What gives? Why do people value hookups and sex instead of serious relationships? Why do guys ask girls for nudes?

[Jack9949]

I find it laughable how people envy sex like its the greatest thing in the world when there are in fact much higher priorities in life. Like finding a secure relationship for instance.

I get that sex is enjoyable. As a virgin I have thought positively about the concept at times, especially during my younger teenage years when my hormones were spiralling out of control. A time when I had to hide random boners in my pants at school for hours on end by wearing oversized t-shirts.

However what I still don’t get is why people are obsessed with hookups. Instead of going through the bullshit of having to arrange time with people, isn’t it easier to just masturbate yourself? Who’s to say you’ll feel horny again later? Isn’t it also safer? I mean no risk of STDS or anything. Obviously with women there’s the risk of getting pregnant, but with guys there’s the risk of getting sued for child support. She could be lying about using birth control. She could be perfectly fine with having an abortion.

I wouldn’t want either of these things to happen so that is why I’d much rather wait for a lasting partner I can trust. In simpler terms, no sex before marriage kiddos!

And I also find it funny how people think Christians are anti-sex despite the fact that God encourages his followers to have children. And just how exactly are children made? Yeah we’re just pro-responsible sex people. God created the concept so we could enjoy it. But like with anything in life, it has the potential to be abused.

I also find it stupid how guys ask girls for nudes. Like that’s YOUR problem. She’s not horny you are. Treat it as your own issue. Jack yourself off brother. Don’t try making other people a part of your problem. And isn’t it easier anyway to just go to pornhub where the women who want to share nudes of themselves already have? For free?

My point is why have sex with a thousand partners if its more beneficial to have sex with the same partner a thousand times?

[modelUN242]

Girls need to stop being dumb and giving guys nudes. Like block them, sheesh. Guys ask girls nudes because girls allow them to disrespect them like that. I BLOCK guys if they mention nudes or sexual things, like use the freakin' block button, stop being polite to these losers ladies.

Honestly, at this point, I think sex is pretty gross and overrated, I'm sorry but just being used to seeing sex EVERYWHERE and it being treated like a commodity, I just feel disgusted by it at this point.

Lol, right, masturbation is much better than those hook-ups or casual sex, but long-term is not good. And if you're doing it while you're in a relationship, that's problematic. But don't stick your d*ck in crazy.

Christians and religious people were smart to make sex a private thing, because it would be more enjoyable between two married people. Talking about it 24/7 just makes sex something that 8-year-olds can do lol.

Haha, yes, your last point is great. I heard young people are having sex less often. What I don't get, is why can't people get married young, they can have all the sex they want. Instead of going through all the work and effort to find relationships and hook-ups, geez too much emotional work for me.

[TravisMiller13]

I totally agree with you masturbation is better than casual sex I wish days that I can just gag like I used but this COVID-19 is driving me crazy

[Apple1996]

They're seeking a quick fix without having to be tied down. a lot of people now a days dont want serious realtionships but still want sex. For some it's also a stupid numbers game like those guys that think they're so cool for fucking 100 girls. That stuff makes me sick🤮

I really could care less about how others want to live. I'm happier in a realtionship so thats why I chose to be in one young. In my opinion they're missing out on how love and sex are suppose to be. One day when they enter a serious realtionship they'll realize how badly the hookup shit has effected them.

[iambae]

We live in an instant gratification society. You can have whatever you want right away your way as long as you have the money.

Sex has lost it's true meaning and value. Look at how many women are on Only Fans and Instagram selling their souls.

[TravisMiller13]

Same reason why people eat fast food instead of food that’s good for you people want quick fixes sex instead of a relationship

[EyesOfGod]

Well whats easier? Pulling your pants down or starting a relationship?

[modelUN242]

Haha so true.