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Is sending someone else nudes cheating?

Last night i was out and ran into a buddy of mine an used his phone and ask my girlfriend for nudes and she sent them
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I found out she also wants sex with him
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  • Your girlfriend sending nudes to someone other than you is cheating on you if it goes against the “relationship agreement” you had with her...

    The definition of “cheating” is different for different couples -- it depends on the “relationship agreement” that a couple has regarding what interaction is allowed with people “outside of the relationship.”

    Some couples consider physical acts such as kissing or fondling people outside of their relationship to be “cheating”; and other couples consider flirting in person with anyone outside of the relationship to be “cheating”; and some couples consider online activities such as sexual chatting/roleplaying or even sending or requesting nudes to/from people outside of their relationship to be “cheating.”

    So: did you and your girlfriend have an agreement that sending nudes to people outside of your relationship was “cheating”?; if so then she cheated on you, and if not then she didn’t.

    • It was never something we talked about

    • Online chatting, sexting, and pics is so common in our society today... you or her have never even commented to each other what you feel about other people doing something like that—like: “Can you believe there are people that send nude pics—that’s so wrong”? If the answer is no—you guys never specifically discussed how you felt about sending pics or doing other online stuff, or what “cheating” is to you guys as a couple in general; then you need to tell her that you impersonated your buddy and ask her why she sent nudes to his phone... But I have two questions for you (1) why did you impersonate your buddy by using his phone and ask for nude pics from your girlfriend—did you feel that she liked your buddy or that they had “something going on,” and (2) and did you tell him that you were going to impersonate him before you did it, or have you told him that you did this afterward? [Because anyone (like your girlfriend) that sends pics to someone else (like your buddy), is later on going to ask that someone else about the pics that they sent.]

    • No we never talked about sending nudes because I just assume that something you don't do when you're in a relationship. And the reason the whole thing got started was I was talking to my body we were out having a few drinks and he told me that the last time he ran into my girlfriend it seemed like she was hitting on him and he had said I bet she would send me nudes if I asked and I thought no way she would do that and I grabbed his phone and asked and she did

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  • Not. Really but could be seen as offensive to her, or hurtful. But who has to know. After. After saying that Id stop it at least while with someone. Or you could say,... im sure you know how to take pics, take one of me? Hed freak out

Most Helpful Girls

  • That is very much so cheating. It’s a straight choice to send and take those photos. Definitely talk to her in person about this...

    • You think I should have him message or more just to see how far she would go

    • You could do that yeah but honestly you kind of already learned a lot about what she’s done so you may be just adding salt to the wound at this point. I would just stop right there and confront her about it

    • I agree.

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  • Not technically. She doesn't respect you or the relationship, though. Setting her up is pretty low, but now you know.

    • Setting her up? it is great what he did. you go, dude! This is a good way to catch a wh*re

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  • Yes, it's cheating.

  • If your questioning it then... it is most likely in your head because its bugging you. Your own question is your own answer.

  • Yes it is. Many say confronter her. If you need to "correct" a girls behavior on something so basic, there is nothing to correct. I'd leave her and never let her know why.

  • Not exactly but I'd say it's close enough.

    Did your girl ask you how you felt before she did it?
    On one hand it's her body but she kind of is committed to you.

  • Yyyurppp

  • 1. You can only cheat if you are married or engaged.
    2. This is called adultery
    3. Adultery is PHYSICAL SEXUAL ACT
    4. Therefore while it maybe morally wrong, it is not cheating.

  • Do you feel like you have been cheated on? If yes, then that's cheating.

    • Kinda ya

    • How do you think she'd take it if you did the same thing with someone else?

    • I don't think she would be very happy

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  • Yes it is emotional cheating
    Ask her why she is cheating on you?

  • Yes it is

  • Yeah it is. Did you confront your friend too? How long are they chatting etc?

  • Ah yes, that would get you thrown out the door head first 😆

    • Specifically from the second floor in a high rise building.

  • I wonder how a girl can send her nudes to everyone? If it is not cheating, at least csn't be appreciated.

  • Yes, its called emotional cheating and you need to confront her about it.

    • Do you think I should message her again from his phone see how far she would go

    • If you want too. Although I think its pointless, you can if you want to. I would wonder if anythings going on between her and your buddy.

    • No because my buddy was the one who told me that he thought she was coming on to him the last time he saw her. I didn't believe it I thought he must be mistaken and then he said he'd get me a beer that if he asks for nudes that she would send them. And I was like there's no way she would ever do that but she did

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  • It's a form of cheating.

  • Why would a girl send nudes to another guys phone even if you asked her to?

    • Apparently she must like him

  • Yes it is not less its adult movie job you have an your partner new about an accepted when you met

  • Your girlfriend is a whore.

  • of course

  • You're asking this question so I'm going to say you're feeling like it is therefore it is

  • Yes...

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