How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?

I know this is rare, and some people think it does not really happen, except when faked in porn, but it does really happen.

It also happens when I am alone and masturbating, and can begin even prior to climaxing.

As an added downside, it is not always welcomed by a partner either.

Do you know anyone that has this sometimes embarrassing problem, or am I all alone on this one?

... share your thoughts, or take the survey, please!
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
A. You are not alone! ... I have the same, or similar, problem myself
Vote A
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
B. I do not have that problem, but I know someone who does
Vote B
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
C. I don't see it as a problem at all, it is a major turn on for me
Vote C
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
D. No, I have only seen and heard it in porn where it is all faked anyway
Vote D
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
E. No, I have never even heard of such a thing
Vote E
How do feel about a partner that is extra loud during a sexual encounter?
F. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Sexual Screamer" survey
Vote F
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  • This situation is always on my mind.
    The only time that I am free to let loose is if the children are not in the house so we usually turn some sort of unit on an AC a TV something to quiet me out. It's taking a lot of training but I have learned to be quieter.

    It does cause some problems with me because my man is quiet except as he reaches the very end. So I get self conscious. I tell him I need noice. Talk to me. I can't do quiet or I feel the mans not into it and I loose interest fast because it makes me feel like I'm not doing things right. He jokes with me when I do let go of my restraints. He says any moment the cops are going to be knocking down our doors and surrounding us because everyone neighbor in the neighborhood was awoken and reported my screams.

    I am not quiet when I'm in my natural state and I'm not conscience about it.
    One of the worse situations was when I was in my mans home during the summer and we were going at it. I lost all sense of decorum and I went wild. I screamed bloody murder. It was a mix of random incoherent mumblage and screaming his name.

    It took me a moment for me to notice he was even speaking to me. He pulled me forward by my hair and that caused Another round of arousal squeals from me but he got my attention. He was hushing me. Apparently the window was open and his neighbors were having their annual barbeque family get together right outside our window.
    Do you think I cared lol. Nope! 🤣🤣

    • Wow! ... I can so relate! ... lol

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    • Yes! ... lol

Most Helpful Girl

  • You are not alone on this one. I am the horniest woman ever, that I am extremely loud bc when the sex is amazing and your body loves it, hey if you got the tone, voice it out loud so your man knows how it feels when he is making you feel like a woman... also doing it solo is good too... be loud bc its normal and your body craves it and enjoys it. We are humans!! And sex drives are amazing when doing it with the right partner or just feeling ourselves too.

    • Yes, all so true!

    • And I'll second that.

    • thanks for the MHO

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love it. There have been times when I though it might not be appropriate and I suggest dialing it down but I don't think I've ever been anything but turned on by any loudness or scratches from a lover. I love multiple-orgasmic women who keep the audio appreciation up throughout, Probably an ego thing but... it's a turn on and I'd much rather know that she likes whatever I happen to be doing and always ask potential lovers to tell me right away if I do something they don't like, e. g. some women don't like getting head if I haven't shaved a second time before going out for an evening as well as anything they do like so I can work on that. I love being told things like " I really like my tipples sucked" whatever it is, I enjoy their arousal and orgasm (s) so much that I want to maximize and benefit by any input. So, are you quiet or demonstrative.. Just to beat a dead horse, I would much rather get that answered experientially than verbally but as M. Jagger, K. Richard and B. Jones once wrote, you can't always get what you want

  • I've dated a few women over the years 2 of them were quieter, but did make some noises 1 the ex wife, well i would have gotten more indication of enjoyment from a corpse... and then there were one i dated for 2 years and she was so loud people 3 streets away could hear her call my name out through the night... from 6-7 pm until 7 am next morning
    my last girlfriend could be noisy too but she used to try and keep herself as quiet as possible since we found out that the couple living above our flat, kept getting more in the mood after hearing us... the guy worked very long hours and his girlfriend part time i believe and when they heard she would get super horny and jump him when he walked through the door...
    they said we have to leave cos he was drained after working over 14 hrs shifts and then having to perform lol

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  • Unless you're in one of those situations where being quiet is necessary (visiting your/her parents during the holidays, camping in a state park with other tents 50 feet away, etc.), I love it. Her reactions are integral to my enjoyment of sex, so the more the better.

  • It is sometimes a problem for me too, but mostly I just enjoy it and so did seemingly all the guys I have been with so far. That is perhaps the one comment I got the most in bed; 'you are very loud! I love it!' :D
    It is a problem when one kinda has to keep it quite. I have to concentrate on turning the volume down so much that I am restrained in enjoying the sexual act.
    I also really enjoy when a guy is letting go in this way. There was one I often tried to keep quieter by covering his mouth when he came because I had a roommate :p. It was only too much with one guy! But it also came off really fake for me, with sounds of 'uh', 'ah' 'yeah baby' during the whole thing xD

  • A woman making noise because I arouse her makes me feel rather damned good about myself!

  • I like to encourage girls to really get into there orgasm and don't hold anything back I myself have been shushed before and I just about lost my orgasm no it's not very nice to shush someone that's having a good orgasm that's why we were fucking in the first place to have as big of an orgasm as you possibly can... with no shushing
    incidental I'm in the process of building a 12 x24 room with 6 inch solid wood walls so there won't be any danger of someone hearing anything it doesn't matter to me but girls like to be discrete I wish I could find someone more like you laurie I love it

  • I like softer sounds but not too loud. Too loud doesn't sound right to me and can even kill the mood in some cases. I did have a girlfriend who when she orgasmed was overcome with a very loud moan uncontrollably, that she couldn't control. But that is different because it was not like it was during the entire time.

  • Actually, I'm the one my partner & I should be concerned about. I'm the loud one!

  • I love it turns me on even more is so good😍🤩

  • I had an ex girlfriend move in as a roommate to share the cost of the rent, and she loved getting fucked by her boyfriend as loudly as possible, to make me jealous of him.

  • me hehe but jax says am not that loud and i do cover my mouth but we live in a house now and i can let it out as loud as i can and jax has mastered my body so he knows what and when to do things and i release my inner sexual voice out hehe you are not alone

  • hon you are not alone :--) while it definitely depends on the partner and what exactly we're up to - to say I am 'vocal' would be an understatement. Used to bother me a lot, but, like a lot of things, I've since embraced it as just part of who I am - but, and while I'm not 'proud' of it, there've been times/scenarios where I've literally had to be gagged (not in a dominant kind of way) just to keep me quiet enough - especially when getting banged from behind - or in my ass...

  • I’m more of a moaner, but I’ve had a neighbor who was a screamer.

    • my ex girlfriend was a screamer in bed

  • I voted D.

    I’m a sigh-er and whimper. Not a loud screaming moaner lol.

  • It all depends on where we are and if we have neighbors 🙃 but I say bring it on 😊 simply because it can add to the experience. If she is having fun, I'm having fun

  • If they are moaning or saying my name no worries. But if they are making bizarre loud noises, it could be a deal killer.

  • Try to find her volume button or use the TV remote to turn her down but only when i hear a knock on the front door.

  • I get pretty loud when masturbating home alone and have to fight back sound when others are home.

  • If she is loud then so be it , but I guess it depends where I am banging her at lol

  • My ex girlfriend loved to so bondage. She was also a screamer and a grunter.

  • I absolutely love it! Sex is best when you can feel and hear it... nothing beats the sound of a partner being satisfied...

  • I’m ALWAYS loud. I struggle to not make sounds, even when masturbating

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