What’s your honest thoughts on hook up culture?

[anonbrunette99]

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

*I think it's destroying dating and what dating used to mean...Dating used to be about finding that person you wanted to be in a relationship with, now it's to find someone to have sex with.. And gives people more expectations to have sex on the first date...*Ruining relationships...making it too easy for people to find someone to cheat with...

*up with random people is not safe...Even if you use condoms, condoms don't prevent all STD'S and unless you using a condom or dental dam for oral sex you can still get STD'S from oral sex...*Sex is less personal with a hook up..For me personally, there's just some sexual things I wouldn't do with just anybody. I'd only do for/with someone with that level of comfort/trust that isn't there for me with just a hookup...But also,I DON'T SHARE I don't wanna kiss, fuck or suck someone where I don't know where his mouth or penis has been...
That just ruins sex for me and I want to enjoy sex!!!

[douride2]

In all honesty I wish it would go away. I don't want any thing to do with it.

[RemoErdosain]

I think it's ruining the chances of people who want to have long-lasting relationships without worrying about STDs. I only had one partner, but now I have to get all kinds of checks because I found out she was into the hook-up culture. I couldn't care less if they want to just go and fuck, but they're truly ruining sex for everybody. Granted, you can and should always wear a condom, but even a condom isn't 100% safe

[Reaperbot666]

• hookup culture and one night stand culture are toxic for the dating pool.
• people are to build unrealistic desires. for what they want a future partner to be like. for both guys and girls to some degree.

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[DrippingHoney]

To each their own, but it's not for me.

[Neko911]

It's lame asf

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm not here to judge one who hooks up, that is their decisions they make I would never do it myself but that's me, people do what they want, they don't want strings attached with being married or having a partner they need to come home to but that is their decision and not for me to talk about them, no way shape or form just type guy I am.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't agree with it. I think it's wrong.

[Wise4myage]

Never tried it, not sure If ever would.

[crmoore]

People should do what they like, but hook-up culture isn't for me, personally.

[MountAverage]

Why is everything referred to as a "culture" nowadays? That's so stupid. Anyway, what even is "hookup culture" and how is it so different than how young people behaved in past generations? I really don't get it. Regardless, I see nothing wrong with people enjoying their single lives. Usually the ones who complain about this stuff are either projecting, or can't get laid and get rejected a lot, or they're just conservative reactionaries.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah people had sex while single back in the day but it read usually people you knew, hung around, sent to school with friend of a friend type thing.. Now it's strangers on the internet or dating apps.. So kinda not the same thing...

[MountAverage]

@Brainsbeforebeauty I mean, people still also did have sex with people they just met back then. Maybe not as much, but it was still also a thing. And still, I don't see that much different and especially don't see the problem.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

STD'S for one... And how many say they looking for a relationship, when they just looking for a hookup for two, and lastly then they think it's not the person's business who they all having sex with. To each their own, but I ain't personally sleeping with someone or even kissing someone where I don't know where else that mouth has been... I knew someone that had sex with one female and then went on a date with another female like 3 hours later... Like TF you think that person he was on a date with would of still went on that date if she knew her just crawled out of someone else's bed? Dishonesty is a big part of the problem too. a lot of these people hooking up are already in relationships, if I don't want my own boyfriend/, husband right now I definitely don't want someone else's either

[MountAverage]

@Brainsbeforebeauty You're talking about something different than I am. You're talking about unprotected sex - I'm talking about people using protection. You're talking about people lying about their intentions and cheating on their partners - I'm talking about people being open about their intentions and not cheating on anyone. So, I'm asking again - what exactly is the problem with people hooking up? We're fucking grown ups. Why the fuck should we be judged for enjoying our sex lives with each other? You don't like it? Don't do it. Why do you feel the need for everyone else to live their lives like you do? That's just reactionary bullshit. You can't give me a single valid reason other than pure projection on your part. Try again.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Excuse me, but was the question not what are YOUR THOUGHTS on hook ups... Where did I tell you our anyone not to 🤔I stated the issues I have and why it's not really safe... But protected sex? Do you kiss? That's not protected and you can get mouth herpes... Do you have/perform oral? Cuz that's Unprotected and can still get STD'S that way... Do you tell your sexual partners if you're sleeping with others and how many? Do what you want, I gave my opinions on why I feel it's ruining dating and relationships and not safe. NOWHERE did I tell others not to... SO you try again 🤗

[MountAverage]

@Brainsbeforebeauty You're still talking about specific scenarios to distract from the overall topic. You talk about dishonesty and unprotected sex. I'm not talking about that. The fact that you keep evading my question tells me you don't really have an argument. You're projecting. You feel uncomfortable with the idea of casual sex, therefore everybody who does it is wrong. That's all there is to your way of thinking.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No apparently you are.. Your missing not all sex acts are protected why do you keep evading that.. And please stop putting words in my mouth I DIDN'T SAY... Thank you 🙂

[MountAverage]

@Brainsbeforebeauty You need to learn how to read. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT UNPROTECTED SEX. Not once did Insay anything about being okay with people having unproteced sex. In case you didn't get it - I am not okay with random people having unprotected sex. DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT? Yes? Okay, great. Now that that's out of the way, I'll give you one last shot in giving me a valid reason why two consenting singles having PROTECTED sex is a problem? Think hard, because this is the last chance I give you. Oh, and about your comment about unprotected oral - oh please. You don't even genuinely care about risk management. You know nothing about risks. Do you drive a car in your everday life? Do you have any idea what the likeliness of dying in a car crash is? You're being ridiculous. So, last chance. Say something intelligent or this discussion is over.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

It already was the minute you stopped listening.. Have a nice day

[MountAverage]

@Brainsbeforebeauty So you can't give me a single valid reason. It's as I suspected nothing but 100% projection on your part. Oh well, no surprises there. Enjoy your life as a judgmental, slut-shaming reactionary. Bye bye 😊

[Kelly6]

100% support it

[In_Trance]

It's an option. It's not for everyone; but then, nothing is

[REDHOTLINE]

Do you mean only for sex?

[B2281]

Waste of time in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

i have always been interested in it but sadly has never happend

[Anonymous]

I don't like it.