins so much are the ones who always stay that way.
Not caring and just focusing on doing your best in life can do wonders.

[loginfailed]

I'm a way worse looser than you lol

[Twalli]

I gave mine to my girlfriend at bv 27.5. I have never held a job. She and I both live with our parents. Well, she lives with mine about 50% of the time now.

[Jwags]

Look at thr bright side... you DID already have sex. Many your age have not. Friends come and go. Just hand out in places that interest you and younwill mostlikeky find someone to connect with! Lastly, your parents love you enough to help you up offm hyou geet and get moving in the right dirction!

[Anonymous]

I’m 17 never had a girlfriend I’m not very bright and I don’t have many friends