I'm a dominant, but not a huge sadist (though I DO enjoy giving barehanded spankings). I am a person who naturally assumes control and leads, and who is very good at making decisions, and in any situation, that's my "default" behavior - especially when I see other people looking around trying to figure out what to do.
I'm also very much about pleasuring my girl - the fact that I do it in ways that give me pleasure doesn't change the fact that her pleasure is important to me, and her reactions to receiving pleasure are exciting and arousing and very much welcomed by me, and I enjoy thinking new ways to pleasure her and finding every sensitive spot and every kink and fantasy she has.
What I'm REALLY good at is getting into her head - creating a kind of deep mental connection - which also means that she's at 40-50% arousal all day long because she's constantly thinking about me, so that when I see her, it doesn't take much to get her to 100% arousal. I've been told that just hearing me knock on the door is enough to get her going. But I put a lot of time and effort into building that connection, and it definitely pays off.
more guys need to learn from you lol
Same level. Maybe being dominated a bit. They say that men who are in dominant positions in real-life like to be dominated in bed, but honestly, I just think I have become a lazy f**k and like women who show initiative and take what they want.
I hate the last pictures. I also dislike blowjobs standing up, because it feels weird to have to pull my chin down in order to look into her eyes.
I have tried being a switch or dominant but it just isn't me, I am 100% a submissive... tell me what, how and when to pleasure you and make it as naughty as possible!
Switch, I'm usually submissive when I'm with a girl and dominant when I'm with a guy 😁😁😁
Do you only like submissive guys?
That's really hot!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I enjoy both! I love having my way with a woman. Telling her what to do, and (most importantly) how to do it better. I love it when she asks for permission to cum.
I also enjoy being submissive. I really like it when a woman will use me for her sexual pleasure for the entire night. In that role, I will do as I'm told. If I want an orgasm, I will ask for permission and I won't cum without it. It's a real turn on when a woman will use me to achieve several several orgasms. I love it when she will tell me what to do and how to do it better. I love it when she decides when and where I should cum. I also like it when she makes special rules for me. Rules like: When I give you permission to cum, you are not allowed to make a sound. Or, When I give you permission to cum, you are not allowed to move. I also like it when she ruins my orgasm, and she knows I won't do anything about it. I also like it when she makes me wait for several hours before she gives me permission to cum. I feel like it's my reward for pleasuring her the way she wants. I also like it when, we're out in public and she will run her hand all over my crotch and I can't do anything about it. Or when she demands I do something kinky or taboo in bed. I like it because, as a submissive, I can't say "No" to ANY request.
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Submissive with a dominant streak.. when I have a partner, we do what's called "switch night" 😈
What kinds of things do you make him do when you're a dom?
I prefer dominant but I don't mind a woman who plays an active part and goes after whatever gets her off.
Dominant. I like being in control. Spanking is a fun way to take the power position.
I can switch but much prefer dominant let her start but then I have to take over
Im more on the dominant side😈
Why is that
@Smf1989 I'm more comfortable being in control
@apple1996, sounds interesting
Im 100% sub
Submissive :)
Both... really depends on my mood, some days I just want to fuck him to death, and some days I just want him to take full advantage of me. Turns me on either way...
I agree! It's hot knowing that when we get home (from the restaurant) I'm going to have my way with you, and you're going to like it! I also like it when a woman will tell me the same thing! either way, I love it when we do kinky or taboo things.
dominant, though recieving blow jobs has a bit of a submissive element to it, as I'm expected to restrain myself from thrusting. And blow jobs are my preferred recreational activity. So, I guess if she is submissive about her lifestyle in that she will give much of it up by residing under my desk to keep me stiff, then I prefer to dominate completely.
Quite expressive
I'm always naturally taking the lead and being the dominant one. Choking, spanking, biting (all not too hard ofcourse) and pounding her (that I do hard). You should see how many times I make her orgasm with it.
I would say submissive, I've been a naughty boy 😂 lol
And I could switch if she was been a naughty girl 😉
I'm dominant by nature so any other role wouldn't work with me tbf...
I'm not hard core either way. I'm sort of a switch leaning toward the submissive side.
What do you like to do in both scenarios?
Mostly dominant sometimes submissive
Definitely more of a Dom but it depends on the partner. There are some that i enjoy being submissive towards but its pretty uncommon.
To me, Switch or Submissive.
'cause I value my independence, and so, if my what-if/would-be are Dominant, then I worry that things can easily go wrong.
And yet, although that'd mean that I'd prefer to be Dominant/Switch, I'd make sure to keep it within her consensual limit.
I'm 60% dom and 40% sub. If I explain then I like to be the one who gives command but also think others. What they want, how they want. There satisfaction is as necessary as mine.
Dominant for I'm not very dominant in my life.
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