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What gives? Why do people value hookups and sex instead of serious relationships? Why do guys ask girls for nudes?

I find it laughable how people envy sex like its the greatest thing in the world when there are in fact much higher priorities in life. Like finding a secure relationship for instance.

I get that sex is enjoyable. As a virgin I have thought positively about the concept at times, especially during my younger teenage years when my hormones were spiralling out of control. A time when I had to hide random boners in my pants at school for hours on end by wearing oversized t-shirts.

However what I still don’t get is why people are obsessed with hookups. Instead of going through the bullshit of having to arrange time with people, isn’t it easier to just masturbate yourself? Who’s to say you’ll feel horny again later? Isn’t it also safer? I mean no risk of STDS or anything. Obviously with women there’s the risk of getting pregnant, but with guys there’s the risk of getting sued for child support. She could be lying about using birth control. She could be perfectly fine with having an abortion.

I wouldn’t want either of these things to happen so that is why I’d much rather wait for a lasting partner I can trust. In simpler terms, no sex before marriage kiddos!

And I also find it funny how people think Christians are anti-sex despite the fact that God encourages his followers to have children. And just how exactly are children made? Yeah we’re just pro-responsible sex people. God created the concept so we could enjoy it. But like with anything in life, it has the potential to be abused.

I also find it stupid how guys ask girls for nudes. Like that’s YOUR problem. She’s not horny you are. Treat it as your own issue. Jack yourself off brother. Don’t try making other people a part of your problem. And isn’t it easier anyway to just go to pornhub where the women who want to share nudes of themselves already have? For free?

My point is why have sex with a thousand partners if its more beneficial to have sex with the same partner a thousand times?
What gives? Why do people value hookups and sex instead of serious relationships? Why do guys ask girls for nudes?
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