Do you find rough sex therapeutic?

Question

I enjoy regular sex just as much as the next girl and like to think I put on a good performance giving as much as I
get. But every now and then I just to want be strapped down, gagged and simply pounded hard deep and fast. Just pure, simple no fuss ball deep fucking in either of my holes.

I find the whole experience to be therapeutic rather than pleasurable and believe it's good for me both physically and mentally and makes me a better person.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Does your partner know you do not actually like that? I could not perform if I was suspecting my partner does not like it. Would lose boner immediately. If it is not pleasurable you need a certain kind of guy to do it I guess.
Does the pain have to be sexual? For example very demanding sports (runing marathon or so) would not do it?
If there is something you want to cure yourself from by feeling pain, you could probably work on self-acceptance. Not sure what becoming a "better person" is supposed to mean. For me the evil persons are those who consciously harm others. Everyone else is ok, nobody is better.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

You certainly aren't the first woman to share that opinion - I've had many girls say much the same thing to me. To be fair, there were a few who I'm sure wouldn't agree, but I'd say the majority would agree for sure.

I think it's that most women have a deeply-buried, animal instinct to BE DESIRED and to be dominated and to be used by a man for his satisfaction - it makes them feel useful and important in much the same way that a man who fixes your car or gets your printer working feels useful. I've had girls struggle to articulate it, but that's essentially what they were getting at.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

sometimes, I admit having the crap pounded out of me sex wise relieves a lot of my stress and depression! It can also be very strenuous and burn of a lot of bad energy that has been building up!

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

Totally, YES! ... and I need lots of "Therapy" ... lol

hunnybee019 · Answer

Yes!! Its because it releases endorphins.

Lliam · Answer

It would be hella fun giving you lots and lots of "therapy". :D 😜 🤣

fall_angel-86 · Answer

I agree that it can be very therapeutic. And very pleasurable

Bratsondanielle · Answer

I couldn't agree more. I love it when my boyfriend is in this mood. He sometimes hits me then just picks me up and carries me to the bed and uses me like a piece of meat

justme1218 · Answer

I definitely do find it theraputic at times! Pain can be a stress reliever for me. If I'm overly stressed a good spanking, flogging, etc can definitely help center me back to reality. As a teen I used self harm to relieve stress with pain and now I'll use BDSM, piercings, tattoos and I feel amazing afterwards!

Agape93 · Answer

It can be yeah

TCredo · Answer

the feeling after really pounding her hard is therapeutic for sure

elizamichale1 · Answer

Hehe i am the same in this regard and totally have the same version as you

JackieJaii · Answer

Yesh❤️🥴

coolaboola · Answer

Sometimes yes. Specially when i allowed my girlfriend to cuckold me. id reclaim her very roughly.

AustColombiangirl · Answer

OMG I completely agree with you. I have let a few friends with benefits take their frustration out on my pussy and its been some of the best sex I've had