Anal fundamental: if done correctly, there should be ZERO pain. Yes, and I stress again, ZERO pain.
Hence, something is wrong. Perhaps not enough lube, perhaps too fast, perhaps wrong angle, ...
This is what uou and him can try:
1) use butt plugs to prepare yourself.
Recommend glass plug, start with one that is about 5" long with coconut oil as lube.
When you can get it inserted without pain, use one about his size.
2) while trying the plug of his size, try to figure out the angle of entry, bulb entry and full entry.
All should be natural and without pain. Once you feel the slightest pain, tell him to take it out.
Principle: there exists an angle where the vacuum will suck the plug in naturally and painlessly.
Get this angle and then he should try to enter you as close to it as possible.
3) final note: you have all the rights to reject anal. While offering him a chance to get it right, you should also stand by what you want during sex. No means no and you should not be forced or intimidated into doing what you don't want.
Have fun. Its only sex.
Sex is never just sex. It makes a fundamental difference in a relationship. Even a lot of gay guys hate anal. Have more respect for other people and yourself.
@Whitemeatchicken when I wrote "Its only sex" I meant don't take it too seriously, especially after its done. If you read the context of my Opinion, I highlighted the need for the couple to be more considerate, and with love. But after those are expressed, and sex still doesn't feel perfect, let it be. Its only sex.
Nobody should have to do something they hate e sexually in a relationship. In fact, if he presses the issue after she’s expressed she does not like it, she should end the relationship.
Just tell him that you prefer vaginal sex and that anal is hurting you. I tried it twice with past girlfriends at their request to try it. We used tons of lube each time. Sure I had a good orgasm each time but each girl said that it was uncomfortable and that they did not orgasm. I stick to the front door any time.
He sounds like trash. Get a man who likes both of you to be pleased, not just himself.
Tell him you've developed piles and anals too painful
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!We men aren't as emotional as women are for the truth (not in comparison that is). Just tell him you don't enjoy it because he is too big. Problem solved.
Explaine this to him maybe him knowing will be enough to take it off the table
Tell him that you feel something different now. He can't force you into doing what you don't want to do.
I'm the kind of guy who just likes vaginal sex and not anal sex. Just tell him you don't like it and take things from there
Try being nice as in omg your dick is wonderful but whilst it fits just great in my pussy it, s a bit large and hurts up my ass. could we stop doing that please as it hurts me?
Sort of a compliment but saying no more at the same time. good luck
Just tell him the truth.
What I always say, 'If'n ya got a big dick you ain't gettin' no butt-sex.' :)
Say you really don't and if your afraid to dissapoint then offer something in exchange, something you thing he won't enjoy as much like you doing anal on him first with a strap on or dildo, that way he will experience what you will feel too and if he doesn't then say you won't either
Are you sure you can’t try again and take time to stretch it out? I’m also larger and have had a few girls tell me no anal, it’s disappointing to hear because of the size she doesn’t even try.
Tell him it is not good for you and that way you can bring it out on special occasions ie birthdays and such he will like knowing he is to big but that also means he not doing enough prep work to make it good for you
If he brings it again, just say you changed your mind.
once anal's on the table it's on the table.
So you’d do something knowing your girlfriend hated it and she has told no? That shows that you like hurting your partner. Guys who force or pressure girls to do things they hate, don’t have relationships for long and sometimes end up in prison.
People should feel free to try things. If they don’t like them, forcing them to do it anyways makes them not want to try anything new with you. If you treat people you love that way I hope they press charges and leave you.
@Whitemeatchicken At no point did I imply I was hurting or forcing anyone. You’re projecting
Tell truth say i hate it it hurts
Tell him that while you enjoy anal he's bigger than you are used to and it hurts. Most guys would like vf to hear they are big.
tell him the truth
Turn the tables on him. Make him wear a chastity cage and buy a strap on.. lol
Maybe don't take it off the table entirely but make it more infrequent? I have a feeling if you play up his size being the reason and phrase it as a compliment, it will go over better.
Tell him he can do it once a month just tell him daddy your too big. And say your not doing it anymore
Tell him how you feel
Tell him outright, no anal sex.
The perks of having a small penis.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏼
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