If a guy doesn’t cum fast during sex does it mean your sex is bad?

[Anonymous]

[bluetoblack99]

Depends. If he has been banging your for a while his sensation dies down a bit. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t like it. I remember for Christmas get together year ago my ex and I banged for 2 hours. She orgasmed 4 times. I didn’t once.

She felt really upset about it but I honestly didn’t care. I liked pleasuring her. Getting a woman to cum (which is usually much harder than vice versa) feels like an accomplishment.

[Akshayjosh]

Maybe he has a condition of not cumming soon,
I have it, its like u want to cum at that very point but it still takes sometime for u to get there, while the girl is still waiting for it to happen, but u can't give it.
It sometimes puts the girl off, but if u have someone patient enough, she is surely rewarded then.

The most biggest disadvantage is that you spend hours pumping it in and out, and the girl is all dried after having her orgasm and your still miles away from yours.
🙄

[ClosetHoe]

It depends. Maybe the sex is bad, he's probably edging, or he just has problems down there. It also depends on what you mean by "fast".

[AustinMan]

Not a bit. Maybe he's just being considerate and making sure you get yours first.

[RemoErdosain]

No, he may do it on purpose, or he may have some "issues" so that he can't really come fast

[Rocco7070]

I dont cum fast usually, it doesn't mean your bad about anything. To some extent I can make a little time be put into pleasing. See, any real lover lets her cum first. Then about 6 to 8 more back to back ones. So, sounds like he's enjoying you

[Bad_Man55]

It can but likely it is his own issue. If you are confident in your "game" then don't overthink what you are doing

[Ripper_E]

bad for you? or for him?

[TravisMiller13]

How fast is fast for you?

[magiusX26]

nope. actually usually means the opposite

[Jamie05rhs]

Not necessarily. And I think you're setting a psychological trap for yourself by thinking those thoughts. You'll never be happy no matter what happens.
Just relax and enjoy the sex!

[Wise4myage]

No, the issue lies with him.

[Whatshesaysgoes]

No not at all, I usually take forever not to brag, I think it's somewhat like nerves or thinking more on pleasing her rather than focusing on myself feeling good

[Gedaria]

He has his part to play as well. He might have been masturbating or having sex with someone before you, Do be quick to blame yourself..

[GreenGold1992]

Still a virgin, but I don't believe that. Hell, I don't see much to reason to cum fast, I think I'd want it last as long as possible.

[In_Trance]

No it doesn't

[TotallyAlmost]

Not at all. Maybe he just has good control.

[soulspanker]

It might, and it might not.
If a guy wanks a lot, is drunk or on drugs he won't be able to cum right away or cum at all. Imagine you rubbing your skins for sometime every day. That area will get less sensitive to touch. The same goes for the penis. Alcohol and drugs makes you relax or effect your brain so that penis are getting much less attention, so the guy has to really focus and concentrate to just getting an erection in some cases.

[mrgspoter]

But I take ages so then what?

[bigstic507]

No means he is like me and can control it