Is it a turn-on or turn-off if your partner is bisexual?

Being bisexual myself, I dont think it should matter. I think it should only be counted as a turn on since its more possibilites for more experiences. Whats ur thoughts on it?
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  • My current wife and made love with a woman friend of ours when we were dating. It was a great, fun experience. She was surprised by the friend initiating it by kissing her and that turned her on. She came a few times with the friend eating her pussy while I fucked the friend. it was confined to one week on vacation 3 years ago and has not happened since. She says she is heterosexual but I think if the right friend came along again it might happen, as there are times when it is clear she is turned on by a strange woman passing by. It is a turn-on to me, but then again I know she would not do it unless I was involved.

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  • I feel like it's a mixed bag, on one hand it's harder to trust her around girls, and she might be a full on lesbian that lie about being a bisexual, on the other hand if a guy want a threesome, it's significantly raise the chances of his girlfriend agreeing to have a threesome, also it's likely easier for her to understand a guy, because she is also into girls. :)

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  • I think when someone doesn't like it, the fear is that they now have double the competition out there, for their partner's wandering eyes.

    Though some guys do like it, and think it might be an opportunity for a fun threesome.

    • Couldn't say it better myself. However I'm the type that gets uncomfortable because I have double the competition I had a bi sexual girlfriend once and when she got too friendly with a female that scared me.

  • No opinion... whether they're bi or straight, if we're together that's all that matters.

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  • It's not a turn-off for me, but not necessarily a turn-on.

    Having said that, I think the answer is very different for men vs. women, and I think that is legitimate, as there are many very real differences between us, and in particular, our sexuality, so it stands to reason that the answers aren't going to be the same.

  • Neither - I don’t think the question “Is it a turn-on or turn-off if your partner is bisexual?“ should be a consideration at all for a couple.

    My take is that if you’re a in a “couple” (and are a Significant Other/partner) with someone then you’re with them because you like or love them/being with them, and shouldn’t be thinking about what outside-the-relationship benefit (s) you might be able to get from being with them.

    Also, I think possibly bringing in others to have “more experiences” with isn’t based on the sexuality preferences (whether each person is straight or bisexual) of the people in the relationship, but rather depends on the “relationship agreement” that the couple has regarding whether it is ok or not ok to be physical/sexual/romantic with others outside the couple’s relationship.

  • Turn off. Seen to many bisexuals use that as an excuse to demand an open relationship, cheat, or for threesomes etc. so they can get their "fix". Wouldn't take the chance.

  • It is not an instant turn-off, per se, but. . . I was married to a bisexual lady. She was faithful for almost two years, then she cheated on me with another woman. If she wanted a man, I satisfied her, but when she wanted a woman. . . obviously to her that meant that she needed to get sex elsewhere. I will never again knowingly date a bisexual woman.

  • I had 3 bisexual gfs in my life... first one i was 18 and it was like OMG THREESOMES!!! ... we did have an arrangement where she had a girlfriend and we had a happy 3 way relationship for three years.. did try the 3 some thing but was two very uneventful nights.. since then i just dont care.. its just who they are, its quite nice you can be open about stuff, like we both fancy Margot Robbie

  • I agree with you... its a turn on.
    there is usually more opportunity for "experimental" sex, and always better stories and fantasies to share with each other...

  • One difference is that you can go cruising for girls with your partner. 😂

  • For me means she's more experienced and knowledgeable which hopefully means pleasure. A positive.

  • As my boyfriend keeps getting hit on by guys, I think I would be more worried if he was bi... but I would still date him and love him

  • I dated a Bisexual in college, and we both knew each other (the other partners) and we liked each other, and got along well! NO, PERVS, no 3-ways!!
    We both liked the one, and she loved both of us, but differently!
    She loved her girlfriend, for some things, and I don't know, but she loved me, other times, in other ways! She wanted both, and it worked, for almost a year!
    The only reason it ended is that we split up, and went to different colleges in different parts of the country.

    • Polyamorous?

    • @Gisellesuperstar Not sure what you mean. I met her, and we started dating, then more, and she said, by the way, I should tell you. . . Not purposely going into a "Sharing" thing!

    • I was asking whether it was a polyamorous thing

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  • I can't see it being a turn off really

  • I don't really care at all to be honest. If she's into me I'm happy. Don't care about what else she is into, she already made a mistake. It could help with experimentation tho

  • When it comes to a Long term investment, it's a no no for me. When it comes to have fun short term, no problem. She can invite another girl in. Not that it's going to happen any time soon since I'm in a relationship (we both straight) lol

  • I wouldn't be with someone who was bisexual in the first place.

  • For me, I'm only interested in one faithful life partner where we only belong to each other. That's my preference and I feel that having desire for another gender would only make you crave more what you don't have

  • I've dated straight, bisexual and bicurious women over the years and i must say those who are bisexual are a lot more open minded than some of the straight women i've dated so that in itself is a turn on

  • I think I'd feel like I couldn't fully satisfy them and that would make things awkward

  • Its neither as if she is with me i don't expect it will be relevant I do understand why some see it as a turn off as in theory means cheating chances go up simply by there being more choice

  • Bisexual -aka desperate for anything, even your pets, if pushed.

  • yes.
    i never dated busexuals.

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