Do you understand that sometimes we can’t help it? It’s like going to an art museum and just looking for a second at each painting. You have to really look and contemplate to appreciate the beautiful thing you’re look at.
A part of the brain is called the corpora quadrigemina, its function is to find things in your environment that may be threats, or things we need, etc. So it works like this: have you ever looked for an apartment? You look for “for rent” signs. Before you know it you begin to see them everywhere. You see them more because your brain is pointing them out to you. But after you get an apartment your brain still picks out those signs.
For men the brain picks out women that we find attractive and pretty much forces us to see them. We cannot help that We look and sometimes the brain Zones out and we don’t even know it. However, what we do next is a choice. Do we move on? Do we smile? Do we approach?
What makes it worse for us is when women dress in something revealing or sexy. Especially since testosterone drives us so much. Anything sexual or that reminds us of women or sex our brain will make us focus on it. If you don’t believe me I invite you look around and at advertising for the feminine “S” curve. You’ll see it on packaging, ads, buildings, etc. it’s everywhere.
I’m not saying men are excused from their behavior but please be aware that sometimes we can’t always help it and if anything women should be more empathetic to it.
I'm not a painting, or an apartment. Testosterone isn't an excuse for literally anything. What do you call an Uncle Tom but for women? Aunt Karen maybe?
By no means am I say that testosterone is an excuse. I’m simply saying that it’s the reason. I’m saying that understanding and empathizing is key to being human. Let me put it this way: some women will absolutely be angry and irritated due to PMS. A man should understand and empathize because we know it’s a hormone thing and not how you would act. But some women use it as an excuse for their behavior. However it’s beyond your control to be irritable. Again I say it isn’t an excuse what I explained. It’s beyond our control. What is within our control is how we deal with it.
They won’t know and won’t care until they actually experience it.
Said the girl with perfect makeup, crop top and pants equivalent to underwear...
Understand the anthethis, people are fascinated by different things, sometimes those things are beautiful. Sometimes those beautiful things are art or a formula 1 car.. sometimes those beautiful things are alive, like a hummingbird or a panda.. sometimes those living beautiful things are a pretty girl.
Do fireworks think its creepy when people stare at them?
Thank you for proving my point by comparing women to. animals and inanimate objects. I have never worn a crop top. or short shorts in my life, yet I've still been stared at on numerous occasions. I don't care if a man thinks im pretty, that doesn't justify creepy behavior.
That’s more based on relativity. If he’s realitively good looking it’s an engaging look and it makes your panties wet (I did a six week study at trailer park university at least that’s what I told all the trailer park girls)
However if they are realitivley unattractive it’s a creepy look.
And it’s funny cause the amount of guys who are thinking about cutting you up and raping the parts are exactly the same in both demographics.
"I did a six week study at a trailer park university" You didn't need to mention that, it was implied😒
Wow, you just like insulting yourself before anyone else gets a chance dont you. Call yourself trash, a creep who wants dirty underwear, that absolutely foul🤢 No, not selling any of my clothing today, but what I will sell you is some prozac and an appointment with a counselor. You got depression homie, take care of yourself ok?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You don't get it do you? Men play the badboy image because they desire being sent to prison where they'll be sodomized in the showers by guys just like that. Obviously they'll deny it but that just proves it.
(yawns, loudly) That's nice.
PURI PURI PRISONER, THE RAPIST WE DON'T REALLY LOVE AND ADORE!!
it's creepier when a girl helps a guy cheat on his girlfriend, with the girls friend.. so, if you're a guy, and you're dating someone, and the guy cheats on her, with her friend.. the girl "friend" who he cheated on his girlfriend with, belongs in an insane asylum
Thats oddly specific😐
i saw it on here
This is sick i love this!!
A guy staring you down to fight you is a billion percent different than a guy admiring a female peacocking herself for sexual attention.
just because we look, in no way is suggesting that we're even thinking about sexually assaulting you. If our stares send your overactive imagination into terrifying nightmares of rape, then you're the ones with the issues, not the guys who were doing nothing more than looking at you.
Hmmm I wonder what caused such a reaction? Oh that’s right, the predatory actions and aggressive behaviors of guys. Yeah we may have an issue, but the cause isn’t with us.
@Agape93 you wonder what caused the reaction? lol here. Let me help you figure it out. It's the fact that she's telling us to imagine a huge muscular guy sexually assaulting us while there's nothing we can do about it, and equating that with the feelings that girls get when a guy 'creepily' LOOKS at them!. Maybe you're new to Earth or something, but on this planet LOOKING at someone does not equate to touching them inappropriately. Byyyyyyye Felicia.
You just don't want to entertain the thought because an ounce of empathy might creep into your soul. And that would make you feel bad when you stare at women and make them uncomfortable. Stare for too long at any animal, you'll understand that its not just an innocent harmless action, you'll either see how a dog cowers and whines or you'll get bit. Those feelings are the same in people. Youve got to understand at least that much right?
You know what. There is no perfect thing a guy can do. Women cry and complain when no guys look at them and then cry and complain when guys look at them. You are fucked. A women walks around showing to much then bitches when men look at her like a sex object. It’s fucking hilarious. Look at the posts on her from girls showing their ass and tits and then they complain about all the guys messaging them. Give your head a shake.
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