If a guy doesn't watch porn in a relationship with no sex does that make them more serious about your relationship?

[LonewolfMeme]

Don't judge the question and read this first.

My boyfriend doesn't watch pornhub and won't watch it unless I watch with him even then I choose (I give him the option to tho) he said he wouldn't watch porn unless his mate is watching with him. We aren't planning on having sex until we are ready and not in school as we are in our junior year.

Does that in a way make the guy more serious about the relationship or no?

P. s I was just curious when he said that as he doesn't like masturbating often and isn't religious so it's not a religious thing.

[Aguysopinion4799]

I have a few ideas but the first one that comes to mind is that he feels it would be disloyal to be masturbating while looking at other people naked and not doing it while thinking of his actual partner, since he would think it would come across as him finding other people more sexually attractive.

I can understand fully why he would behave like that, I myself do watch this stuff but if I was in a relationship then I think it would be hard for me to keep watching it because I wouldn't want them to think I don't find them as attractive to the point I am resorting to porn.

Other possibilities do include stuff like
Not being sexually interested in things
Finding porn to be unrealistic so he doesn't watch it
Finds it awkward seeing strangers having sex

You ruled out the religious part so we don't need to add that on there. Does he usually behave flirty with you or make any sexual comments? I ask because I want to try and narrow down from the not being sexually interested and see if it is just because he feels inclined to only behave like that with you.

It is good that you don't plan on doing it at the moment, at least in my opinion, I mean, you're 16 :D

The description does make me believe he is serious about the relationship though :)

[LonewolfMeme]

He does do that last night got triggered cuz he was listening to my voice and his mind played off of that

[sensible27]

Sounds like something I would say, yeah maybe : )

There's maybe a reason behind that decision and if you wanna know, ask him? Communication is key. Strangers on the internet might not be a reliable source.

[LonewolfMeme]

I have before but there's never a solid answer I can just tell he gets very uncomfortable jerking off in front of me or recording as he gets flustered

[sensible27]

There's your answer I guess. He probably/maybe considers even ('even') that cheating and I'd say fairly so. And yes, that'd mean he's more serious, I doubt that/this is a question you should be asking though... It's sort of obvious, as well as... doesn't this sort of breaches his privacy?

[LonewolfMeme]

Yea kinda I plan on deleting this question anyway because it was a question regarding in general

[LonewolfMeme]

It's also in a way breaching my own security too😐😑

[sensible27]

Not really, if you put/asked it yourself aren't you yourself accountable? I said him because I sort of assumed you didn't ask him before asking but I sort of doubt you have to anyways so it doesn't matter much (anyways, again' : ))

[Gwenhwyfar]

Means he’s very serious about his relationship with you 💗. Also means he’s completely satisfied with whatever you guys do do sexually.

[Berethor]

Maybe, but there likelihood that he is a closet gay or asexual, it's odd for a guy to behave that way.

[boggboss]

No it dont make the relationship more serious lol

[LonewolfMeme]

Hey I had to ask since guys not checking out other girls counts as them not finding other girls attractive and only having eyes for their girl

[boggboss]

Thats not how it works everyone at all stages in life find others attractive lol him looking or not dont add or negate that that he said he would watch it with a friend is a little weird

[LonewolfMeme]

I'm his girlfriend

[LonewolfMeme]

He was talking about me he words things weird

[boggboss]

Fair enough but how you connect things are weird him watching or not watching porn don't show he is only attracted to you just that his sexual tendencies are not as high for needeing a realise

[LonewolfMeme]

They are tho there's been times where we would talk on the phone and he would start feeling the urge

[boggboss]

Yet feeling the urge is normal if he dont deel the need to treat it it simply shows it not that bad or self control but not a higher level of loving you

[LonewolfMeme]

Well thanks for that 😂

[boggboss]

Thats not saying he dont but don't look at random signs and connecting dots that are not there

[LonewolfMeme]

I'm fairly good at it though anyway I wasn't really I was making a question out of curiosity mainly

[slatyb]

It probably just means they aren't interested in sex.

[LonewolfMeme]

Hey thinks about it a lot tho as he's admitted to it

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think it makes him more serious in a relationship?

[Browneye57]

He's a liar. And you're nearly a child. You are absolutely clueless.

[LonewolfMeme]

Thanks for assuming😒 if I wanted to hear those words I'd pissed my grandmother off

[Browneye57]

You asked. You're still a kid.

[LonewolfMeme]

Yea but you don't have to make it seem like I'm vulnerable or too young to know anything

[Browneye57]

You're both, actually. I know, reality is hard.

[LonewolfMeme]

Think that if you want to

[Browneye57]

Johnny and the teach... Teach: "Okay Johnny, you get to answer the next question. What is the capital of Oregon?" Johnny: I dunno teach, what do YOU think. Teach: Johnny, I don't THINK, I KNOW. Johnny: I don't think I know either. :) I don't THINK, I KNOW!!!

[OutdoorsForLife]

Sounds like he is lying.

[LonewolfMeme]

He's not a liar though because he wouldn't be so awkward about it his body language is easy to read.

[Anonymous]

I am not sure if it does or not but I am curious when the two of you watch porn together do you both masturbate?

[LonewolfMeme]

That's classified

[Opinion Owner]

fair enough :)

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Everyone is different and depends on the specific guy.