Why doesn’t he wanna have sex anymore?

[Anonymous]

Hello. I was having sex with this guy casually for like 3 months. He is so good. He said I was the best he’s had and he literally would message me every single day for sex. Everyday of the week he would message me, if I messaged him he would reply after seconds. The other day he messaged me but I was really busy. And I messaged him after telling him I wanna see him and I’m on the pill now which I said but he literally ignored my message? Thay was 2 weeks ago now. He did post a quote about having a potential girl but do you think that’s the reason? He’d message me every day now he just ignores me. Our sex was so amazing and he even said so I’m just confused. I don’t care about him at all in fact he frustrates me sometimes but the sex is just good. He used to say I was amazing at everything and would never miss a chance with me.

[On_the_other_hand]

Maybe saying you are on the pill makes him think you are lying and trying to get pregnant.

[Asker]

You think so? Maybe he has always told me to go on the pill though and I said I would

[On_the_other_hand]

Its a possibility. But if he asked you and you did it for him, then it is probably not the reason. Have you straight up asked him what is up?

[Asker]

Yeah like he’d always tell me to go on the pill and then I actually did the week after he told me too since it was less of a risk to get pregnant too. When I said that he just ignored me but he was acting off before that. He did this to me before and messaged me again after ignoring me for a month and a half. No I haven’t asked since I don’t care about him in that way I just like having sex with him and he’s just a liar so he wouldn’t tell me the truth if I asked anyways

[On_the_other_hand]

Yeah, he probably has something else going on, hopefully not an std. If it is JUST good sex I'm sure you can get a replacement easy.

[magiusX26]

mite be the "am on the pill" thing. maybe he has a thing for at least thinking he mite be getting you pregnant, I don't know of course.

[Paris13]

Potential Girl on The Pill...

[reptocarl2]

He’s done with you and he was lying

[Asker]

Yeahh maybe I mean it’s not a big deal all he was to me was sex so I wouldn’t cry about it. it’s just unusual. it just seemed he was truthful since he literally text me every day of those three months

[reptocarl2]

He was throwing you bones so you’d keep fucking him

[The_Mad_Pirate]

Did you say or do anything to him that could be implied as you wanting a more stable relationship?

[Asker]

Noo because I genuinely don’t want a relationship with him. I don’t even like speaking to him lol i know it sounds rude but he’s genuinely just a friends with benefits. Actually not even friends

[The_Mad_Pirate]

So essentially what you are mad at is that he beat you at Briffault's law. Essentially he deprived you of the benefits of a relationship in which you entered solely because you got those benefits out of it. I guess Catch-and-Release ( a. k. a. Pump-and-Dump ) can have such collateral effects after all. If such is the case, there is nothing you can do then, just move on.

[dudeinohio]

Yeah. He probably found someone

[Anonymous]

Maybe he did find someone else