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I give up on men?

"Most guys prefer girls who are not obese AKA healthy girls, but can you really blame them for that? actually there is some guys who are into big girls, but it seen as a fatish, not something normal, also if they ask you for nudes then it means that you not totally repulsive to them, having sex with fat girl while drunk is one thing, but looking at her nudes while sober is another. 🙂

https:// tvtropes. org /pmwiki /pmwiki. php/Main/ BeerGoggles"

THIS is what someone sent me? Is this how guys feel about big girls? Yuck!



MEN ARE TRASH?
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  • I don't ask any girls for nudes, never did, never will, regardless of their size or appearance.

    And if a girl asked me for one, they wouldn't get it.

    Regardless if you think you trust them or not, that's a private image of yourself, and almost nothing lasts forever... But as soon as you send that pic out to someone, you lost all control of that image and it can, and most likely will, spread on the internet.

    Say you share one with your new girlfriend or boyfriend. They in turn have to brag about it and show off to their best friend (or friends) and say Hey look how hot my partner is and how open they are with sharing these things.

    How long do you think it will take before that image somehow transfers to one of their phones? How long do you think it will take for them to spread it around the internet just for shits and giggles?

    Or how about if and when you and your partner breaks up? If it's a rough break up... How many pictures or videos did you send them?

    Do you honestly believe they'll delete them all or not share them with others out of simple respect? Maybe.

    Or maybe not.

    Anyway, regarding plus size / overweight women, there are some I have found attractive, as well as fit / skinny girls, but it's a case by case basis... But there still has to be some level of attraction in order to be interested.

    Getting blind drunk and having sex with whoever, says less about the overweight girl or guy, and says more about the douche bag who can't hold their own liquor and has no standards.

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  • which isn't exactly true... sure there are "SOME" guys who prefer skinny or as you put it "healthy" girls... but those who claim it is a fetish/fatish as you put it are most likely skinny jealous women who or closed minded guys who can't accept other's have preferences, i am as i've said before, attracted to personality, so if a woman has a good personality i couldn't care whether she is skinny, slim, chubby, chunky or fat... to me they would be beautiful regardless, what does repulse me though isn't a woman's size or figure but their hate towards other's that would turn me off wanting to be with them...

    so what that person sent you is one closed minded and only fits a small percentage of guys, does that mean that all guys are not interested/attracted to women of a bigger build? no not at all... sure you have some who go out and they play the field, their only interest is getting laid, not finding a life partner who they find attractive... but the rest of us who are interested in finding someone seem to get pegged with the same bullshit marks all cos those who play women and ditch them when they get what they want...

    so the end result is some are trash, not all of us
    and those who are not interested in someone of a bigger build is all about preference, just cos you are attracted to them but they aren't attracted to you, doesn't mean that all of us are the same level of twattery

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  • You took just one comment from a bitter guy, and then thrust it upon all of us. No, we're not like that, just like I hope not all of you fuck your dogs like a female user posted here a while ago

  • People are assholes yes I'm sure you know your fair few male and female although it not fair it Is true that past a certain weight people do become unattractive in others eyes yes this line may vary between different people male and female it is true for all same with hight both ways

    • Okay? And?

    • What do you mean and the answers there both genders have there yayas and nos complaining about dont change the fact that as a whole they won't change you can say all men are trash but thats aimply due to apparently you being unattractive to the males u have met so far without a pic I wouldn't be able to confirm or deny that but what your doing is the exact same as the lame boys that cry that women don't like them because they are short

    • Also why the link you posted who is this news too its a known that both males and femals when drunk are more likely to have sex with people they are not attracted too just because you are bitter with how u have been treated dont mean all men are shit lol

  • Yeah ok. Everyone has preferences. Men and women both. No need to show your idiocy here.

  • Don't give up, we're not all trash.

  • put down the fork and lose weight fatty.

  • Lol, men have preferences. You don't like it because you're not in the preference group.

  • Having standard of health doesn’t make men trash.

    • I actually agree with you.

  • Why shouldn't we prefer girls who take care of their body?

  • Why does it have to be a fetish I'm black and people tell me all the time if a woman that isn't black like me it's a fetish like it can't be possible that they just like me for me

    So just because a guy is into bigger girls doesn't mean it's a fetish

  • Not all men are like this. Myself I am into bigger women

  • There are guys that are into girls like you , but there are massive ass holes that make other men look bad

    • Those assholes are a disgrace to my gender and not represent all men

  • You give up on men because of what one guy said? For the girls that say that I would like to know why? Stop generalizing all men because of one

  • We are not all the same. But I must admit decent gents with manners are not as common in the day and age as they once were

  • It is okay for skinny people to find fat people repulsive.
    Can't blame a 65kg guys not being attracted to 110kg woman.

  • Aww noo i dont think you look that bad lots of men are soo mean big girls can look hot too.

    • Huge electronic hugs to you even tho you put thumb down on my opinion☺

    • Thanks for calling me trash it feels awsome in my heart you defenetly made my day😍☺.

  • Actually, your size or shape doesn't really matter. I consider a lady beautiful not just based on the outside look, but rather on the beauty inside out. She could have all the sexy parts of body but when the she has no beauty within, she is just advertising and/ marketing herself. She is a trouble... a real problem.

  • Is it true that most men prefer non-obese women? yes?
    Is it true that men drop their standards when horny and/or drunk? yes?

  • Men are yuck and trash because the majority of them don't want fat and unhealthy women?

    Ok

    • Lol I can just imagine whoever disliked this going "How dare you prefer fit and healthy women over fat and unhealthy ones! How dare you!" as they did it

  • The guy who sent you that is trash. Most guys are not. I understand why you're butt hurt but stop generalizing.

  • So, if I am understanding this correctly, you are fat and this is the reason why you think all men are trash?

    That makes no sense.

    I am fat but i am still attractive and its nothing to do with women so what the actual fuck are you talking about?

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