What do men think when they’re trying to make their girl cum but can’t?

My boyfriend and i haven’t had sex in a few days because we had an argument & obviously made up. Anyway one night my boyfriend kept trying and trying to make me cum because he Usually does & this time he couldn’t & he kept asking me if i was going to cum during each position we tried. I felt bad for him it’s not like it felt bad also he’ll sometimes ask me if i think it’s small in a jokingly manner.
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  • That if i had been sawing my way through a giant red wood tree top to bottom i would have been finished by now?

    That something is bothering you and you are unable to get into the right headspace for it.

    That your vagina is broken or if its not it will be in a minute..

    What do men think when they’re trying to make their girl cum but can’t?

    Sure i have a tool that i like to use for all jobs, we all do, but sometimes you have to use the right tool for the right job and clean it and tidy it away properly for next time, a good quality tool will last you lifetime.

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  • What men think generally and what he’s thinking is probably not the same. He sounds very insecure. What I would think in that situation is, maybe she’s one of the vast majority of women who don’t necessarily cum from penetration alone. Maybe I’ll go down on her. Maybe I’ll find a position where I can stimulate her clit or hold a vibe against her while we fuck. The last thing I would do is put pressure on her. That’s just counterproductive. It takes what it takes. If she’s just not feeling it—it happens—then she’ll speak up. Until then, she’ll see nothing but enthusiasm for the journey.

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  • Insecurity in his performance... knowing you cum is like a clear sign you probably enjoyed it... plus the mass media makes it a big deal.. so he just needs that validation he did good and you are happy with his penis

  • each situation is different each guy is different but I would think that he's not really thinking anything just doing its afterwards when he'll be thinking that he's not enough or can't last long enough he needs to do more than just f**king he needs to eat you out while your on your hands and knees no not 69 it's better when you eather do your partner or your partner does you and sometimes 69 but a lot of forplay is sometimes required to achieve satisfaction

    • Please stop assuming guys and just answer the question he’s my boyfriend he ate me out

    • I mean for an hour and hour and a half not 10 minutes the last time I eat a girl out for an hour she got off within 25 strokes that took about 30 seconds

  • He has to understand that girls can't cum every time. As long as you both are having fun it is no big deal. How is your sex life with him otherwise?

  • Can make you feel like shit but it depends on how he thinks

    • Well he’s very insecure sometimes so it probably made him feel like shit lol

    • Probably did I use to be the same but over the years and speaking to people has helped me realise that sometimes its just not gonna happen when it comes to sex it starts in the mind and sometimes people just are not in the right head space no matter how much you fuck them or stimulate that clit

    • Yeah i agree other than that and when a girl is ovulating boy oh boy you’re a lucky guy on those days lol

  • does he not know how to use his mouth or other things except P to V? Sounds like he needs improvement in the skills department.

  • That I have to ramp up my game.

  • he kept asking, thats kinda funny 😂

    • Not every minute just when he saw may facial expressions change and it kinda ruined it not gonna lie 😂

    • *missionary thrusting* "you gonna cum yet" nah *doggystyle thrusting* "you gonna cum yet" nah *pronebone thrusting* "you gonna cum yet" gotdamn shut the fuck up

    • Pretty much lol

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  • A good foreplay is very important along with PinV sex for awesome orgasms. PinV sex does not returns orgasms everytime.

  • How about you grow up and tell him what you like to make you cum?

    • How about you tell me not what to do because you don’t know what the hell goes on in the bed. he’s my boyfriend what do you think I’m shy... some of you men need to stop blaming the women.

    • lol. If he asked you to go to dinner for Mexican and you didn't like Mexican food you wouldn't have any problem telling him.

    • No it’s called being honest so he doesn’t waste money and we can pick a place we both like. you seem simple minded lol

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  • Foreplay

    • Eat pussy

  • that she's not relaxed enough

  • Probably similar feeling she feels when the guy can't get it up for her. Ashamed/Disappointed/Sad.

  • Probably something wrong with him or maybe his dicks not big enough

    • I’m glad you can cum and he can cum

  • The short answer for me is disappointed, but once I've cum I can soon get over it and try again 🤣🤣🤣

  • My dick is small

  • You should take some responsibility and rub your clit. I think it's crazy most people think the pleasure and orgasms of both participants should be the responsibility if the guy.

    • Umm you don’t know what happens in the bed so shush

    • Umm, actually I've been married for 6 years and chances are I have a hell of a lot more experience than you do. And I have a very sexually satisfied wife who takes some ownership for her own pleasure and doesn't expect me to be responsible for every orgasm she has. She is not that entitled.

  • My girlfriend was on meds and couldn’t cum clitorally and i just said ok and licked her for a bit and then we had sex.
    it is what it is.

  • I can't seem to ever be able to make my girl do it

  • He thinks his dick is small?

  • They think aren't man enough if can't make their girl cum