Can Penetrative Sex Fix My Anger Issues: Why Or Why Not?

I only ask because everytime I get really mad... Someone says "you just need to be f*cked"... As a solution to my problem...
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So in detail: Does Penetrative Sex ACTUALLY Help Improve Mood And Energy Levels? Or do guys just say that hoping to get lucky?
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  • I don't think getting laid will help if you have actual ANGER, but it will definitely help if what you're really feeling is FRUSTRATION - and there's definitely a difference between the two.

    It's quite natural to feel frustrated when you don't have someone to be close to, to hold and cuddle with, and, yes, to have sex with. Those are all things that we all want and need, and when we don't get them, we get frustrated, and that frustration can build up over time, and it can start to spread to other areas of our lives and undermine our happiness and confidence. And I believe women, being more social and prioritizing relationships even higher, suffer even more then men when they don't have a partner, and have a harder time with it.

    Obviously I don't know what else you might be going through, and it's certainly true that a relationship isn't going to solve all of your other problems - and you may not be in a position to have a relationship if other issues are dominating your life - but having a relationship will fulfill a part of you that nothing else really can.

    • This was incredibly insightful!!! And super helpful! Yes I think frustrated is the better word... It's the anger that follows prolonged frustrated energy... I appreciate your help!!! You ROCK 🌟

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  • For me, penetrative vaginal sex helps to relieve my built up of hormones, both stress and sexual.

    Having a guy pound you hard and deep, giving you multiple orgasms, his weight holding you down, your legs wrapped tight around his waist or better, him pushing your ankles back to your shoulders, his smell, his skin touching you, his sweat touching you, and his growls as he enjoys your body, all often make me scream and sometimes, actually faint, does fix a lot of my anger and depression issues!!!

    Jilling with your fingers or a vibrator is nice, but the "physical" presence of your man riding you hard is so much better.

    There are hormones released from sex (endorphins) that are the same as the one's a runner gets from a runner's high.

    BUT, the best part of penetrative sex is the two of you working as one to achieve release! (And there are a lot of hormones in a man's semen that do good things to a woman's body and brain!)

    **Every been around a woman that is normally bitchy all the time, and one day she is all smiles and joy? Everyone at work jokes she must have had sex last night!!! TBH, that is a very true statement in all likely hood.

    • Ohhhhhh my goodness 😱🔥👈

  • it's just a dumb saying.. cranky people will always be cranky with or without sex.
    the reason they say it is because sex tends to stimulate pleasure and so therefore people assume that if you have pleasure in life that you will be sweeter and therefore less angry but that' is all bullshit. I now many people who have way more sex that me and are always mad at the world.

    you should still masturbate though if you have no partner, it does help your health. :) even if you're still angry. and it makes you feel good at least for THAT moment. :)

    • Thanks for the awesome feedback!!! I enjoyed reading and it was super helpful

    • you're welcome! :)

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  • Sex can relieve tension. That may help slightly with anger, but it's not even close to a full solution.

    Other physical activities can do much the same thing, and maybe better. They aren't a full solution either.

    • Working out is definitely an awesome option! Love working out! Thanks for the hell

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    • Exercise is a miracle drug. If people would just do it they wouldn't be taking half the other drugs they take. It is good for soooo many things.

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  • it will make them worse. You will fill loved And your brain will get that instant gratification and make you feel better, meanwhile you become addicted and mistake sex for love. Happens famously in women, and now these days starting to happen in men who get used by women.

    • WOW! You are capable of giving an actual answer to the question... If you weren't such a hater we could be friends... Pity... But I am not everyone's cup of tea... And that's fine... If you can give these types of opinions I would love to hear from you... But you don't seem capable for replicating this behavior... You have some deep seeded hate and I am not sure why... Feel free to share what's bothering you... I love understanding people... Like the fact that you assume I'm a whore because of the questions I ask and the clothes I where and you know nothing of my sexual encounters... Makes me feel sorry for you... That means you are judgmental and a hypocrite and you will ALWAYS be single with that attitude... I am single by choice but I don't think you are...

  • Oh it really does fix frustrations.. I love taking it all out on a guy. Fucking them aggressively.. maybe a couple slaps, maybe someone's getting spit on, maybe I'm getting choked or my hair pulled!

    • This was hot! Thanks for explaining your answer for me! Hair pulling sounds AMAZING 😍 and being slapped around

  • It is a sin to masturbate.
    1 Corinthians 7: 2:

    Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

    • Did I say I was Christian domination?

    • You didn't answer the question but instead you are forcing your religion on me which is rude and classless... Class it up lovely

  • Yes and no?

    For guys or me specifically. Having sex can relieve my stress. It can take me from a touchy angry mood to a happy go lucky go with the flow mood.

    I would guess it can do the same thing for women but I dont know because I'm not a woman lol.

    When guys suggest that they know that *for them* sex can improve their mood. And they are also kinda hoping to get lucky at the same time.

    • Thank you for sharing your experience for me! Super helpful!!!

  • A good f*ck brings about pleasures that can overwhelm you enough to relieve you of your physical & psychological tensions.

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  • I do feel like it is a perfect stress relief no doubt about it

    • Thanks for your help! Awesome opinions

    • Your welcome and thanks🙂

    • Of course!

  • Some might try to get lucky, but I've heard it plenty of times as well.

    I think that for some it really works, because the reason they are angry are caused by the lack of sexual activities, such as penetrating.
    Besides that it could definitely be a good way of releasing some stress. If you go down to shjongtown, you can let everything go and just work your anger in the sex act. By going nuts you can get rid of some of the build up anger and release you levels to whatever you want to deal with.

    It's not a perfect solution. Your partner need to be able to handle it. You need the time of course, but even after all that checked out it still might be unhelpful. I prefer hitting the shit out of a boxing ball at the gym until my arms will have thoughts of killing me to make me stop.

    I prefer this above sex for 3 reasons.
    1. Hitting stuff while putting your anger feels amazing. Finally being able to hit something after holding it in for a long time. It can become even more satisfying if you imagine someone or something to be the boxing ball.
    2. I don't know my own strength and have underestimated myself a couple of times (Like when I punched a pillow in front of a wall and permanently damaged my knuckle). I am therefore afraid that I might let myself go a bit too much and end up hurting her. Don't want that to happen.
    3. The last reason has the strongest reasons why I don't use sex to relieve my anger issues. That being: I don't have someone to slam to begin with. I'm not a very handsome dude so don't have open invitations and I'm not the kinda guy that goes around looking for an open hole to fill.

    Hope this was useful :)

    • This was incredibly helpful and I enjoyed reading very much

    • Thank you very much. Pua a lot of work in this one haha. Nice that it was wirth it

  • It depends how you react in your anger. If it's out of control and lead to self harm or something worse then it'll not work for you and you have to visit therapist for anger management but if it's just in control but you need someone to vent on, then it can fix your issue.

    • This was a super helpful post! Thanks a bunch 😊

  • I mean if your frustration is actually sexual tension and you aren't aware of it maybe sex would help?

    I'd just think of it as equally ignorant as a guys saying "she must be on her period"

    Yeah maybe there is a sliver of truth to both but they aren't absolute by any means, all women are different. My friend never became a "raging bitch" once a month and insee her 6 days a week at work, proof enough that period doesn't equal erational.

    I bring it up cause it seems so similar to the period thing.

    Inthink it's just a degrading thing to say that shows a lack of care or empathy for a woman.

    " indont know why she's mad, dosent make sense to me, must be that vagina thing indont have or know about, yeah that's it, now indont have to worry about what it could be making her mad its obviously her vagina"
    See just sounds ignorant.

    • I really liked the comparison you used!!! I enjoyed reading your thoughts and I appreciate your positive energy

  • Whenever I'm a little frustrated and I get a good fuck ut always helps

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    • Well it was the question so... I don't know..

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  • Just make sure you orgasm, or else you'll get even more mad 😂😂

    • Ohhhhhh!!! Gotcha

  • Sex or intercourse can certainly help depending on what type of ange It would have to be hormonal If you suffer from anger from a mental illness issue sex would not cure this

    • Thanks for explaining your answer!!! Super helpful

  • I would not take "you just need to be f*cked" more than a crude saying. There is truth though in connecting sexual satisfaction and mental wellness. You can achieve that without penetration.

    • Thank you!!! I appreciate your help

  • I think men say that for a number of reasons,

    Men experience aggression when they are sexual frustrated because of the increase in testosterone. Most people don't differentiate between the personality trait of aggression and anger the emotion. Women have the same increase in testosterone but much less so, so I don't think it would have a large impact on women.

    The other reason could be if men see you mostly as a possible sexual partner they will view your emotions as related to sex.

    Or having sex is the only positive emotional interaction they have had with their girlfriends so they see it as the only solution.

    Or sex will be either a experience that takes you out of your current mindset or allow an emotional connection with your partner, depending on the type of sex so that will let you comeback to your problems with a new mindset.

    Or, it will just be fun, raise your heart rate, put some new chemicals in your head and put you in a better mood.

    But if you are angry for a good reason or part of your long-term mentality then it's just a distraction, and might leave you less happy.

    (Press into hole to reset woman to original settings 😏)

    • I enjoyed reading your post sooooooo freaking MUCH!!! I enjoyed how detailed you were and for explaining your answer!!! And the ending was literally the icing on the cake!!! Thank you so much

  • I'd say to do it! I've heard sex helps with headaches and I'm totally sure it could help with mood. I say talk it over with your partner and tell them your plan then when you are moody and pissed off right after work just jump in and see what happens 🤔

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    • Welcome :)

  • it could do yes, even more so if the sex was intense and rough as it will burn off more energy and excess anxiety and built up aggression :)
    used to help with my last girlfriend, she was angry all the time... and rough sex helped, hell she even got into DDLG role play and went into little space which helped her cope with some issues, mind you when in that mindset sex was off limits, though BDSM actually took her interest more after then and she found pain to be a great outlet for her aggression... but with her those were only a temporary solution...

    another past girlfriend rough and intense sex helped greatly

    • I reallyyyyy enjoyed reading your story!!! WOW 😳🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • thankyou :) :P

  • I think so. Sex involves emotions, so if you have anger or frustration built up and you channel it into sex - maybe have it be a bit more physical than normal, it should release a lot of that anger if done in the right context and your partner understands what's going on.

    • That makes sense!!! Thanks for your help!

  • Why yes. Yes it can. And will. Well i guess it won't cure ypur annger issues, as un you'll no longer have anger issues, but i think itll help the anger subside dramtically.

    • Thanks for your help!!! You rock!!!

  • Sex helps with stress, but to be honest that's just an incredibly rude comment for anyone to say.

    • I thought so too!!! Thanks for the reassurances! I appreciate it

    • You are welcome I would suggest finding healthy ways to let out your anger. I've been really angry lately, but it's because of work and financial stress and moving stress.

    • I have been sprinting but my body hurts from overdoing it... So I am in bed sore, angry, and bored AF

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