I let my lesbian freind touch me inappropriately?

I didn't like that and it doesn't bother me at all but is it okay to let her touch me as I am not a lesbian I am straight not even bi and I didn't wanna be mean to her but should I stop her or let her have fun?
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Superb Opinion

  • If it's not consent it's called Rape and no? If you don't mind and allow it and consent then yeah why not. But also don't get confused be 100% sure if your okay with it or not.
    There is many cases were a Female friend rapes her straight friend but gets away with it because the whole Bs she was okay with it cause she wasn't really sure or didn't say no, it don't have to feel forceful for it be so. Just has to be you didn't want it and felt uncomfortable.
    If you wanna do it just be safe and enjoy it but if you don't make it clear. Otherwise who knows.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you dislike it, try to tell her politely if you want to keep her as a friend. But the reaction should be fine-tuned as there is a difference between stroking your back and grabbing your crotch, ...
    (On the other hand, I can recommend the "accidental" homo experience, you can learn a lot about yourself that way... Maybe a reason not to burn down bridges you may want to cross at a later point in your life.)

Most Helpful Girl

  • I wouldn’t!
    She’s a friend. I’m straight. There should be boundaries unless you like getting used that way?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If you continue to let it happen, she's going to expect things to progress further. If you don't have boundaries, then you shouldn't expect people to have them with you either.

  • If you are uncomfortable with it then yes you should tell her. She should understand it that you are not into girls.

  • This is a big sin and unnatural. It's very weird.

  • Its youe body. If your uncomfortable with it tell her to stop. Don't do something your uncomfortable with. But on the other hand if its something you enjoyed you still need to establish healthy boundaries.

  • If you gave consent (either actively or passively) I'm not sure that counts as inappropriate touching.

  • If you’re uncomfortable with her touching you then tell her.

  • No its not ok, because its obvious you aren't into it. So don't let it happen again or you will sending the wrong message and it could affect your friendship with this girl.

  • I have seen enough lesbian porn to know exactly what would happen... keep it under 2 mins tops or u may end up on pornhub

    • Wdym

    • Lol that was meant to be funny, u know what I mean

  • Let get her have fun

  • I would tell her exactly that. Maybe say I do love you as a friend and wanted to try the touching but it didn’t work for me. She should say no prob.

  • Let her have her fun, you may like it. Doesn't mean you are gay

  • It’s consensual but if you don’t like it then tell her

  • straight? so is spaghetti till it boils

  • If you don't want to date her best not to let her touch you that way. You're just leading her on. Would you let a guy do it if you weren't interested in him?