Will My Shocked Neighbor Girl Resume talking to me Ever?

[Shourahi]

Hello, I am from Thailand, My father didn't have good relations with Mom, He Gave Divorce to Mom and got Married Again, I have two Older Sisters, One is 19 Years old and other is 22 Years old and she has a boyfriend too, My Mom always wants me to follow her instructions and obey to my both the sisters as well, she asks me to do all the house works and even to help my Sisters, My Sisters take advantage of my Situation and try to bully and Dominate me, Sometimes they even ask me to iron their clothes and clean up their Rooms, I feel irritated and if I don't do as they want, then either My 22 Years old Sister or Mom call to my Sister's boyfriend at home and asks him to punish me by pulling and yanking my penis and don't stop even if I starts Sobbing or Crying,

There is a Neighbor Girl whom I like much and She is My Crush, She also used to talk me a lot, She comes to My home every evening to go for a Dance Class with My 19 Years old Sister, Two weeks Ago one day when she came in my home, She Coincidentally came in the Room when My Sister's boyfriend was punishing me, he had me Nude and he was yanking my penis brutally and I was Crying , that neighbor girl got Shocked to see this and she immediately went out with My 19 Years old Sister to go for the dance class and I don't know What My 19 Years old Sister told her about what She Saw But from the Next day She Stopped talking to me and she just ignore me, I could not explain her My Situation because of shame and embarrassment, Can she start talking to me Again like before? Or She don't want to keep relations with me Now? Also how can I fix this issue Peacefully with My both Sisters? or My Neighbor Girl has dumped me for forever?

[zamasux]

Sorry to know about your situation bro, really feel sad for you.
You are abused brutally, you must reach a legal help.
That girl you like, she must have misdirected by your sister. You should talk to that girl somewhere out of your homies reach if she is important for you of course.
After listening for side still if she don't want to keep any contact with you then forget about her you can't force anyone to be with you.
What you must worry is the way you are treated. Make smart moves, gather evidence against your bullies and reach a legal help.

[Shourahi]

I am being bullied and abused for last two years by my both older Sisters, I wish I didn't have a penis because they know it's my weakness so both my Sisters either blackmail / threaten me to get my penis yanked by her boyfriend or she actually ask me to punish me like this, Now worst part I have lost to that neighbor girl and now she believes what my sister told her about what she saw at that day.

[zamasux]

If you can't fight back at the moment then you will have to work wise. Only way you can get free from this situation is being independent. Get a job, wisely save some money out of their knowledge and one fine day move out of that house and never turn back. About that girl you like, try to reach her and tell her truth if she is so important for you. Don't feel sad if she doesn't believe you. Bro world is populated by 7.7 billion people, do you really think you won't find a right partner?

[Danny98]

That sounds like a horrible situation you're in. She might talk to you again. I don't know what your sister said to her, if she acted like you enjoy the pain or not. I don't know how convincing she is, or if your neighbor is gullible. I can easily see why you would have a hard time telling her what happened, but I do believe the truth has to be known. It might also be difficult to tell her without your family finding out. So you if you do tell her, you have to make sure you do it as safely as possible. If she does know the absolute truth though and does not want to bother with you because of thinking you're weak, then she isn't the type worth bothering with.
Are you sure your mother knows what is going on exactly? Because if she doesn't know exactly what your sister's boyfriend is doing then she might help you.
No matter what happens with the neighbor, I do believe it's a situation that you need to get out of. Just be sure to be careful who you tell. I wish you the best of luck.

[Shourahi]

What happened was planned by My 22 years old Sister, She was annoyed with me and wanted to teach me a lesson So she asked her boyfriend to punish me naked at that time when that neighbor girl also come to my home ( neighbor girl goes to a dance class with My 19 years old Sister in the evening ) And I think My 19 years old Sister also knew that what would be done to me because she was there at home in the evening, My 22 years old Sister's boyfriend came in the evening and he forcefully stripped me naked and started pulling and yanking my penis brutally, Meanwhile that neighbor girl also came to my home and she got to see this but My 19 years old Sister pretended like she came coincidentally when I was being punished naked, Now I don't know how can I explain to neighbor girl that it was not a coincident but it was planned, that neighbor girl is a friend with my 19 Years old Sister and she probably trusted on her.

[Rachel4ever]

I feel really sorry for you, and hope you'll tackle the problem soon. Let the authorities know about the abuse. As far as your neighbour is concerned, she is evidently shocked seeing you like that and maybe that's why she ain't talking to you. It might be hard for you as well, but please do try to strike up a light conversation with her. You can share the issue with her whenever you feel comfortable. I'm sure she'd understand.

[Shourahi]

it's not easy for me to explain her about what was happened at that day, She saw me naked and being punished and abused and then I don't know what my 19 years old Sister has explained her about what she saw, My 19 years old sister must have told some different reasons why I was punished like that because she has good relations with my 22 years old sister who had planned this all.

[Rachel4ever]

I agree it's not easy @shourahi, but you can't just keep enduring this forever. Try talking to her whenever you feel comfortable. Notice her body language around you.
Rest, there's a childline in almost all the countries. Try this: https://childlinethailand.org/

[Shourahi]

I don't want to endure this forever and I would move out once I completed my schooling, My both older sisters bully me but I didn't know that my 22 years old sister would use this nasty trick against me ! she deliberately asked her boyfriend to have me naked and punish me in the evening when that neighbor girl also come to my home, And my 19 years old sister showed this to her like she came and saw it coincidentally.

[Rachel4ever]

It's horrible that your sisters take a sadistic pleasure in tormenting you like that- bullying, assaulting, isolating you. But at least try the helpline once. I hope that if not completely, at least you'll get rid of some part of your misery.

[JustJasmine01]

Aww this sounds awful. You don’t deserve to be treated like this or be abused by anyone. Please know you matter and you probably need to find somewhere else to live and forget that girl. If I saw someone being abused like that, I would’ve gotten them help instead of ignoring them.

[Shourahi]

Do you think that neighbor girl has dumped me because she thinks I am too weak for her? or Still there is some chance in future ! what was done to me was very brutal, I know My 22 years old Sister is mean and harsh but I didn't know that she can use such nasty tricks to put me down.

[JustJasmine01]

Yeah your sister is gross. As far as for the neighbor girl, I guess try to talk to her about what you’re going through because she may have no idea but if she dosent listen or sympathize for you or anything then I think it’s best to move on.

[Nawlins34]

Just read this guy and you're in my thoughts but I'd like to float something past you here; Your question regarding the girl is a by-product of the abusive environment.

I'm saying, you need to focus on your current situation. Because right now, it's the girl you have a crush on, but in reality, ANY thing that makes you happy, these 3-4 people abusing you will cease it to keep you in compliance. I've visited you country a number of times, but I don't pretend to be an expert in India cultural, this has to be physical abuse.

There must be some legal means for you to report this and get out of there.

I can't guarantee the girl you like will ever speak to you again, but facing/dealing with your current situation will go a long way making this easier. I did read some of your replies to other opinions, so I'm aware you're waiting until schooling ends.

Her opinion of you is tainted by your step-sister, man. And if she's simply ignoring you going forward? Her silence is an action. Her actions say she's okay with the situation she observed. I won't pretend she has leverage here to assist you, but if she wasn't revolted with the abuse on display and she came back the next day, that's saying something, don't you think? I don't know, but good luck man, please post again when you have another question.

[Shourahi]

I understand what you mean, At that day when that neighbor girl coincidentally saw how badly My Sister's boyfriend was yanking my penis and I was crying due to Pain, then i thought that neighbor girl would ask from My 19 years old Sister to Stop him but I don't know what was happened and what My 19 Years old Sister told to her about My punishment ( I mean what reason she gave to her ) but Seems like My Sister convinced her about my punishment and she has stopped talking to me, I feels like either My 19 years old Sister or My 22 years old Sister must have something wrong to her about why I was being punished naked and she agreed with them... Worst part is that My Mom still talking Side of My Sisters and that's why they bully me always.

[Shourahi]

@nawlins34, My Father gave divorced to Mom and got married again, but I live with My own Mom and both older Sisters, My Mom hate my father and she has been very rude and strict with me since I was 10-11 years old, when I was 11-12 years old and if I ever did any mistake or didn't do well in study then My Mom used to have me fully naked and would spank me badly in front my older sisters and slowly slowly My both older Sisters also started bulling and dominating me, Now My 22 years old Sister get my penis pulled and yanked by her boyfriend if I don't do as she wants, I have become like a Maid of house.

[Nawlins34]

So, what's the legal age that you're able to leave on your own?

[Shourahi]

it's 20 years but My issue is that I can't move until I complete my schoolings.

[Nawlins34]

Which is at what age?

[Alfleria]

Your sisters are too horrible. I doubt they’re human being! Even animals won’t do that.
You need to stand up for yourself. Or worse, report it to the police. No human being are allowed to be treated like that. Especially when it occurred pretty often like in your case. Once you settled everything with your family, you can try talking to that girl. Just be honest. If she really like you, she’ll understand..
don’t give up hope.. you can do it!

[Shourahi]

My Sisters are devil and sly, I hate them but Now this time because of their nasty trick I have lost my crush too ! I can't forget what they done with me but I also don't want to forget that neighbor Girl

[Киттйлинк]

You are from Thailand but do you live in Thailand?
If you live in USA go to the cops and report them accuse them of sexual, emotional abuse all of them!!

That’s so awful.
If I were that girl, I would go report that solely for the reason that you said that you were crying.. if you had not been crying maybe the girl could thibk it’s some weird stuff you guys do.. but upon seeing someone crying it looks like punishment and not a normal type of punishment!! They deserve to be in prison.

They are sick in the head.

[Shourahi]

I live in Thailand, Yup that Neighbor girl had seen me crying but Still she stopped talking to me, i don't know what My 19 years old Sister had told her about my nude punishment, i think she has conviencied her.

[Киттйлинк]

if you have a phone, record it!! and go to the cops there. I don't know how laws are there but just try to escape from that. if you can't record it, just leave.

[John_Galt]

Well, first let me say that I am very sorry about your situation. secondly, it’s very clear to me that the solution to your sisters boyfriend needs to be a violent one... not a peaceful one! “I’m assuming where you live that you can’t just tell the police what he is doing to you or you would have already done it”. You have the right to defend yourself with whatever means are necessary!!! A baseball bat to the back of the head, fixes almost any problem!!!
as far as the girl goes... “she probably just doesn’t know what to do about the situation... you should just speak to her and be honest about the situation. If she cares about you, she will be sympathetic. If she isn’t sympathetic and doesn’t want to talk to you anymore... then she doesn’t deserve you any way so f*ck her”!!

[centerline]

some things in this world is just fucked up... the way you take punishment is one of these things.. and im not sure you were opposed to it as much as you would like us to believe...
as for the neighbor girl, she will get over it... sometimes is not what is going on that is the problem, but just the surprise someone gets when they see naked people... and the response is to leave the naked people to their privacy... so she left.

would you have rather she stayed and watched you take your "punishment"?

go talk to her act like it was a normal part of your life, and dont try to explain your way out of it as that could lead to burying yourself deeper... if the subject comes up, then dont be ashamed or try to blame it all on the other guy, but take responsibility for your actions... and who knows, maybe after she has had a day or two to think about it, it might have turned her on a little bit...

[Hangry22]

I don't know what is going on with this East Asian families but you need to get help. This is sexual abuse and domestic violence on a minor. I am sure there are rules in your country so search upon it and get the help you need to escape from these bitchy assholes.
As for the girl, ik she must have felt like your ray of hope amongst this bad family. I am guessing she's also 19. If she had seen such a situation and if she genuinely cared for you or at least saw you as a friend, she wouldn't have stopped talking to you. I think why she did that was because she thought it was embarrassing or humiliating which it is but it's not something that you were doing on your own or that situation was not in your hands. So if she's ignoring you, it just shows how much low her mindset is like your sisters.
How can a mom even be that way I don't understand. I am sure your Dad left because he got fed up with these women. I don't know if your Dad still cares about his children, but get his number and let him know about this. Try to convince him that you can't live like this.
Also try to get that jerk boyfriend's treatment towards you on camera as a proof. This would help rest your case. I don't think this could be solved peacefully. So if you want to get out, be strong and smart and alert the authorities.

[Shourahi]

@hangry22, My dad left Mom because of her freak and Aggresive nature, i don't have contact with him for last many years, My both older Sisters bully and dominate me like i am their Maid or even a slave at home... Only person was that Neighbor Girl whom i used to like a lot but i What she did surprised me ! And now she also stopped talking to me... i took lots of Pain because her but seems Most Girls are herstless and selfish !

[Shourahi]

@hangry22, My both older Sisters ( 19 yo & 22 yo) didn't wamt me to talk to that Neighbor Girl but when i refused then My 22 years old Sister got annoyed and she asked her biyfriend to yank my penis to punish me, She willingly asked her boyfriend to come at home when that neighbor girl also come home to go for dance class, at that day he came in the evening and without telling me anything he fircefully had me naked and started pulling and yanking my penis brutally he kept on pulling my penis until that neighbor girl came in and got to see this all... when i saw her i thought she would help me or she would ask my 19 years old Sister to stop him but i don't know what My 19 years old Sister told her and she didn't intervene on what was going on... when My 19 years old Sister and that neighbor girl were going out for dance class they both said bye to him and even that time he was cintinously pulling and yanking my penis but they both went out for dance class and from next day onwards she stopped talking to me and started ignoring me... but she still talk to my both older Sisters and she even talk with My Sister's boyfriend ! I don't know what is wrong with her?

[Hangry22]

Well if she's friends with your sisters surely her character will be similar to that of your sisters. So just forget about that worthless girl and focus on getting out of this situation which requires legal action.

[Shourahi]

Yup My Sisters are bitch & devils, When they didn't leave me ( her brother ) then they would not leave anyone... One day My Sister would eat up her boyfriend too.

[alybells]

I say go up to her and have a clear conversation and if she doesn’t wanna talk then write a letter and focus on her answering it declare in your mind she’ll answer it and I know you’ll get all what you desire

[vijaydamor]

U sexsiy

[ch2raf]

First of all I am really sorry to hear that you're going through all this
Answering your first question I can say that she will most likely never talk to you again
Not in the nearest time at least
But that's not really the problem
She's most likely a superficial person since she didn't try to understand from u what was happening and I assume you never told her about the treatment your family treats you
But anyways I'm gonna share something with you
Something that me myself have discovered not a longtime ago
You need to learn to defend yourself and say no when you feel like it's not gonna do you any good
Because believe me its gonna get really bad if it keeps happening
Make your presence known
Talk to your mother in private and tell her about everything
Explain to her that not this way you'll end up better than your father because that's what she's trying to do
After all she's your mother and she loves you...
And if it happens that the talk didn't change anything
I would go as far as I can away from that house
To somewhere where you can sit and think clearly about what u can do about this as a young man.
Personal advice
Try to find a job or a school who's far from home or anything that will be useful to you that may be beneficial somehow
I wish you all the best man 🙏

[Shourahi]

Yeah, obviously i don't want to live with My family, My both older Sisters bully me and they have always been insenstive and brutal with me, My Mom is also not Any better, She hates My father and she don't want me to Confront her, When i was 12 years old, if i did any mistake then she used to expose me nude in front my sister's friend to make me ashamed, Now My oldest Sister do the same thing and My Mom STILL take their Side ! At that day, i wanted to explain that Neighbor girl about what She saw but i could not get any chance, i din't know what went wrong? She used to talk tome a lot but now she has totally changed.

[ch2raf]

she's in shock and still trying to understand what's happening Give it some time ok because its gonna get more clear by time. But believe me buddy you're the only who can save yourself You need to start acting up I know that you have a lot of anger within you And that anger needs to come out in the shape of strength

[İstanbul34]

What kind of perspective is this life? Sorry about your situation, but first look at saving yourself. Right now, I think it's different you should think before your neighbor girl.

[jaYYiie]

I'm not evn worried about the girl frm next door talking to you
You need help bro!
I'm more worried about the shit yur going through! Ummm that's abuse nd torture. Tbh your sisters sound like heartless bitches
Your their brother not a slave 🤦‍♀️
Why dnt you tell your parents?

Sure wish I wlkd in nd saw him doing that. I'd sock the bastrd in the throat

[Shourahi]

@jayyiie I don't have father, he gave divorce to Mom when i was a kid, My Mom mostly take Side of My both older Sisters even if they are wrong, My both older Sisters bully and dominate me, Specially My 22 years old Sister, if i don't do like she want then she get my penis pulled and yanked by her boyfriend brutally So i have not much choices other than to follow her instruction... At that day that neighbor Girl git to see when he was punishing me naked and she terminated her all relations with me.

[jaYYiie]

Look! You cn always find another girl your young What matters is your health nd safety If your mum ain't listening then find someone who cn like your teacher or friend, anyone! What I dnt understand is why you hvnt called the cops yet its bn what 2 years now? You cnt keep putting yourself through this. Nd the fact that the girl next door wlkd nd saw this happening nd did nothing but ignore you shows she ain't the ryt girl fr you. Cz if she was she wldv definitely tried to stop it.

[SherryBomb]

Bro, i dont know how thailand child services is, but get some help, from any where. Tell your Ma, tell the police, tell someone. That shit ain't right and something needs to be done. If no one will help, start working out, get bulky, so that one day when your sisters boyfriend abuses you, you can beat the living hell out of him. As for the neighbor chick, tell her what you told us, given the chance.

[Shourahi]

@sherrybomb, Its a very difficult situation for me and I don't think anyone would help me, I would move out once I finish my schooling to get a job, it's not My Sister's boyfriend, it is My Mom and My both older Sisters are more Guilty, Specially My 22 Years old Sister is a devil and sly Girl, when I was 11 years old, My Mom used to spank me nude if I did any mistake, she kept on doing this till I was 14 Years old, When I was 14 Years old, One day My Mom was going to spank but meanwhile my oldest Sister also came in the Room, My Mom pulled down my pant and underwear and began spanking me, My sister was standing in front me So she got to see my penis ( at 14 Years I had a child like penis), My Sister was wicked and cunning, She asked Mom to punish my penis instead of spanking me and from that day it has been happening with me, Now if I don't do as my both Sisters want then my oldest Sister ask her boyfriend to pull and yank my penis badly to punish me, Worst part is this... I even lost that neighbor girl because of this All.

[SherryBomb]

Explain this shit to the neighbor girl and the police. If the police won't take you seriously start pumping some iron and take matters into your own hands, you still have to live there for another year or so. If you graduate and they find some legal loophole to keep you there till 18, then run away. This shit is fucking disgusting, dont take this shit, they hit you, you hit them. That shit would be one thing if they spanked your ass, but hitting your fucking balls that 15 miles to far, their stop was on exit 9 GoodParenting Road.

[Niya2006]

You should tell someone.(that could do something about it )
Try your hardest to explain to her what's been going on see if she hears you out , it most likely won't go back to the way things were before.
I hope things work out for you.

[lovelyrose12]

I am sorry bro, this is abuse please stand up for your self. i also used to live another country where there was no child protective services and get beat up by my older brother until I stood up to him. i said to him when I turn 16 I will hire someone to get ride of you and then I start fighting back after that he back off even Niebor used to abuse me but stoped when I stood up to them although they were group and i was by my self. please take karate classes if there is any or talk to someone

[Arjunaguy]

First off that's a crime what your sis boyfriend is doing to you. You should talk to your father or go to the cops. He should be severely punished for his actions. You should talk to the girl and tell her your side of the story and be honest. It's then upto her to decide whether she wants to talk to you or not.

[jestergent]

You are in a different country. See what the laws and culture are of what is okay. If you are able to fight back do so. You are not trying to win. You want maybe to obey parents if in culture abuse is normal. You want to obey rules at minor age and prioritize education. If you are doing drugs or things deemed unacceptable in the society which you live then clean those up. Make sure you are doing all the right acceptable things then you get the support you need within country. Then at that time maybe you are allowed by society to fight back. The penis is yours. No one touches it. You obey acceptable orders and follow things to improve yourself, career. You are willing to do chores to the limit. You may work 12 hours a day maximum. And you slowly turning 12 hours of chores into 4 hours plus 8 work or school and work skills.

You do not share all your plans, the goal may be to save money and become self sufficient, able to pay your own way. You may have to push 4 years to do it. Meeting women is not your priority. It won't happen without a price of extortion and abuse.

Extortion of chore labor or whatever. You are to save and hide it. You leave years later when you have enough and can support self safely. So focus on good work skills that pay well even if hard work or a nuclear plant.

You have to pick your battles. Some you deal with but let me tell you, you only get

One penis. No amount of work will replace it. You will do what you need to do to protect the damn penis. If you have to first authorities or run away. Get a plan. Protect what can be damaged. Permenantly. For life.

[jcnum10]

Ya need to get out of that situation

[Shourahi]

I will move out once I complete my schoolings, I can't move now because I am dependent on them, my both older Sisters bully me badly at home, if I don't do as they say then my 22 years old Sister get my penis pulled and yanked brutally by her boyfriend and Now I have also lost that neighbor girl too.

[jcnum10]

It's like they molesting you. This is gonna cause major trauma if ain't already

[Shourahi]

you can say like molestation but my both older sisters think differently, they get my penis pulled and yanked to get me punished and to put me down, I already feels so traumatic and it can damage my penis too.

[jcnum10]

They should be arrested along with they boyfriend

[Shourahi]

My both older sisters want me to make their slave until I can't move out.

[JFelix]

I'm gonna be honest with you, your in a tough situation. I don't know how your educational status is but I personally would move out when you become 18 for as long as you want, it could be as short as one month and as long as 5 years (or more), then get a job, or go university, or do an apprenticeship. I believe you can live by yourself unlike most regular people at your age as your responsible and have good life skills and are mature (which your neighbour will probably like as your being independant). Although it might be hard in the begining to move out of your parents house it will not only benefit you as you will know how to live for yourself and you will not be geting abused, it will also benefit your sisters and parents as they will learn not to rely on you. The short break of moving out for a couple of months or weeks will make them realise how they have been mistreating you. (Also when moving out don't give your parents any warning just leave and don't tell them where to). If your parents and sister don't change then you will have to take matters more seriously and contact social services, childline, etc.

In terms of your neighbour (crush) just talk to her about what happened and if she truly likes you too she will be understanding about the situation, and if she isn't understanding she is not the right person.
And also she might just not know how to address the situation or wants you to stand up for yourself

[MAYEDA]

if I was your crush and I saw that happening to you I would call the police and get your whole family arrested.

[Shourahi]

@mayeda, Yeah, At that day she herself saw how badly he was pulling and yanking my penis but she didn't try to intervene and she went out for dance class with My 19 years old Sister.

[MAYEDA]

I hope you get out of that hell soon

[mich15smith]

That is a really uncomfotable situation to walk in on so maybe she is just awkward around you for a bit but I don't know. As for your sisters you should try to talk to them about how you feel about this situation but they probably won't care. Worst come to worst go to the police about the brother or defend yourself with any means necessary. If he is way bigger than you pickup a brick or something. Make an example of her boyfriend so they don't try to assualt you again.

[Shourahi]

it's been now more than 2 weeks but still that neighbor girl has not started talking to me she still comes to my home in evening to go for a dance class with my 19 years old sister but she just ignore me, I am not getting a chance to explain her about what she saw at that day, You know what my both older Sisters are very stubborn and aggressive, if I try to fight back or try to stand up for myself then my 22 years old sister ask her boyfriend to pull and yank my penis even more brutally, her boyfriend yanks my penis so badly that it kills my confidence to fight back, I have been stuck in a very miserable situation.

[mich15smith]

when the boyfriend comes over defend yourself

[Shourahi]

you know what my 22 years old Sister keep on threating me that she would call her boyfriend to punish me, and one day she actually calls her boyfriend to come home, he comes suddenly and without giving me chance to run away he pulls down my pant and underwear and starts yanking my penis badly, if I try to run away or push him back then he grabs my balls and I become totally helpless, he don't stop pulling and yanking my penis until I beg apology many times from my sister.

[mich15smith]

I don't know get a brick or something then annoy your sister and when the guy comes over surprise him.

[Shourahi]

I will move out once I complete my schooling, but I don't want to mess up annoy my sister because my sister's boyfriend is tall and strong Guy, if my sister complains him then he yanks my penis mercilessly, he has threatened me that if I ever messed up with my sister ( his girlfriend) then he would rip my penis apart, And now my Sister behaves with me like I am her slave for forever.

[finallylettinggo]

You need to get legal help and get out of that abusive situation. If the neighbor girl knows the guy is your sisters boyfriend then why is anyone okay with this or believes you would want it? Get yourself out of there and safe, then find a nice intelligent girl.

[Shourahi]

that neighbor girl goes to dance class with my 19 years old sister and she also know that the Guy is boyfriend of my 22 years old sister but at that day when she saw him pulling and yanking my penis, she felt shocked but my 19 years old sister has convinced her that I was being punished naked and I often get punished like this, So she has stopped talking to me and I am not getting a chance to explain her about my situation.

[finallylettinggo]

Then she is either stupid, not interested, or afraid. Either way focus on your safety first and get out of the situation you are in. People who truly love you and are family do not sexually abuse you or let others do so. Get yourself in a better and more safe environment before thinking about adding romantic problems to the list.