I am 22 and just sold my virginity for 58k. What are your thoughts on women selling their virginities?

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

2 weeks ago I sold my virginity to a 48-year-old man. I received half of my payment upon arrival and the rest after we had sex. At first, I felt really sick because of what I did, but now I am absolutely happy I did it. We met at a hotel in Brooklyn and had dinner there before going to his room. When we finished, he gave me my payment and I left. This man wasn't exactly handsome. He was about a 4. But he was surprisingly very nice and not as creepy as I thought.

What do you think? Do you think it's a great deal to get paid for your virginity? Give me your honest thoughts.

[Celtero]

I don't particularly care... I think it's silly that in society you would've previously given it to your future husband and he'd take care of you for the rest of your life and overall the value would be much more than a measly 58k. I guess it must feel good to make that much money instantly but I imagine you'll feel like shit when that it runs out.

I think it's weird to have such an aromantic view of yourself that you'd trade a mediocre amount of money for something you could've shared with a guy you cared for and made a good and special once in a lifetime memory. Like... most people in the united states make more than 58k a year.

You seem like some sort of psychopath to nonchalantly sell yourself to some perv. I guess it seems pretty normal for the modern woman though... I don't really expect more than that of them these days

What does it say about how your future relationships are going to go, or if you'll even have one? It is something that would probably disturb a lot of men, so you'll likely keep it a secret. Will you always see sex as something transactional, that a woman gives to a man for material goods, disassociated from emotion or any other higher meaning?

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

This mediocre amount of money is more than what most people make in a year. People are drowning in debt and could use that much. Besides, what makes you think I want to get married? If I met a man who loves me, it'll be because he accepts me for me.

[Celtero]

Mhhm. Well, if you don't want a relationship then I guess congratulations. I know personally, my family is financially supportive of me so 58k wouldn't do a whole lot for me, so I don't think I'd get paid to lose my virginity to an older woman rated 4.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I didn't want a relationship with this man. It wasn't about that. Honestly, most post virginity sex relationships don't last. I have a whole life of meaningful relationships.

[jmf909]

Well man would do it in a instant if they could it is a personal choice really and I think a smart one financially and your at a age of consent. and luckily you had a good experience but could be very dangerous as well because you don't know who your selling yourself to and that they will be nice and gentle but then again when t hey spen df so muc h it don't expect them not to be gentlemen and take you to dinner first and have a good night. but virginity is not a special thing for me never had one and not ever thought of how one would be like but if all chicks sold there first time then price would fall and that's when would become more dangerous as there are just some sick asshole out there that could ruin s beautiful thing as your first time but if your not wanting to be judged then don't tell people simple if anyone that installs bad about you doing it that is because they are jealous as fuck that you were smart enough to do it and came out with a good bank account when they have it a way for free and probably wasn't that good or memory bn le for them

[Anonymous]

Honestly, good for you. I had considered it but I couldn't bring myself to do it because of how I was raised. Not saying you weren't raised well, I'm just saying I was literally brought up on "you can't use a tampon because then you won't be a virgin". I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend and the love of my life. We've been dating for a year now and I will never regret it.

Don't pay attention to what men will say. They're just jealous that they can't do the same, and think that it's unfair. Either that or they simply can't even believe it. The want to bring in morals when all they think about is sleeping with women. Someone was willing to pay for it, so they should blame the patron as much as they blame you.

You don't have to disclose it either, the past is the past.

[ragequeen]

Wow, that`s a lot of money! You do what you like with your body, but if you ask me, I think it`s a lot more rewarding to lose your virginity to someone you love/have feelings for and trust. You get a great impression of sex and your relationship with sex gets strengthened and becomes more meaningful when you only give your body to people you appreciate

[Nitinsoni]

If its equal to principle u need to fulfill your future goal. if it is less... its better to loose it with ur life patner who will with you untill you real your goal...

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

@Nitinsoni Don't be such a drama queen

[Nitinsoni]

I am a guy king

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

@Nitinsoni but you're acting like a drama queen, guy.

[laurieluvsit]

I would never do it but nor would I condemn anyone else for doing so, that is what is so wonderful about freedom :)

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

thanks, that's nice.

[laurieluvsit]

You're welcome, and I am so glad it worked out well for you :)

[Hitchhiker42]

Get that head get that bread then leave ✌️😂 this is such an awesome deal, I wish I knew that was a thing when I was a virgin lol. Don’t let anyone tell you what to do with your body!

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

Thank you so much for that positivity. It's really a great deal.

[Robertinho]

It is your body and your very own choice. There was an agreement and respect with each other. So as long as you are happy, so be it.

[simonqq]

Well it's prostitution and not legal (depending where you are from) so wouldn't say it's a great idea. Also could have been dangerous. I'm glad it went well but I don't see how money is that important to do something like that with all the risks involved and again for the only purpose of getting money, I don't like the idea of having sexual relations you don't enjoy for money or other payments.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

that's why we met in a public place.

[simonqq]

Still you don't know what he might do in private.

[DianaWest]

sure. if you value shiny pieces of paper more than your pussy, body, health, life, and dignity. why not?

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

wow, don't you assume a lot. I valued it enough to not give it away to the first guy I sleep with. Most women regret the person they chose and they usually don't even spend their life with him.

[yucychan]

If you want my honest opinion, I would say it's shameless. But then it's your life. And you did get a hefty amount of money for selling your body.
So, as long as you are happy with it, why even bother to know our thoughts?

[RemoErdosain]

58K? Fuck, I wish I had a pussy so that I could do that. Still, maybe a little higher so that I could buy a house. I think it's a great deal, absolutely

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

Men (or women) would only pay so much for someone's virginity. I lucked out with my number because most women only managed to get 40k or less.

[RemoErdosain]

It's still a lot of money for getting fucked once. I wish I had a pussy

[WolfyGirl2077]

Why didn't i think about that the one who got mine turned out to be a untrustworthy piece of shit i found out he tried to bang every girl on the school wish i had taken payment from him then i at least get something else other than a broken heart

[OlderAndWiser]

Becoming a whore the first time you have sex is an awesome accomplishment!

[Massageman]

I trust you're being facetious. :- )

[OlderAndWiser]

@Massageman Your trust is well placed, my friend!

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I may be a whore but women are called whores, skanks, sluts, harlots, and hoes all the time. It was a one-time decision that I made instead of giving it away to the first guy I sleep with. I used my virginity to give back to myself. Most women regret it and get nothing out of it. I'm ok with being called a whore. I'm a feminist and we get called whores all the time. So thank you for your opinion. Have a nice day.

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't call a woman a whore unless she sells her body to whoever is willing to pay. That is what you did and that is why I called you a whore. You can use that feminist mantra to dismiss all criticism from men because we are [insert whatever dismissive, conclusory name you choose] but I don't call all women whores. And if a guy posted something saying that he sold his virginity to the highest bidding female, I would have posted the same comment to him. Have a nice day!

[Rocco7070]

Your mixed up, anyone can be a whore, I can't say that your a whore, so no judgmental position from me, well ok here's my judgement, you used your body, but your mind much more. Your great!

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

@Rocco7070 I love how people on here assume all kinds of stuff like they're Professor X or God. It's kind of funny actually. Well, I'm not here to convince you of anything. Just going to say that you don't know anything about who and how I am other than this one thing. Assumptions are worthless next to the truth. Have a nice day.

[OlderAndWiser]

I love how people on here post questions asking opinions and then have a hissy fit because you don't tell them how wonderful they are.

[Rocco7070]

So, I can't compliment your useing your brains,, i never said anything about you being a whore.

[Rocco7070]

Wow this woman can't. Even tell a big compliment from an insult. This is very weird. I compliment her and she comes back saying a bunch of untrue stuff about me. Anyway have a good night, won't give anymore compliments

[OlderAndWiser]

@Rocco7070 She's probably full of regrets and anger, taking it out on whoever's available.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

@Rocco7070 What was you're compliment? I don't even remember if I replied to you.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

If that's what you want to tell yourself that's fine. You called me a whore and I agreed. I took responsibility for my choices. Maybe I'll regret it one day but for right now, I'm happy.

[Rocco7070]

Girl, were all whores, male and females, maybe a few aren't. Im one, i like pussy, um oussywhipped! I meant no harm, sometines I forget everyone may take it differently, but 58k, your like a thousanf times more intelligent than most. Boy , girl or chimpanzee! Your cool, your smart.

[KeziL]

sell your virginity a few more times, if they're paying that much..

[ohshee]

You sound like you thought about made a plan and followed through , i look at it like this ,,
I would say how many more times are you going to be a Virgin,,, also did you tell a friend someone anyone what you were doing and where you were doing it not 1 penny would had been worth it ,,, but I do hope you have a plan B to invest that money to make you money other wise ur going to do it again and again

[Rocco7070]

You really are a smart girl!!! I think your wise ans sharp. Women can do whatever makes them happy. 58k, sure do hope you got the iceing, like many orgasms. Now the other girls who started screwing at 14 for free will despise you!!

[Berethor]

Might be better than how most girls lose it nowadays, but it's better for a girl to wait until marriage.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadonnaWhoreComplex

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I'm not getting married. Marriage isn't for me. I prefer freedom and independence.

[Berethor]

At that point you no much of a marriage material anyway, so good luck with your independence.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I love how some people use one decision a person makes to define if they're marriage material. I wouldn't want to marry someone like you anyways. I could do much better.

[BCA6010]

I don't really like the idea, but it honestly speaks much lower of the idiot who's willing to part with $58,000 just to have sex than anything else...

[Tamera952]

If that's true, then fuck yea more power to ya! That's WAYYYYYYY more then even the best sex workers net.
Who the fuck cares, you made out like a bandit and are lucky in my opinion. Sex is overrated, and most people's first time sucks -- so to get PAID for it? You should be counting your lucky stars, and trying to arrange ($$) a regular thing with this guy, especially if he's got 58k to burn!!!
Shit I'd screw him for 58$ much less 58k !!!

[roody]

Hmmm, my hymen had already broken before I lost my virginity, that's pretty common for women. I don't believe your story honey...

If it was me, I don't think I would do it, assuming this actually happened, unless I could meet the person a couple times in advance.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

why do you think it's so hard to sell virginities? It's very hard if your hymen isn't intact. Most men want proof, especially if they're paying a lot. I'm not here to convince you. It's what happened to me and that's that.

[JaneDoe377]

No it sounds sad

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I have $58,000 to wipe my tears away with

[JaneDoe377]

Ok. You did ask for opinions. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Did you think you would actually like all of them? 😆

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I'm not actually crying. It's sarcasm. I'm not hurt by any of the replies. We all are entitled to our opinions.

[JaneDoe377]

I didn't think you were crying. No worries

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

Well, thanks for your opinion.

[Wisdom-Strength-Love]

I woulda done the same thing. I let a dude suck me off one time for cash, so dont feel bad. It haunted me for a little while, but now I actually feel more straight than ever. Lol

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning the Troll of the day award.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

seems like you're the troll here, sweet cheeks.

[EmmaMary]

Not for one moment do I personally believe a single word of this complete and utter nonsense/rubbish.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

And I should care, why? I was just sharing my experience. You can read all about selling virginities online. There are websites. Or don't. It doesn't make a difference to me.

[TheUniqueOne96]

It's your life, but I do think it's important to understand that some guys may be put off by this and may see it as a deal breaker in a future relationship.

People are well within their right to do that, as long as all involved are consenting adults.

Money matters, whether we like it or not and you're not harming anyone, so cool, good for you and enjoy your money.

Some people's first time isn't that great either, so I'd say you've benefited, at least for now.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I should care why? I don't live my life doing things that will please my future husband or boyfriends. Lots of men are very open-minded and enlightened. When I find that guy for me, I'll know he's the right once because he accepts me for who I am and isn't a pussy.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I'm just saying that some will consider it shameful or so. Yes, I agree with you, in terms of accepting, everyone has their own standards not everyone will consider it an issue.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

People need to stop assigning all these labels to women. Just because I sold my virginity doesn't mean I'm some trashy, stupid skank who doesn't respect herself and doesn't have standards. I'm in college for my master's. I have a 3.8 GPA. I graduated from high school with honors. I did this one thing and people on here are acting like my life is trashed. I took control of my own body and used my virginity to give back to myself. It's empowering.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Cool, you do you.

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

I always have

[DianaWest]

@hjbnhjbnkjbl if you feel so "empowered" why did you bother posting this on the internet and asking for strangers' opinions?

[hjbnhjbnkjbl]

@DianaWest Because I'm interested in seeing how people think about these kinds of things. Selling sex is still so risque. If I was ashamed then I wouldn't have shared it.