Men always and will always want sex. That's a huge part of our biology, and it's our biological imperative. Without it, the entire species would go extinct.
But your REAL question is: do men want relationships? And that's a more complicated question.
I believe that MOST men want a relationship, but there are certainly some who don't, and there always has been (but they all still want sex). But Radical Feminism (aka Third Wave Feminism, which was much less about equality and much more about promoting women above men, and blaming men for everything) has turned society upside down. RadFem has taught women to follow the traditional male path towards college and careers at the expense of family and relationships, and has set up marriage to make men powerless when it comes to divorce and child custody. Men are still expected to provide everything they were expected to provide under "traditional gender roles" AND everything pushed by Feminism, while women want all the benefits of traditional gender roles AND the benefits of feminism.
The everyday cost of a relationship for guys is far higher than a lot of women realize. Women demand a lot from men: time, attention, money, leadership, initiative, ambition, etc. In the past, the benefits for men offset these costs, but today's women aren't interested in providing any benefits to men other than sex, and sometimes not even that. Essentially, women (led by RadFems, but most women have accepted their guidance whether they realize it or not) have changed the balance of value for relationships so far to the side of women that more and more men simply aren't willing to stay in the game. The level of liability for men is so incredibly high, and the benefits are limited and very easily lost, so it's simply not worth it.
It's like if Honda raised the price of a Civic from $20,000 to $200,000 and expected that the demand would remain the same - and are shocked when people simply don't choose to buy a Civic at a Ferrari price.
Most women today assume that men want in a woman all the things that women want in men, and they tend to "lead" the argument with their resume: I've got this college degree and I've worked at this company and earn this much money, etc. They don't seem to realize that men hear this and think "this woman has NO IDEA what I'm looking for, because it isn't any of that!"
Most men want women who are interested in being wives and moms, who will take care of the home and the kids while he's out earning the money. And they generally want women who are serious about relationships and motherhood when they're younger - say, mid-20s. They don't want to start having kids in their mid-30s or 40s - that's too late and they're too old, because they'll be in their 50's when their kids are teens, and it's a lot harder to keep up with ballet and baseball practice.
But that's not what most women prioritize anymore, and men really don't find a lot of value in what they do offer: someone who is just as frazzled from work and commute as they are, who has all the same problems they have, and all the frustrations, etc. Men already have those things, and having more of it doesn't help us, and it doesn't get us a family - so what's the point of a relationship? Is what's left worth losing your house and your retirement and half your income, and being blamed for everything that goes wrong in her life? Most men say "nope." It's not that men wouldn't want a relationship - men also want love and companionship, and men actually ENJOY taking care of women and are willing to work hard for them and give them a better life - but today's women have been told that they'll be happier doing it for themselves. It turns out that that's a lie, though. Certainly, women can do the work - but it makes most of them miserable in the long run, AND it destroys their relationships and their relationship value - and so more and more, they're ending up alone. But... men still want sex, and women still want male attention, and THAT is an equivalent value, so those exchanges happen all the time. But a relationship has a far higher cost for men, and so men want far higher value - and if women don't want to provide that value, then men just won't buy.
Depends who they serve and how. God designed sex for marriage for togetherness and reproduction. Though I much want those things, there is an appropriate time and place. My body naturally wants women, but I am more than my body. I am a living soul in service to God. I would very much like to marry, but my service is in God's will. I have relationships that could grow or I could develop new ones, but for now it is waiting. So no, I don't have meaningless sex and I do not use women.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No. Granted, all men (except the asexuals) do want to fuck, and (collectively) more than women (collectively) do, but just because we all want sex doesn't mean that it's all we want. We want hugs and cuddles and hot chocolate in front of a roaring fire and cold beer while roaring at a fire and laughter and companionship and run-on sentences too. Obviously, details and quantities are going to vary from guy to guy, but in general, it's a mistake to assume a guy only wants sex- though it may (MAY) be all he wants from you at that point in time.
very well put
Yes, but not as often as women seem to.
To be honest dating, relationships and sex are low priorities for me. For awhile the three where probably on my list of priorities. A lot of the time it felt they where on the list simply because people where pushing the three on me as if I'm obligated to do so. Just like a few other things in my life I took them off my list of priorities and ended up telling those pushing them on me that if they don't stop, I'm taking off. In a few cases be it family or friends, they didn't stop and they where taken off my list of priorities as well.
Actually I think its the opposite. I think men want a relationship (statistically men surveyed said that the most important trait a woman had to have in order to be relationship is that she had to cuddle. this was 70% of respondents. Not exactly what one would expect if men were just animals wanting nothing but sex), I just think they know that women will never give them one, not one that is functional at least.
Women are not expected to do anything for any one but themselves (thats why you can go online and see all of these quotes about women loving themselves. Seriously go online and google women's quotes and it will be about how great women are and how they need to love themselves. Then google quotes about men, and it will be quotes about how men need to appreciate women and how great women are. This says a lot about how women see themselves and how society sees men and women and its not particularly flattering). As a result most men have just decided that since they cannot get love they will settle for sex instead.
I personally am at that crossroads, I'm tired of women blowing me off because I won't act like a sex crazed asshole that they crave but the alternative is to act like that and give up my values to be with a woman that really doesn't care about me. So I think the problem lies with women (and yes I know, most women are going to argue otherwise because we live in a day and age were we can say what ever we want about men but for some reason women are above criticism and we must pretend like they are perfect in every way. Just because we are expected to act that way doesn't mean that is reality though.).
I can't speak for all men but I do enjoy sex and a lot of it at that. However "a hole is just a hole" and " guys will do anything to get their dicks wet" do not hold much value to me. Sure there are some guys like that. Yes all guys are horny but respect and the right time and place also have value.
Sure a lot want to fuck a lot of women just want to fuck to both can be just as bad I have met plenty of both that are like that ownly after one thing nothing wrong with that as long as they are open and not being deceitful to people in order to get what they want I dont see the problem. Everyone wants sex though it just depends how you go about getting it.
I would lie if I would say no man is like that. I've seen many men that go by those rules. The downside besides themselves is that they are always trying to get their dick wet. Meaning they are always going after women, while guys like me don't go after them. The only men that those women have around them are fuckhungry monkeys looking for someone to holes to fill. This is of course a strong generalization, but yeah.
I'm one of those dudes who don't really gives a shit about sex. If I can get it it's great n all, but I'm not gonna go out of my way to try to desperately have sex. I want to find someone I can build on and who can build on me. That's what I want and I can imagine that many others also want that.
So shortly, no not all men are like that
Not me, i think I've covered that, but fucking is great but so is love. Love fulfills me, sexx is a second. And maybe Im different but im not anything without love
I have mentioned several times, sex is better with love. But on 2nd thought, I am rethinking, with a girlfriend I fuckin worship, then her dog ass, snitching, puss suckin sister, when the lights are turned off, feels just as fine!! But I try to get out before lights get turned on, because her sisters , wow, a face like a doberman!!!
Are you implying girls dont?
They have a point, but also most of the women that say that are not wife material anyway. :)
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That's not what I want personally, but in my experience talking to other men all my life, I can confirm that indeed, most of them do just want to fuck. Unless they're just being macho and don't actually want what they say they do--which is a possibility, but not likely, considering how widespread of a trope it is and how many testimonies there are from women who were hurt by it.
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