Is it possible for a woman to have sex with someone without actually falling in love before/during/after the act?

[CasaNorba]

so far the only women I've gotten it on with without putting or receiving love in the line are the strippers I tipped extra and the local masseuse I've gotten the Happy Ending with.

outside of that I never actually met a woman who was dtf that did not demanded some love or an "emotional connection" or whatever that is. these women were honest enough to admit that they dont do hookups because they know themselves that they will fall in love after just one night of sex.

even during the days I use to waste my time on tinder like the sucker I was back then I remember matching with women that exhibited these same behavior. but I wonder how the hookup culture has become such a big thing if women can't even hookup in the first place, or is this all just an illusion?

[Alpha09]

It's not super popular with the majority of women but it's entirely possible for some of us. Personally I have more than one partner I see at the moment, I do like a certain one more than others but we are not together and I have no interest in changing that in the near future. I see different guys regularly and I can confidently say I'm definitely not in love or looking for anything more with any of them unless one evolves into something more later. I'm just comfortable with where it is and I don't see the need to fuck up a good thing by trying to force something more. Some of us are just happy as is:)

[CasaNorba]

that sounds good. I would never say you are but I bet a lot of people have called you negative labels especially those women who wish they had your mindset but are to complex to even imagine it. so I guess they dont actually fall in love to begin with. I guess they just say this as a simple mechanism.

[Alpha09]

I have had very few people have an issue over it, probably because I'm not one to shout shout my business from the rooftops. However mostly older people take offense I notice. Some of us just aren't wired to handle that type of relationship male or female but mostly females. The mindset doesn't even occur to them because they can't even get in that headspace to begin with. Doesn't make any difference to me I can't really judge them, but for some reason people seem to have the time to judge you based off of what doesn't work for them. I just try to ignore those types.

[DonCachondo]

There are some women who accept payment for it, so "possible" isn't the best way to phrase the question. But, yes, your point that hookups don't have the same broad appeal with women as they do with men is apt! And it's precisely why men have a harder time than women when it comes to seeker willing hookup partners. Supply and demand!

[TruthBringer]

Usually those who have sex without any feelings involved are women who have a high body count. The more a woman sleeps with, the less she can bond with a man. There is a reason why 'the first' is unforgettable.

[CasaNorba]

not saying I disagree with you, the fact that you got one pink downvote explains it loud enough that you speak the truth. but anyways you'll be surprised how many of these same women with high ass body counts deny they just want sex and go as far as wanting something serious from the start. guess its just a defense mechanism of theirs

[TruthBringer]

@CasaNorba Trust me, Literally every person who blocked me on this website or had some offense to what I say is a woman 😂

[CasaNorba]

I feel your pain brother but just promise us two that you will never let that stop you from speaking the truth

[TruthBringer]

@CasaNorba Don't worry my friend. I always preach the truth and stick to facts, even if these snowflakes get their little princess feelings hurt. Facts don't care about feelings. Thanks for your positivity, brother!

[CasaNorba]

anytime brother! this site can use more people with this same agendas

[MathewBWC]

Very possible.
In my experience some women actually separate love and sex better than some men do.

[CasaNorba]

wonder where did you meet these women

[MathewBWC]

Some women really just wanna fuck and they don't necessarily see their friend with benefits as boyfriend or husband material. It's the guys that catch feelings sometimes.

[CasaNorba]

I mean as I said in my OP, I actually ran into a lot of women who were honest enough to admit that they can't stop themselves from falling in love after one night of sex

[MathewBWC]

I'm more interested in where you met those women. They don't seem to exist around here.

[JosyJosy]

Yep is called friends with benefits

[CasaNorba]

Oh you will be surprise how many friends with benefits get jealous and behave like you're committed to them at death grip. no different than an actual relationship if you ask me

[JosyJosy]

I didn't catch feeling when I was in it

[CasaNorba]

you sure about that? feel free to ignore but would you have still gotten it own with him if he decided not to be your friends with benefits or keep any sort of attachments in the long run?

[JosyJosy]

Yep sure as can be

[joshtheman]

I think sp