Be very direct in telling him how he can please you and use him for your pleasure. Punish him if he does not behave or perform to your standards. You can also set him up to fail just so you can punish him.
If I may ask, what are some good ways to punish?
Spanking, restraining him for a while, make him do something humiliating, do not allow him to cum... that sort of stuff
Before I answer this question, why do you want to be more dominant in bed. If you wish to PM me the answer. I think my answer will depend on what you say.
Because I’m interested in it, and I would like to please my man.
How does being dominant please your man? (You being dominant is more about your pleasure.) If you wish, PM me.
It's quite easy, wrestle your boyfriend, pin him down and make him your bitch ;)
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make the decisions between positions
You and your partner should talk about this and plan a role play. Can buy some fun stuff like handcuffs tie him and tease him.
well you can read and get some info or you can ask for help from people you trust or you can jus wing it and see where it goes , just be yourself and have fun.. I myself would love a woman to take charge now and then.. keep it fresh. have sex in the bathroom at a store or in the elevator in the car while he is driving etc.. or just as he is reading a mag or the paper just stick your pussy in his face if he turns you down , he is not for you. good luck and have fun with it..
Tie your boyfriend girlfriend up and dominate them
Whips and chain should do it
Switching isn't bad
That makes sense.. but I I really want to be able to make it worthwhile. I can only do it for so long and then I feel the need to stay passive the whole way through:/
How does he feel
Create an account on fetlife. It is free and a lot of dommes resdy to hell you learn
Well you could get on top of him. Sit high on his chest and trap his head with your thighs. Pin his wrists then budge forward and sit on his face
Well there is many things you can say or do. Being Dom actually may turn ur other on as well. You could tell him to do stuff to you or you do stuff to him which he isn’t expecting. Your goal rlly is to make him do what you say when u say it and maybe punish him like a spank. Also u could challenge him like force him to hold it in and if he doesn’t he has to do something else. I don't know XD
if you are not dominant in nature you want be able to act on it
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