Girls, would it be hard for you to date or be with a person who shows little interest in sex/asexual even though they have a great personality?

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meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I was once with a man for 3 years who was very short down below and very thin down below he was about the size of my thumb and he had the worst sex drive and I'm a hypersexual person by medical terms so we were not compatible at all sexually however he was very good to me his personality was amazing because he was good to me and the children I stayed with him I didn't care about the sexual aspect I just took care of myself with toys and you get the point however the moment he turned into an asshole and broke my heart it was done.
I left he tried counseling he tried for 2 years on and off to get with me again but he never followed through with the counseling and what he did was just not forgivable and then if you combine not forgivable actions with bad sex really who the heck wants to go back to that

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

If I wanted to date again, this would be my perfect scenario. I'm not a physical person at all (as in I don't crave or enjoy many forms of physical touch), but love a great personality and would be more interested in having someone to relate to.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

As a woman, you're raised with the complete expectation that even while you should be allowed to wear anything, there are many guys out there that will not only think lustful thoughts but feel entitled to act of them.

The baseline assumption is that as a woman, there is someone out there at any given time that could be interested in having sex with you regardless of how well they really know your personality or character traits.

It's of course incredibly hard to be with someone who someone who is sexually ambiguous to you. Female sexuality works in that you are desired. That you are chosen. To be worth someone who can't be bothered to initiate sex is the same as being sexually rejected over and over again.

CreativeMumble · Answer

Yes, I love sex and want to share that with a partner.

KeziL · Answer

I don’t mind if they don’t wanna have sex much as long as they’re down to cuddle a lot and kiss sometimes, I’m a person that needs a lot of physical touch so as long as we can make that happen somehow, cool with me.

Cherokeehp · Answer

I would not date a person like that.

dandiecandie · Answer

Well if they didn't like sex I'd make them a believer. I dont believe in humans being asexual because only plants are asexual. I just think they have a low sex drive so I guess you have to stimulate him more to entice his hunger.